Listen Suga, Making friends can be difficult at any age and for anyone. Having autism, though, can make establishing and maintaining those friendships so much more difficult. Given that socializing plays a big role in friendships and lack of socialization skills is a major part of autism, it’s not surprising at all that making and … Autism and Maintaining Friendships Read More » The post Autism and Maintaining Friendships appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, The days of “trying” to be perfect are gone. In reality, those days should have never existed. It is past time to let go of perfectionism– for good. I never thought I would say those words because Lord knows I was stuck on perfection in every aspect of my life. I had to … Let Go of Perfectionism And Get A Life Read More » The post Let Go of Perfectionism And Get A Life appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, Waiting on God’s timing can be hard. Really hard. But the reason we go to God in the first place is because we need help and haven’t been able to do it on our own. The problem comes in when it doesn’t seem like He’s listening because it doesn’t look like anything is … Are You Waiting On God’s Timing or Is He Waiting On You? Read More » The post Are You Waiting On God’s Timing or Is He Waiting On You? appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, Gifts are awesome. They’re even more awesome when you actually want what you’re gifted. Giving gifts to adults with autism can be fun if you put a little thought into it. But don’t worry, as an adult with autism I have a few ideas that could work for almost anyone. In the neurotypical … Gifts for Adults With Autism Read More » The post Gifts for Adults With Autism appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, I’ve mentioned on this blog more than once about how inconsistent I can be. Let me tell you, it is really kicking my butt right now. I typically enjoy writing, but since I started blogging, it’s become more of a chore. And let me tell ya… I do not like chores. Change is … Top 3 Reasons You Should Embrace Change Read More » The post Top 3 Reasons You Should Embrace Change appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, I’ve mentioned on this blog more than once about how inconsistent I can be. Let me tell you, it is really kicking my butt right now. I typically enjoy writing, but since I started blogging, it’s become more of a chore. And let me tell ya… I do not like chores. The keyword … The Future of Puzzle Me Shon Is Up In The Air Read More » The post The Future of Puzzle Me Shon Is Up In The Air appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, Journaling is one of the most healing things you can do for yourself. Why? Because it can be such a therapeutic process. Plus, it’s quick, easy, and free. Over the years, I’ve done all types of journaling and they’ve all helped me along on my journey. Most recently, I’ve started journaling in the … 5 Tips on Journaling for Healing Read More » The post 5 Tips on Journaling for Healing appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, Unless you’re God, perfection is unattainable. And when it comes to God, it’s also unnecessary and unexpected. That’s perfect because God uses broken people to do his work. As I look over my life, I know I’m broken. Physically, mentally, financially, emotionally, and yes… even spiritually. Through my autism, mental health conditions, womanly … God Uses Broken People Like Us for His Glory Read More » The post God Uses Broken People Like Us for His Glory appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, Marriage comes with it’s own special set of challenges so when you add Autism to the mix, you get an extra special set of challenges. Don’t get me wrong. Marriage can be great. But it can also be… well, not great. And that’s whether you have autism or not. This is not going … Autism, Marriage, And How to Make It Work Read More » The post Autism, Marriage, And How to Make It Work appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more

Listen Suga, When I was a little girl, I wanted to be a hair dresser. Then I wanted to be a writer. Then I wanted to have my own business. At some point along the way, I decided I just wanted to be taken care of. I expected a lot from myself and I expected … Letting Go of Expectations to Live Freely Read More » The post Letting Go of Expectations to Live Freely appeared first on Puzzle Me Shon ..read more