When searching for information about a weekday wedding, you might not find a ton out there. Traditionally, people shy away from anything other than Saturday evenings, but that’s quickly changing. Weekday weddings are becoming more popular, and for good reason. As a wedding industry professional, I’m here to put your concerns at ease and say yes, it’s absolutely okay, and even beneficial, to hold your wedding on a weekday. Let’s explore the reasons why it’s actually a great idea. It Can Be More Budget Friendly A huge advantage of having your wedding on a weekday is certainly the price. Many ven ..read more

Planning a wedding is exciting, but when you're working on a short timeline, it can quickly become overwhelming. Whether you’re pulling together your big day in just a few months or even a few weeks, the common struggles are real—finding vendors, booking venues, and managing all of the other to-do’s can seem like an impossible challenge. But there’s good news: intimate and micro weddings might just be the perfect solution for you. Smaller weddings are not only easier to plan on a short schedule, but they also come with a host of other benefits that can help make your dream day a reality. The ..read more

S & M Bringing their loved ones together in the place they fell in love was top priority for S & M. They had guests fly in from all over the world and really wanted to blend their two cultures, while immersing their families in Brooklyn. They chose Brooklyn Grange Sunset Park for it’s unique feel of oasis in the middle of a very urban area. The gorgeous blank space allowed them to customize every piece of their wedding, from the Kagamibiraki sake ceremony to the rice topping favors, they truly thought through each detail with care. Amazing vendor team: Planning & Design: Small Shi ..read more

A & A When we first started working together, A & A expressed they wanted the vibe to be cozy, intimate, and have a very New York feel. The Wythe’s penthouse loft with it’s gorgeous views was the obvious choice as soon as they walked in. With food and cocktails by the awesome in-house restaurant Le Crocodile, guests had a delicious family-style sated dinner. Then, the party took a unique spin when everyone was invited back upstairs for an incredible performance by a speakeasy band (complete with a beat boxer!). Planning & Design: Small Shindigs Photographer: Elena Wolfe Paper Goods ..read more

Are you considering turning your New Jersey backyard into a dreamy wedding venue? Whether this has always been your vision or you're simply drawn to the charm of an intimate, home-centered celebration, a backyard wedding in the Garden State can be both enchanting and personal. Personally, I’ve always loved backyard weddings in New Jersey. They strike the perfect balance between comfortable and cozy while still being celebratory and romantic. With some creativity, your backyard can transform into the perfect wedding venue. If you’re curious about the logistics and everything you need to conside ..read more

As a New York and New Jersey wedding planner with a passion for intimate weddings, I’ve seen how an intimate wedding brunch can transform a traditional event into a memorable morning celebration. This unique choice combines the elegance of a wedding with the relaxed charm of a brunch, offering a fun alternative to evening receptions. A brunch wedding is not only budget-friendly but also creates a lighter, more relaxed atmosphere that guests will remember for years to come. Let’s dive into how you can make your brunch wedding an unforgettable experience. Ceremony Begin your day with a ceremony ..read more

One of the major reasons I decided to specialize in small & intimate weddings is because there tends to be a strong focus on the ceremony. While of course the celebration is an important piece of the wedding day, the ceremony is the reason everyone is there in the first place! You and your partner finally have a chance to declare your love publicly and in front of those you love (and who love you!) most. Many of the couples I work with are interested in creating their own ceremonies, but it’s truly no small undertaking. My husband and I worked with a very close friend to write our ceremony ..read more

As a wedding planner in New Jersey and New York, I've had the privilege of helping numerous couples create unforgettable, intimate weddings. One key element in achieving this feeling is through thoughtful seating arrangements. The way you arrange your guests can greatly impact the atmosphere of your wedding. Here are some tips on intimate wedding seating arrangements that will help you create a cozy and connected atmosphere for your special day. 1. Opt for One Large Table Opting for one large table can be a great way to bring everyone together, fostering a sense of unity and closeness among yo ..read more

As a New York and New Jersey wedding planner specializing in intimate weddings, I have had the privilege of planning countless celebrations in personal spaces, whether that be backyard weddings, airbnb weddings, or even private homes. While the idea of hosting a wedding at home may seem daunting, it offers a unique opportunity for couples to create truly memorable and personalized experiences. Gone are the days when weddings were confined to traditional venues. Couples today are increasingly drawn to the idea of intimate gatherings in familiar settings, where they can infuse every detail with ..read more

So you’ve decided that an intimate wedding is the way to go, but you still aren’t sure where to start. That’s where I come in! My name is Sarah and I’m the owner of Small Shindigs. If this is the first blog post of mine you’re reading, welcome to my little corner of the internet! I am a New York wedding planner specializing in small & intimate weddings. I truly believe in deep connections and feel that intimate weddings allow you to really focus on your love for each other, and the special group you invite to participate in your wedding day.  In this post, I will dive into every aspec ..read more