On Forgiveness and How to Let Go of Your Past Pain and Hurt
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by James Huang
1M ago
Introduction Hello there! Been a while since my last update and I would love to share my recent realizations on healing yourself and forgiveness in this blog. Why should you care? Well, I think we can all agree that a lot of us have been traumatized by injustice and abuse in our lifetime. Whether it’s bullying, discrimination, toxic relationships, betrayals, or parental neglect/abuse. These things are always difficult to heal from and coping with maladaptive behaviors won’t ultimately help you. It’s also quite common to see resentment and anger being expressed by people who have been hurt in t ..read more
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Guilty Until Proven Innocent - Why You Gotta be a Realist When Dating
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by James Huang
1y ago
Alright, I’m typically all for being a hopeless romantic and positive thinking. But I’m going to tell you a harsh truth that you need to hear: That Hollywood lovey-dovey bullshit is a lie. It rarely exists in the real world. When it comes to dating, Including myself, everyone is trying to put on their best behavior when they first meet someone. And that’s the best-case scenario. Some people are straight-up lying about who they are on dating apps and first dates. It’s a fucking wild world out here my friend and you have to adopt a “guilty until proven innocent” mentality. I’m not saying that yo ..read more
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Lessons on Being Too Hard on Yourself and Negative Self-Talk
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by James Huang
1y ago
Being very hard on myself is something I struggled a lot with in life. I was raised by strict parents who had insanely high expectations of me and demanded perfection from me. Whenever I didn’t perform well at school I would be verbally abused and belittled. I’m not trying to tell a sob story here. But because of my childhood, I didn’t know what true self-love was for the longest time. I treated myself like how my parents would for the most part of my life. I had a very toxic relationship with myself. I constantly felt this insatiable need to prove to myself that I was worthy and good enough ..read more
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On Feeling Depressed - How to Manage it and Bounce Back Fast
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by James Huang
1y ago
In today’s post, I’d like to talk about how to manage depression and not let negative emotions wreck your life. Keep in mind, I don’t have major depressive disorder so I’m not qualified to speak on that. But I have felt very depressed many times in my life. And I know a lot of guys struggle with this as well. Over the years I have become much better at managing depressive moods and I can typically get myself out of rut very fast nowadays. But I can still vividly remember feeling depressed for days and weeks on end whenever life let me down in the past. I remember feeling so depressed I didn’t ..read more
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Biz Series - How to Network with Successful People
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by James Huang
1y ago
Introduction Today I’d like to talk about how to make friends with people who are older and more successful than you. I’m not saying that you shouldn’t have friends who are your equals. But It is important that you network with people who are way ahead of you in life and who can teach you things about money, women, etc. These are the 5 things I do to befriend guys who own mid to high 6 fig businesses or even multi-millionaires. You have to show confidence and potential When you first meet these people, you need to be realistic about yourself. You are not their equals and they have very few rea ..read more
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Biz Series - How to Get High Ticket Clients if You Are a Freelancer
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by James Huang
1y ago
Introduction Alright, something a little different today. Forget about the girls let’s talk money. I sell high-ticket photoshoots and I’ve learned a thing or two about attracting high-end clients. But it didn’t happen overnight and I was dealing with lots of low-paying and annoying clients earlier in my career. Here are 4 things you must do to be able to attract top-paying clients You have to show competence and have a legit offer I don’t believe a business will last if the offer/service is bullshit. People with money are not dumb and they will not buy something just because it’s expensive. I ..read more
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As a Man You Have to Compete from a Healthy Place to Win in Life
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by James Huang
1y ago
I had this thought recently while I was high on some good legal Canadian weed and reflecting on life. I thought, “As a man, the only way to thrive in life, get everything you want, and have true inner peace is to be better, stronger, and more competitive than most other men”. And I don’t wanna say this to make anyone feel bad. This is only my personal view, maybe you don’t operate like me and that’s perfectly fine. If you are happy and content with your current life then more power to you. But the thing is a lot of people also live in denial. They know they want more out of life, they know the ..read more
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The Ultimate Breakup Survival Guide From SW - How to Use it to Win
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by James Huang
1y ago
The Introduction In today’s post, I’m going to share my insights on moving on from a major breakup as fast as possible.  I just went through a breakup at the beginning of this year. I was with the same girl for 3+ years, she was very loving and kind to me until the very end.  It was very painful when the breakup first happened. I cried my eyes out every day in the first week after the breakup.  But overall I handled it like a gangster, used the pain and sadness to get back on a good life trajectory, and now I’m dating again and life is good. If you are going through something si ..read more
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Don’t Worry About Being a Minority Guy, Worry About Being a Man
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by James Huang
1y ago
I have to head to a photo shoot in a bit but just wanna quickly write something for you before my work. I noticed that a lot of Asian/Brown guys I know in real life and online seem to think the only reason they are not getting the respect, girls, and success they want is that they are minorities and are being victimized by racism. I’m not saying this isn’t true to some extent. And I used to think like that too. I was 40lbs overweight, I didn’t have any confidence, I wasn’t even manly enough to tell a girl I liked her, and I was working a minimum-wage job. Yet SOMEHOW in my mind, the only reaso ..read more
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It’s Ok to be Nice to People, But You Have to Do This Also
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by James Huang
1y ago
OK, I’m going to clear up some common misconceptions about being a nice guy in today’s post. A lot of guys seem to think being nice to people is a bad thing. And the only way to get girls and get ahead in life is to be an asshole. This is completely false and it’s coming from a butthurt place. I used to be a nice guy, too. I got taken advantage of all the time, I never got that many girls despite being “nice” to them, and even when I was being “nice” to people, it wasn’t entirely by my own choice. See, there’s actually a big difference between being a “nice guy” and a kind, giving, and strong ..read more
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