Here’s a question for you, dear reader… Are you confident in your ability to tell an Fboy from a high quality man? I ask because recently I’ve been watching the latest Australian season of F*Boy Island and if you haven’t heard of this before, let me give you a quick run-down of the plot… It’s a reality TV show that takes 3 gorgeous young women, 12 self-proclaimed F*ck Boys and 12 Nice Guys and puts them on an island together. Over the course of two and half weeks, these women have to date and figure out which guys are which. And the plot thickens… If the ladies choose one of the Nice Guys at ..read more

I loved to sabotage things during the early stages of dating. I would write people off immediately over tiny little icks. I had walls up. I would pretend I wasn’t looking for anything serious. I would try and play the dating “game”, but just seemed to always lose. I really wish I’d met today’s guest sooner. Dating coach Jiveny Blair-West is joining me today to discuss how we can overcome the blocks and barriers to forming a healthy and happy relationship. Jiveny is the author of the book How to Make the Biggest Decision of Your Life, which you can check out here: https://www.amazon.com.au/M ..read more

In this short, 15-minute video call, Andrew from Core Confidence Coaching interviews me about my approach to 1:1 coaching, insight into the modern dating scene and some general advice for single men and women. This is a great place to start if you want to get a feel for how I work! The post Interview: Australia’s Leading Dating & Attraction Coach appeared first on jiveny.com ..read more

There’s a lot of bad dating advice out there… As a result, often, dating can become a case of the blind leading the blind! Below are some of the most common tidbits of bad dating advice out there and what I would advise instead. 1) “It will happen when you least expect it.” It’s important to recognise that healthy, lasting relationships don’t just “happen” to people. They grow through building connections, learning through experience and refining your dating and relationship skills over time. Sadly, this dead-end advice gets thrown around a lot. The problem with it is that it makes you feel ..read more

In this episode I speak with Jiveny Blair-West all about the dating scene in 2022, love matches and attracting and sustaining partnership as a high performer woman.  Even if you’re already in a relationship, you’ll find so much value in this conversation! Tune in for: A snapshot of the dating scene in 2022  Dating mindset & being clear on what you want High-performer women; turn off’s and turn on’s for men. Adjusting to a new relationship in a way that feels safe Staying badass, not losing yourself AND being in love The post Interview: Attracting Love as a High Performer Po ..read more

Today we’re heading into the world of dating & relationships with dating and attraction coach Jiveny Blair-West. Jiveny specialises in teaching singles how to bypass superficial attraction and focus on the attracting a high-quality partner and secure a satisfying long-term relationship. We also discuss The Alchemy of Attraction, the course she created to help women aged 20-70 to develop their relationship wisdom and empower themselves to take action and find true love. The post Interview: Transforming Your Love Life with Jiveny Blair West appeared first on jiveny.com ..read more

If you choose to pick a partner for life it is an enormous decision. We can get swept away with the idealization of love, romance, dream of meeting & being swept off your feet by your ‘soulmate’ your true love, being struck by cupid’s bow, or experiencing an amazing metaphysical connection. Fairy Tales, Movies & Romance novels set up a hope that everything will be fixed when ‘True love’s Kiss’ comes along. Finding a partner CAN BE FUN! Why not aim high, dream big, manifest it, sew those wild oats, have a good go and take some risks. Dr George Blair-West is a relationship expert, resea ..read more

When it comes to dating, many of us have heard of “red flags” before. What might be less clear is how to identify a true red flag? And while we’re on the subject, what about green flags? Whether you’re just starting out with dating or already in a new relationship, it’s important to pay attention to these signals every step of the way. Below are 10 red flags and their green flag alternatives to help you decide whether or not a relationship is worth pursuing. Red flag #1: When they don’t show genuine interest in getting to know you… Here’s the thing, generally speaking people put the most eff ..read more

Why do some people tend to be more aloof and unattached in their relationships, while others are more codependent and need more reassurance? Attachment theory, studied since 1958, explains how different people have different relating styles. Understanding our own default style can help to explain many of the patterns and challenges you may face when dating and forming new relationships.  Let’s take a look at the three main attachment styles, how they’re formed in childhood, and how we can develop a more secure attachment style. Where does your attachment style come from? Psychologists ..read more

Episode Description: There is no decision that will have a greater impact on our lives than finding the one. This is the person you choose to share your emotional, parental and financial future with. Nikolina has already locked in her answer, but Claudia & Jenna are looking for some advice. This week the girls are joined by Dating & Relationship Jiveny Blair-West to unlock the science and the secrets to finding the one. The post Interview on the ‘How To Life’ Podcast: How To Find The One appeared first on jiveny.com ..read more