Have you ever hooked up with someone and thought to yourself, "I am DEFINITELY not falling for this person! They're not even my type!" Yeah, well, that's what happened to me. I fell hard for my "situationship," and they broke my heart. But within that heartbreak, I unwittingly embarked on a journey of self-discovery as my own attachment issues came to light despite all my effort to hide from them. In the pursuit of validity and orgasms, my situationship ultimately acted like a mirror, forcing me to confront the deep-seated attachment issues that had silently influenced my relationships. It's ..read more

Let's be honest here; great sex is a real game-changer. It feels good, fun and brings you closer to your partner. But did you know that amazing sex is also important for your health and happiness? That's right, it's not just about getting your rocks off. Sex comes with many unbelievable benefits, such as reducing your risk of stroke or heart disease, helping reduce the symptoms of depression, improving communication between you and your partner, and so on. So grab a snack and a drink, sit back, and let me teach you the health benefits of sex.  All products recommended are personally sele ..read more

Communication is critical to the health of any relationship. Often, communication starts off as idyllic and healthy. Over time, it can break down and become strained; that's why you're here, right? If you and your partner are struggling with a lack of communication, you both must take steps to address the issue at hand. What is your overall goal? Improving your communication skills one day at a time. I will take you on a journey to fix the lack of communication in a relationship in this easy-to-understand guide. All products recommended are personally selected by me, Elaine S. Turner. I choos ..read more

Dating can be an exciting and nerve-wracking experience, especially if you need clarification about what you want. The prospect of setting dating goals may seem odd or even aggressive. But it's how you get clarity before you sink your teeth into the dating game (likely not for the first time.) It's also essential that you know what your dating goals are so you can communicate them clearly to a potential partner. That ensures you're both on the same page and have no unspoken expectations. In this article, I will walk you through identifying your dating goals so you can finally get started with ..read more

Sexual desire should happen spontaneously and impulsively, right? Wrong. Most people get "sex education" from pornography. We've learned that you should be drop-dead wet as soon as the sexy pizza delivery guy shows up. You should be down to get down. Well, this isn't the case for most of the world. In Emily Nagoski's landmark book, Come as You Are, spontaneous arousal is the exception rather than the rule. There are several types of desire that you need to consider before you start worrying about your libido.  This won't be the definitive guide to discovering your one desire type. But in ..read more

We're well into another year, and the time for resolutions has come and gone. You've disappointed yourself again and fallen far from where you wanted to be. That's a normal part of the process of reaching your goals, but should it be? There is a reason why you never follow through on your resolutions. There's a reason why you keep disappointing yourself. There's a reason why you feel stuck and lost. You need to include the secret ingredient of reaching your goals, self-trust.  All products recommended are personally selected by me, Elaine S. Turner. I choose them and genuinely believe in ..read more

What is a penis ring? Do penis rings work? How can I make my penis bigger? How can I prevent premature ejaculation? What is the best first sex toy? Erections are temperamental, to say the least. There are two common complaints among penis owners (hereafter called "men" in this article for brevity.) The first is that they ejaculate too early for their liking. The second most common complaint is that you either can't get or stay hard. Enter the penis ring, also known as a cock ring. These simple, affordable, and reusable devices can help remedy many men's issues with their penis.  I ..read more

What does emotionally available mean? How do I know if a man is emotionally unavailable? What does it mean to be emotionally unavailable? What are signs that someone is emotionally unavailable? Am I emotionally unavailable? Have you ever gotten into a situationship by accident? The man you went out with in the first place said he was looking for a relationship, but then he back-pedaled? He seems to want all the benefits of having a girlfriend but isn't willing to commit. These actions define emotional unavailability.  Emotionally unavailable men are plentiful everywhere these days ..read more

How can I handle rejection from a guy? How can I handle rejection gracefully? How do I get over being rejected? How can I hope with rejection? How do I get over a break-up? Dating is a vulnerable experience. You put your heart on your sleeve and try to put yourself out there with great care. But with vulnerability comes hurt, rejection, and questioning your worth. It's all part of the process of how to handle rejection from a guy.  Learning how to handle rejection gracefully and cope with it can be a process full of hurt. But on the other side of rejection is personal growth. You le ..read more

What is a dating coach? What does a dating coach do? What does a dating coaching session look like? Why should I try dating coaching? Do I need a dating coach? What makes someone the best dating coach? Dating and relationships are rough. Especially in the current world, finding your way in the dating minefield can be a serious challenge. A challenge that very few people have the time for. That's why there are dating coaches. A dating coach works with you 1:1 to help you find the right love for you.  What is a dating coach? A dating coach helps you figure out why your current dati ..read more