Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with nine years in adult entertainment and five years working for Lovers. Was it something I said? QUICK LINKS: What is Dirty Talk? This is Your Brain on Obscenities: Why People Love Talking Dirty Digital Love Letters: Sexting, Thirst Traps, & Sliding into DM’s 8 Ways to Enhance Your Dirty Talk The Best Dirty Talk Resources for Beginners Trigger Words: 35 Dirty Talk Examples What is Dirty Talk? Dirty talk is the use of provocative language to enhance a sexual experience. Pet names, sexual commands, insults, and vivid ..read more

Guest written by a Lovers employee who prefers to remain anonymous Pooping is a shame-free fact of life, everyone does it. But, while prepping for Anal sex questions arise over the possibility of poop finding a way to ruin the moment. First and foremost, it's perfectly natural to encounter a bit of poop during your Anal adventures. However, some individuals opt for Anal Douching as a go-to solution for cleansing before Anal sex. If you're considering this method, here's all the knowledge you need to cleanse with comfort. QUICK LINKS: What is Anal Douching? Why Should I Use an Anal Douche? How ..read more

Guest written by Rain Andersen (@rainsunae), Lovers Community Manager Exploring the world of Sex Toys can be an exhilarating journey for anyone looking to enhance their intimate experiences. In this article, we'll provide you with the best beginner Sex Toy resources, introduce you to popular Sex Toy styles, and toys that cater to unique preferences. Read until the end to learn how delving into advanced Sex Toys and techniques can elevate your intimate experiences- and with the right knowledge and resources, can lead to a fulfilling and empowering sexual journey ..read more

Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_), a marketing and e-commerce coordinator for Lovers. Rain is a retired sex worker, pleasure advocate, and sexual wellness expert. Rain has worked in the adult entertainment industry for eight years and in the adult retail industry for four years. QUICK LINKS: Why Do People Like Nipple Stimulation? How Do You Stimulate the Nipples? A Guide to Nipple Clamps Why Do People Enjoy Nipple Stimulation? If you or a partner enjoy having your breasts and nipples stimulated, a recent study from The Journal of Sex Medicine may give you some clues as to wh ..read more

Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with eight years in adult entertainment and six years working for Lovers. Each year, we like to look back on the best-selling and most popular products at Lovers. This year's top products include some of the most renowned brands in the industry- ranked the highest among Lovers Afterglow Members for their design, functionality, and ease of use. Discover the Top 10 Products on everyone’s Wishlist this holiday season, available online and in our retail stores. 10. The We-Vibe Chorus 9. Lovers Foaming Toy Cleaner 8. Sportsheets O ..read more

Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with nine years in adult entertainment and five years working for Lovers. Some researchers have suggested that scent has the power to influence our sexual behaviors and proclivities. In this article, we’ll discuss how people are using scent to attract new partners, and how brands like Eye of Love are helping them to do so. Many animals rely on their sense of smell to communicate, locate prey, and keep predators at bay. Though humans may not rely on scent for these purposes, we are still very susceptible to their influence. Q ..read more

Guest written by Rain Andersen (@wearenotfriends_) a veteran sworker with nine years in adult entertainment and five years working for Lovers. Still unsure about what to gift your loved one's this holiday season? Sex toys once considered risque have becoming increasingly common in American households, and for good reason. Google's Gifting in the Pandemic Survey and Etsy's 2020 Holiday Marketplace Insights highlight a growing demand for wellness and self-care products in response to the challenges American's have faced over the last three years. This has helped to position s ..read more

Don’t sleep on the thrusting vibrator. In fact, you should probably bring this sex toy to bed WITH you. By combining stimulating sensations and motions, thrusting vibrators offer a different take on traditional sex toys and can help take your pleasure to the next level. Plus, they offer hands-free penetration: with or without a partner.  Want to get to our Thrusting Vibrator recommendations fast? Lovers Joy Stick Thruster Vibrator  Evolved Thrust and Go Mountable Travel Vibrato Playboy Pleasure Big Bunny Energy Playboy Pleasure Bring It On  QUICK LINKS: What is a Thrusting Vi ..read more

Want to get to the good stuff fast? Check out the top Butt Plugs mentioned in this blog: Playboy Pleasure Tail Trainer Lovers Anal Plug Training Set Boneyard Bangers Anal Training Kit Pink Gemstone Anal Plug Set  So you’re curious about anal play? Welcome! As you might imagine, the anus has a high concentration of nerve endings which can create a lot of pleasure- yes, whether or not you have a prostate! But, just like any physical activity, it’s a good idea to stretch beforehand. QUICK LINKS: What is Anal Training? Why is Anal Training Important? How to Anal Train: A Step-by-Step ..read more

Guest Written by Bobby Box (@bybobbybox) is a freelance writer and editor whose work on sex and culture has been published in countless publications, including: Playboy, Elle, NewNowNext, Billboard, Daily Beast, Them., The Advocate, Women’s Health, Mel Magazine and AskMen. Want to get to the good stuff fast? Check out the top Strokers mentioned in this blog: Fun Factory Manta  Fleshlight Pilot  SVAKOM Alex Neo Thrusting Stroker Playboy Pleasure Solo Stroker Arcwave Ion Pleasure Air Stroker Pulse III Duo Vibrating Stroker People often approach sex toys with an “if it ..read more