Swingers Clubs In The USA Have you ever wondered if there are swingers clubs in your area? Check this list to see if there is a swingers lifestyle club near you! This updated (January 2022) and all-inclusive list includes swingers clubs, venues, and small resorts in the US! Make sure to check that club’s website to read that club/venue’s membership rules. Due to different states’ legal rules, each place varies. Some states may not have any public swingers clubs and the swinger lifestyle scene is more underground with house parties and private invites. You can find private parties listed on var ..read more

Temptation Cancun Resort Review – A Lifestyle Couple’s Honest Experience Welcome to our review of Temptation Resort in Cancun, Mexico! If you prefer reviews in video format, you can watch our YouTube video review here, or if you prefer reviews in audio format, you can listen to our podcast episode review here. Make sure to read until the end to get exclusive sale prices. First, a little background on us: we’re Bella and Jase, two high school sweethearts since 2007 who opened up our relationship in 2014. We’re currently both 30 years old at the time of this blog post, and we’ve been in the swin ..read more

Why Are Non-Monogamous People Proud To Be Polyamorous but Ashamed To Identify As Swingers? A swinger couple’s perspective on the stigma placed on swinging vs polyamory “I’m monogamous, but I’d be far less embarrassed to be polyamorous than be a swinger.” “Polyamory just seems more respectable than swinging.” “At least there’s more to polyamory than just sex.” – Users’ comments on our various TikTok videos The term “swinging” has long been associated with non-monogamous behavior, specifically, couples engaging in sexual activity with other people outside of their relationship. However, this t ..read more

How I Overcame Performance Anxiety Induced ED (Erectile Dysfunction) in the Swinging Lifestyle One of the most common questions we get asked regarding the swinging lifestyle from men is, “Is it normal to experience sexual performance anxiety and have issues getting an erection in the lifestyle?” It’s something that seems to have such a stigma, but is something we’ve come across often in the lifestyle, and it’s something I’ve personally experienced as well. This post may contain affiliate links, which means we may receive a commission if you make a purchase using these links, at no extra cost t ..read more

Swingers Newbie Guide; How To Get Into The Swinging Lifestyle. We compiled an in depth swingers newbie guide for couples and individuals interested in the swinging lifestyle, but unsure where or how to start. This swingers newbie guide goes over all the swinger lingo, how to find other swingers, how to introduce your partner to swinging, how to handle jealousy, and some of our best pieces of advice for newbies! Think of this as your introduction to the swinging lifestyle! We go in detail about our most frequently asked questions about swinging. 1. What is a Swinger, Unicorn, Bull, etc, and wh ..read more

Most Popular Swinger Vacations and Swinger Resorts (North America) Quick Jump: Desire Riviera Maya Resort | Desire Pearl Resort | Bliss Cruise | Temptation Resort Cancun | Temptation Cruise | Hedonism II Keep reading to see all the popular adults-only and lifestyle friendly vacation spots (resorts and cruises) for couples and individuals who are sexually adventurous or hedonistic and see which is best for you! Note: you don’t HAVE to be a swinger or get involved in anything you don’t want to or aren’t comfortable with to go on these vacations and to these resorts. Some guests are nudists, som ..read more

Most Popular Swingers Dating Sites By State and Country   The most common way to find other like-minded people in the Swinging Lifestyle is to sign up for a swinger dating site. It is the most convenient way to find other swingers in your area and to make connections. We created a list of the most popular and legitimate Swinger Dating Sites compiled in one convenient list along with a list of states the site is most popular in. Some states have multiple websites that are popular in that state. If you travel often or want more variety, we recommend being part of multiple sites to take adva ..read more

What kind of rules should my partner and I have? Setting boundaries is a way to solidify understanding your’s, your partner’s, and your relationship’s limits. It’s highly recommended to communicate with your partner and come up with a list of your own rules and boundaries together. Newbie swingers often wonder what type of rules or boundaries they should have. We compiled a list of common rules you’ll come across in the Lifestyle. While this isn’t an all-encompassing list, it includes common ones you will come across over your Lifestyle journey. Most people have a mix of some of these rules, n ..read more

List of Swinger Terms There’s a TON of swinger lingo that may sound crazy and confusing when you first hear it. We compiled a list of swinger terms for easy reference so you’ll never be confused again! Most Commonly Used Swinger Terms Swinger – A person (typically a couple) who practices consensual non-monogamy by engaging in the swapping of sexual partners and/or group sex. Swingers are typically couples but can also be individuals (see Unicorn and Bull) Swinging – The act of a type of consensual non-monogamy where a person engages in sexual activity with people, other than their pa ..read more