Almost everyone craves intimacy, it’s one of the most natural human things. But getting your intimate needs met in a safe and supportive way can be a lot easier said than done.  That can definitely be true for people with neurodivergence. If you or your partner has some level of neurodivergence, whether it’s ADHD, autism spectrum, or something else,  it doesn’t mean you don’t want sex or intimacy – it may just be a bit more challenging to navigate. But we’re here to normalize sex and intimacy for everyone. That’s why we’ve laid out our top tips on navigating intimacy and neurodiversi ..read more

People can experience shame around sex and their bodies – no matter what kind of equipment they’re born with. If you or your partner has a penis, then you’ve likely had to deal with the ups and downs that can come with sex, pun intended.  There is so much emphasis on erections or “getting hard”. But they are not necessary to have sex or experience deep intimacy.  If a partner with a penis can’t get an erection, they may feel ashamed or embarrassed, while their partner is left wondering what’s wrong with them or if their partner isn’t attracted to them. It’s time we take the pres ..read more

You’ve heard of the G-spot, and you’re hopefully well acquainted with the clitoris, but what about another, a bit more elusive pleasure spot hidden deeper up the vagina. We’re talking about the A-spot. Sound familiar? If not, no worries, we’re here to tell you all about it – and just how to pleasure it. A-spot 101 First off – what and where is the A-spot? The A-spot – one of the deep vaginal erogenous zones – is often called the female prostate because it’s located in the same place as the prostate for male-bodied people. You’ll find it deep inside the vagina, between the cervix and the bladde ..read more

I tasted authentic matcha for the first time when I was 17 years old on holiday in Japan. My dad was living and working in Tokyo at the time so I had the opportunity to experience Japanese lifestyle a couple times a year - I loved it! I vividly remember being in a bamboo forrest visiting some rural Buddhist temples, when I was poured this bowl of frothy green tea as part of a traditional tea ceremony. It was vibrant, fragrant, frothy and DELICIOUS. I also enjoyed the smooth caffeine high afterwards...  This is when I became a tea enthusiast.  So when I found a sup ..read more

Do you have wild fantasies running through your mind? You’re not alone. Sex makes life juicy, deep, and exciting. And those sexual fantasies you catch yourself daydreaming about (or masturbating to) – they’re perfectly normal. Still, it’s easy to treat them as just that…fantasies. But you can make your sex life even deeper and juicier by communicating with your partner about your fantasies. Easier said than done, you say? We get it. That’s why we created this guide for communicating your sexual fantasies with your partner. There’s no shame in the game We’re gonna let you in on a little secret ..read more

Calling all vixens and minxes!  Most of us are at least a little bit kinky, especially if you’ve landed here. But tapping into that energy can be a little intimidating – especially if it’s new for you. In the words of the great Rihanna “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but chains and whips excite me.” We’re right there with you RiRi. That’s why we’re giving you our top tips for embracing your inner kinkster. Know your boundaries One of the most important things when you’re exploring the world of kink is to know your boundaries, and be able to communicate them. Getting kinky can be ex ..read more

Sex makes space for pleasure, connection, and even…adventure.  Your sex life is a part of your life where you can explore and play. Explore different types of connections, different types of sensations, and different fantasies. What sort of fantasies run through your mind when you’re the most turned on? Do you dream of dominating or being dominated? Got threesomes on your mind? Do you love the idea of pegging your partner? No matter what your fantasy is, they’re all welcome here. Not sure where to start? We’re here to give you a rundown on how to explore your sexual fantasies, using sex t ..read more

The bullet-proof coffee recipe for women who want happy hormones, balanced moods, more energy and heightened fertility.  I love my coffee, but I don’t always love how it makes me feel afterwards and what it does to my hormones. Can you relate? I have discovered a way of consuming coffee that doesnt f*ck with your hormones and doesn’t make you crash 20 minutes after drinking it and wound up feeling wired and jittery. If anything coffee often makes me less productive, more moody, frazzled and wired. So, do you want to know how I make coffee work for me and my hormones? I a ..read more

Variety is the spice of life and that’s definitely true when it comes to vulvas. Just like the rest of our bodies, vulvas come in all shapes and sizes – and we’re here for it all. Cis-women and folks who were assigned female at birth (AFAB) have been told to hide and be ashamed of their bodies. We’re fed ideas about what our bodies should look like, even down to our vulvas (hello mainstream porn). But we’re in a new era. One of reclamation. Of embracing our bodies. Of fully accepting, and even celebrating every hair, bump, labia, and lump.  Here’s to celebrating our vulvas, in every phase ..read more

You’re hot stuff. Trust us. But sometimes it’s hard to believe it yourself – we understand. Confidence can ebb and flow throughout your life, but it’s like a muscle. The more you work it out, the stronger it gets.  Small actions here and there can help you move through the world feeling more empowered and sure of yourself. Think of things like flirting with a stranger, sharing a piece of art you’ve been hiding, or going to that pole dancing class you’ve always wanted to try. To a certain extent – confidence is cumulative. But it can take some work to build it up. One of our favorite ..read more