Swingers clubs and parties can be loads of fun and a great opportunity to socialize and get to know like-minded couples and singles. Most gatherings feature some type of theme, and there are a few key pieces to add to your wardrobe to suit these occasions. Pajama & Lingerie Parties Wardrobe Must Haves: Ladies should consider corsets, bustiers, bodysuits, thigh high stockings, garter belts, g-strings and cute panties. Men can wear sexy robes, boxers, even dress pants for a stylish look. This theme is most common at hotel takeovers, swingers cruise and swingers resort but is also popular wit ..read more

While being naked and beholden by the gaze of someone you’re about to get intimate with makes you feel energized, amazing inside and excited, you might be into the exhibitionists scene. A unique aspect of the swingers lifestyle, Lets uncover the world of exhibitionism and see what it’s all about. What is Exhibitionism? The desire to be watched by others during sexual activity is a more common fantasy than many would think. A recent study indicates that 57% of women and 66% percent of men fantasize about having public sex or fondling each other while onlookers watch. Healthy and sex-positive, e ..read more

A first MFF (Male Female Female) or MFM (Male Female Male) threesome can be incredible, but without being prepared, it can be a total nightmare. While we all have a fantasy in our minds of how the excursion will go, there are a few things to address before inviting another person into the bedroom for lifestyle play. The most common lifestyle threesome is the MFF threesomes, but there are some couples interested in inviting another male for play time fun. Most men aren’t keen on having another male participating and for them there are strict rules or boundaries that is outlined before play begi ..read more

Getting to the heart of the issue, no one can pleasure us better than we can pleasure ourselves when the urge strikes. While masturbation is often considered a “no-no” topic, there are times when our lover can’t be there and we crave satisfaction. Fortunately, there are ways to get off with masturbation, so here are a few techniques to keep things spicy—even if you’re flying solo. 1. Set the Mood in Your Surrounding Treat yourself like the king or queen you are and establish an ambiance similar to one you’d set up before having a partner come over for some action. In other words, be your own h ..read more

When two people enter into a relationship, that spark of electricity can be extremely influencing, making sex particularly passionate and exciting. This is called the ‘honeymoon phase,’ and like real honeymoons, this phase inevitably comes to an end after a few months or a couple of years. Once this period has run its course, things often cool off between the sheets and that spark fizzles. Essentially, the fireworks of New Year’s Eve can suddenly resemble Thanksgiving reverence instead. However, there’s no need to be too concerned if you have a strong emotional bond. It is completely possible ..read more

While many people are aware that the swingers lifestyle involves couples engaging romantically with others outside of their primary partner, many don’t understand what swingers are really all about. Here, we’ll share a few of the lesser known facts about the lifestyle that many don’t know. 1. There are Likely More People Into Swinging Than You Think The loving act of swinging is still somewhat underground in the mainstream and is often misguidedly considered taboo. Even though the practice is thought of as taboo to many, it’s more common than one might think. Evidence from Psychology Today sug ..read more

Swinger couples have voluntary agreed to step outside of their monogamous partnership when they choose to explore the lifestyle. While the opportunities for wild nights, great sex and the chance to meet new couples in the swingers lifestyle can be exciting there are just some emotions that can impede the good times ahead. Let’s pull down the blindfold and take a peek at these tips for keeping those feelings in check when partner sharing. How to Cope with Feelings of Neglect & Partner Fears There might be incidences when one partner is enjoying the experience a little more than the other. T ..read more

Before entering into any relationship, it’s ideal for all parties getting involved to have a  better understanding of exactly what to expect from one another. While traditional relationships tend to come with an expectation of monogamy, there are some people who may be—or find themselves interested in—having an open relationship or exploring the polyamory lifestyle. Here, we’ll discuss the difference between monogamy and an open relationship and the pros and cons of both lifestyle options. What Are Monogamous Relationships and the Perks of Having One? Relationships that are defined by exp ..read more

A cuckquean is a wife or girlfriend of a husband/boyfriend(cuckold). These women get off on their partner watching them have sex with other men. In some cases, husbands are able to please their wife and fetishize the cuckold lifestyle. Cuckqueans really love this lifestyle as couples can reap huge benefits from participating in this sub-sect of the swingers lifestyle. Here are five perks that couples can anticipate. 1. Satisfy Each Other’s Fetishes Cuckquean and cuckold fantasies are a fetish that most swinger couples understand and in fact share these similar interest. If a man dreams of his ..read more

The concept of mastering orgasm control has mystified men for centuries, just as many women have chased the dream of having them upon command. However, how does one achieve this goal? Can it be done alone or only with a partner? We’ll answer these burning questions and much while discussing the art of edging, which is the sexual practice of metaphorically taking yourself to the ‘edge’ of orgasms before allowing yourself to climax. Why do this? Well, here are three reasons to give edging—aka peaking or surfing—a try. 1. Learn to Achieve Orgasms When You Most Desire Women achieve orgasm when mas ..read more