Also I’m still fat and so happy!!!!!!!! This was before I refused to take my dress off and leave the premises Up until a few years ago, I had always felt like a tourist in my body. “Don’t get too comfortable with this version of me,” I wanted to tell people. Sometimes I would show them thinner photos of me in high school when I was at the peak of my disordered eating: obsessing over what & what not to eat while compulsively exercising; and I guess part of the goal was that hoped they could somehow mentally superimpose that thinner (albeit anxiety-ridden) version of my body on my actual bod ..read more

Hello my little backyard birds!! If this sweet lil message is finding you in the northeastern united states and you are ready for a show, you’re in darn luck, because I’m TOURING!!! I will be sharing some songs from Grief Creature and a lot of oldies from my last couple releases as well. Wyatt will be accompanying me so I don’t completely fall to pieces, and I’m also over the moon to have the brilliantly talented Aisha Burns join us for this run! Purchase tickets here! Unfortunately, the Crying in the Northeast Tour will not have any meet and greets (turns out, covid is still ..read more

Hi y’all, if you’ve been following my social media, you probably know that I’m voice acting for an incredible character named Bertie in a new Netflix animated movie musical and series called Arlo the Alligator Boy and I ❤️️ Arlo. I have been a part of this project for the last year, and have fallen so in love with all of these characters and the stories they have to tell! Here is a link to the trailer if you want to take a look!! I feel so strongly about the ability for art to bring transformative healing to those who interact with it. A lot of my work in the last 5 years has been really ..read more

Dear J.K. Rowling,  For someone who imagined such a staggeringly beautiful world of magic, the limits of your imagination when it comes to humankind are heartbreaking. For trans women and those of us who support them, your views aren’t just hurtful–they’re dangerous. You are eloquent and articulate in your convictions, but your arguments are based in fear and they hurt people. You should know better than anyone the power of language, the spellbinding marvel of the perfect phrase, of finding the right combination of words to say exactly what you mean, to change the way people see what is ..read more

J.K. Rowling, armed with 14 million twitter followers and unimaginable wealth has chosen to spend her time, energy, and influence to center the conversation around her perceived victimhood under the guise of being in support of transgender people, and as a consequence, emboldened others with similar harmful beliefs to “speak out” about the trans community’s cabal on political correctness. She has somehow managed to do all of this during both the Black Lives Matter movement and Pride month. To put it plainly, for the last 2 weeks, my feed has been flooded with sweltering dumpster logic from TER ..read more