Watching others engage in intimacy and sex acts can be a powerful stimulator comparable to direct participation. Hence, the rise in demand for pornographic films and photos. However, voyeurs are common in the swinging lifestyle and can enjoy more variety in their sex life through mere observation. What Is Voyeurism? Voyeurism involves receiving sexual gratification by watching others who are undressing, naked, or participating in sexual activity. Those in the swingers lifestyle understand the importance of consent and boundaries before engaging in this fetish. The rewards with an agreeable par ..read more

Sexual fantasies are only a dream for many, but one of the perks of being a swinger couple is the ability to fulfill sexual fantasies. While it might seem a bit intimidating at first to make those fantasies reality, there are many ways to share intimacy that don’t necessarily include intercourse (but the best do!) From sensual massages and group sex situations, to dom/sub play and even heading outdoors for some sexy playtime fun. Let’s explore some of the most common visions that many crave in their sex lives. Domination and Submission Fantasies If you’re considering taking your intimate exper ..read more

From clothing optional resorts to embarking on the high seas, there are many ways travelers with an open mind can have a good time on their next vacation. Check out some of the hottest and sexiest upcoming lifestyle options available for couples interested in swingers vacations or a lifestyle cruise. Get Tempted at Allures Tropical SEXcapade in Costa Rica Snag a last minute booking for a Costa Rica excursion through Topless Travel at one of the best boutique swingers resorts in South America. There are 20 luxurious guest accommodations at this all-inclusive destination, and guests receive meal ..read more

In the world of BDSM play, things can get a bit tricky when it comes to communicating whether you like it or are comfortable with the scene, or if you want your dominant to ease up or stop entirely. BDSM safe words should be short, simple and to the point, but in some scenes it may be important to for some non-verbal safe words. We’ll cover some of the basics of creating safe words and actions in the BDSM lifestyle. Tips for Choosing a Safe Word Those in the lifestyle who love getting extra kinky will want to have a safe word that is memorable for both partners. Make sure to have a conversatio ..read more

Let’s face it—in the swingers lifestyle bisexual women are the norm and it’s almost expected that female swingers go both ways. However, when it comes to bi-curious men in the swingers world, reactions and expectations can be quite different due to a long-standing double standard amid the lifestyle. That being said, let’s move along and answer these commonly asked question even among ‘normal’ lifestyles and partnerships. Does Being Bi-curious Make One Gay? Absolutely not, and being bi-curious doesn’t even necessarily mean a man is bisexual—the same goes for females. Curiosity may have been wha ..read more

There is no lack of ways to have a bit of naughty fun in the bedroom, and impact play is one of the top spontaneous ‘go to’s’ for bold and experimenting couples. While those experienced in the BDSM lifestyle may be accustomed to the concept of erotic spanking, the art of pleasing a partner while engaging in the act can be illusive. We’re here to assist with a few tips to ensure success and maximum satisfaction for all involved. Head for the Rear…But Don’t Forget the Rest of the Body Impact play is the term used by swingers and vanilla couples when discussing any form of impact on one’s body fo ..read more

Entering into the swingers lifestyle is sure to provide some good times, but those first time swinger meet & greet opportunities can be challenging. Unless you’re an outgoing individual who is accustomed to meeting new people and enjoying social gatherings, you might want to be prepared with a few of these tips and tricks on how to break the ice at an upcoming event. Do Some Initial Research One of the best ways to alleviate anxiety about swinger meet ups is to do a bit of research about the event you are planning to attend. Doing so can help you be prepared for the festivities, which is i ..read more

Partners don’t necessarily have to be swingers or lifestyle couples to enjoy the wonderful realm of outdoor sex. Communing with Mother Nature while coupling can bring couples and even groups closer together. To get things rolling in the great outdoors, there are a few safety tips and precautions to heed to make the experience one to remember and one you’ll want to repeat time and time again. Be Prepared for Planned or Spontaneous Outdoor Sex Not a lot is needed to get it on outside, and what you want to have on hand can easily be stored away in a duffle bag in the closet or trunk of the car fo ..read more

If things get stale in the bedroom or it’s just time to try something new with your  partner, one of the most popular lifestyle kinks involves a sexual act called double penetration, or DP for short. However, DP isn’t just for those with an alternative lifestyle, as many people enjoy it as a part of their vanilla lifestyle with their monogamous partner. Let’s explore what it is, what it involves and some tips for getting started with doubling up on sexual fun. What is Double Penetration? DP is the act of penetrating two openings in a sexual way, most typically the anus and the vagina. Dou ..read more

Swinger chatrooms are a safe space for lifestyle couples to connect. As the pandemic continues, swingers couples are becoming more eager to connect with other lifestyle couples via online chatrooms. A place where social distancing is the norm, yet real connections can be made that might come to physical fruition when things return to some semblance of normalcy. Let’s get into how and why connecting in swinger chatrooms is not only best for now, but also for any other time as you seek to connect with like minded people. Why Choose Swingers Chatrooms? The truth is, most of us already chat online ..read more