We’re excited to share about a new item in our Etsy story. We have packaged a deluxe version of the swinger Jenga game for sale, which includes the boxed Jenga game, a blindfold, a sexy paddle, soft flogger, nipple clamps, 4 shot glasses, some candies, and the printed directions for all three versions of sexy swinger Jenga! You can check out the listing on Etsy here. The only things you’ll need to potentially add are: whipped cream and some alcohol as an adult beverage ..read more

The following took place over a 2 month period of time in 2022. A year later, I still think about it. My wife and I have profiles on a couple different swinger sites, including SLS (swinglifestyle). A few months ago, a younger couple (in their 30s?), messaged us and complimented us on our profile. They said we sounded both sane and nice. We have some certifications on our profile too, so that helped. The younger couple said they were curious about the lifestyle. Me (hubby) began to chat with the couple, and I suggested some podcasts and other resources that they might check out. They never exp ..read more

A popular adult website called wifelovers.com has gone down again for an extended period of time, for the second time. Is it the third time? Or fourth time? The wifelovers.com website features pictures, videos and online discussion around a variety of topics. They claim to receive over 3,500 new pictures being posted every day. It’s apparently been in operation since 1997, and it continues to look like a website from a couple decades ago in terms of the look & feel and primitive navigation. Some of the frequent posters include swingers, so this author became familiar with the website a few ..read more

Apparently, there are millions of people who continue to suffer from ailments and weakened conditions thanks to Covid. My wife is likely one of them. She contracted COVID twice: the first time was summer of 2021, and the second time was late September. She’s been vaccinated and boosted, which we figure helped to keep COVID from being more severe for her. But it appears she is likely one of the many millions of people who is suffering from Long Haul Covid (or whatever you want to call it). She’s been to multiple doctors regarding significant pain that the doctors don’t think is arthritis and no ..read more

We just returned from a week in New Orleans for the world’s biggest swinger event — Naughty in N’awlins. Wow, while it was often overwhelming it was a helluva good time. We met so many wonderful couples there and we hope to return in 2023. We also love that everyone has a different journey with the swinger lifestyle and we love hearing their stories. Our trip to New Orleans was a wonderful advancement in our experiences as swingers. We started just two years ago (2020), and while we experienced several hot activities in our first year, 2021 was a bit of a downer thanks to the pandemic. We also ..read more

When we entered the lifestyle in 2020, we did not partake of the devil’s flower. While we were happy to go down on any pretty woman named Mary Jane, we weren’t smokers of the green leaf of the same name. Are swingers more likely than others to be 420 friendly? Is there a benefit in consuming THC before playing with others? Our journey in the lifestyle has brought some surprising changes in our own rules and guidelines with non-monogamy. But two years ago, I never imagined we would become one of those couples that you might label as “420 friendly”. What happened? Cannabis became legal to grow ..read more

Toward the end of 2021, I was thinking our swinger journey had ended. The wife had lost interest and our youngest had also moved back home, which certainly hampered any potential play with others. But in early 2021, the youngest moved back out and we decided to attend another hotel party. While our first hotel party experience was subpar, the second time was definitely more enjoyable. One important key? Making connections with attendees before the party. The same organizers ran the event and they use a website platform called vafriendsonline.com to handle ticket sales and to provide an online ..read more

My wife and I are introverts. We don’t have the gift of gab, but we enjoy and relish great conversation. We’ve been to a few house parties, clubs and hotel parties and we keep a list of ice breaker questions and conversation starters in our arsenal. One basic tip to keep in mind when attempting to strike up a conversation: never ask a question that can be answered ‘yes’ or ‘no’. Make sure to ask questions with a broad enough foundation that get people talking. Here are several that we hope you find useful. For the ladies: Compliment another lady’s outfit, nails or shoes as a conversation star ..read more

We recently attended our first hotel party for swingers. I know many people are still waiting to jump back into events with large crowds, but since my wife and I got fully vaccinated last month, we decided to attend. It wasn’t a full hotel takeover but we did have the entire top floor of guest rooms in the hotel dedicated to our group. The organizers had about 120 people register, and we estimated seeing about half that many show up in the main ballroom area. During our 3 hour drive to the destination, we listened to a popular podcast called Swinger Diaries. They have a great podcast about hot ..read more

A recent reddit post asked the swinger community for any funny lifestyle stories and/or swinging horror stories. While we’ve already shared about our very first experience gone wrong, there were several funny and/or horrifying swinger stories from the reddit thread that are definitely worth sharing! I am posting the best ones with a few light edits for readability. [Male author]: In one of our first experiences I wasn’t doing a good enough job of spanking, so the girl looked back at me and yelled “hit me, you pussy!” It was more funny than anything. [Male author]: I once had a dog shove their ..read more