In this episode, I share why having a Dominant/submissive or a Leader/follower dynamic works so well for my partner (type A male) and me (type A female).  For most of my life, I’ve identified as a high achiever, type A personality woman… While this was great for my career, it wasn’t great for my romantic relationships (with masculine men)… Secretly underneath all of my shining leadership qualities, I actually wanted to be led.  I wanted to follow someone I could trust and surrender to… I just didn’t know how to do that in dating and love (until I learned how)… And until I met a man w ..read more

For most of my life, I really like having the upper hand, being in control, and having a more dominant energy… It felt like the “independent woman” thing to do and the only way to be, that would actually ensure my safety… Little did I know just how liberating it would be to learn how to surrender and to consciously choose it inside of a relationship dynamic.  This has been one of my biggest paths to freedom as a woman – learning how to create enough safety inside of myself, so that I can surrender to the leadership of my masculine partner.  Now more than ever, I feel relaxed, at ease ..read more

There’s only one guaranteed way to create the love life you want… And that’s exactly what I share in this episode… Plus 4 insanely powerful questions you can ask yourself each day (and before and after each date) that will help you attract men who will cherish and adore you.. And get closer to calling in your forever man!  (If you know you’re done trying to figure out love on your own, we’re about to open doors to our mentorship program. DM me WAITLIST on Instagram (@LeeNoto_) so you can be notified before everyone else)! —--- Want our help to create your dream love life?  ?Dating De ..read more

Babe, don’t make dating & love harder than it has to be… In this episode, I’m gonna make it super simple to understand, so you can have the love life you desire ASAP!  (I REALLY want that for you!) …And I’ll show you the ONLY 3 things you need to attract your dream man and create your dream relationship (as fast and as fun as possible)… The 3 things you MUST have are: You’re doing (the right) inner work for you A clear vision An effective dating strategy I also share helpful prompts for reflection that will help you: Illuminate your blindspots Help you form your vision Come up wit ..read more

In this episode, you’ll hear me responding to one of the women inside our mentorship program: Aligned Attraction.* She shared that prioritizes pretty much everything else before dating, including work and socializing with friends… Yet, she wants to be in a committed relationship… You probably see the issue here :p Tune into this episode to hear how I help her deconstruct what’s standing in her way and the simple two-part approach I advise she follows, so she can meet her dream man ASAP.  *Aligned Attraction is our mentorship program for self-aware single women who want to attract their fo ..read more

Girrrrllll, you better put a seat belt on for this episode, because Krista and Johnny take us on the wild, romantic adventure, where they share:  How they met + exactly what they did to attract and be ready for each other The time she blurted out she wanted a fat diamond ring (+ Johnny’s surprising response) How the Aligned Attraction Mentorship supported Krista in getting clear on and going for what she really desired in love Not one, but two AMAZING love poems (that Krista and Johnny wrote for each other) How they’re intentionally planning their future together This one is a juicy lo ..read more

Get rid of ghosters & noncommittal men for good (here’s how)… There’s NOTHING that sucks more in dating than being ghosted or being told “I’m not looking for anything serious…” by a man you’re really into… And when that happens, you feel disappointed, powerless, and heart broken, because both these things seem completely out of your control… But what if I told you they weren’t? And that you actually have more control over this than you realize?  In this episode, I share:  The ONE universal law that helps you completely eliminate men who ghost & who don’t want to commit The t ..read more

In this episode, I share 5 heart-throbbing, panty-dropping green flags to look for in dating… (If you want a long-term committed relationship) It’s not enough to just be aware of red flags (what you don’t want to experience in dating).  You MUST know what behaviors qualify as green flags (what you DO want to experience in dating).  Because where attention goes, energy flows.  So focus on getting clear about what you DO want + what would cause you to feel safe (and turned ON) by a man.  Tune into this episode to learn:  What the 5 most important green flags are (as an ..read more

Ain’t nobody got time for red flags when it comes to dating, so why are some of them hard to spot and easy to ignore? In this episode, I talk about the 3 red flags you should NEVER ignore in dating, even if the guy looks perfect on paper, has a great job, is hotter than a steamy shower, has great potential, or is the first guy you’ve dated or liked in a while… I share: What the 3 red flags are & how to spot them Why we ignore them (even when our gut or intuition tells us something is off) How to ensure you don’t ignore them anymore, so you can date men who cherish you  I also give ..read more

In this episode, Ani and I speak to one of the women inside our mentorship program: Aligned Attraction.  Louisa went from believing that there were more ‘good guys’ in LA to attracting her now partner who meets her in both the depth of her emotions and the vastness of her intellect.  Prior to joining Aligned Attraction, Louisa already had it all – a great career, amazing friends, and a life she felt truly grateful for.  The only thing that felt missing was a partner to ‘do’ this great life with.  She shared with me in one of our conversations that she believed that there we ..read more