Kevin A. Thompson is a husband, father, and marriage (and men's) pastor at Bayside Church in the Sacramento, California area. Originally from Arkansas, Kevin has been a frequent guest on Focus on the Family and Family Life. Chris & J talked to Kevin about why it's still important to pursue and woo your wife (first, heart; then, body). Resources I Wouldn't Sleep with You Either - Kevin A. Thompson Kevin's Full Website: kevinathompson.com Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work by Kevin A. Thompson Happily: 8 Commitments of Couples Who Laugh, Love & Last ..read more

Dr. Kim Kimberling has been married for 53 years and has counseled marriages for over 40 years! His ministry, Awesome Marriage, has reached even more couples with its honest, biblical, and practical insight. Listen in as Dr. Kim talks with Chris and J about sexual expertise, empathy, accountability, and more. Resources Awesome Marriage University Achieving Awesome Sex in Marriage: The Christian Sex Course | Awesome Marriage Awesome Marriage — Marriage, Relationships, and Premarital Counseling with Dr. Kim Kimberling When "I Feel..." Statements Don't Work - Hot, Holy & Humorous The Power o ..read more

Gary Thomas, theologian and marriage author, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What differences between men and women can help you cater more to your wife's pleasure? How can you unleash the power of the five senses? And what does "simmering" have to do with sexual desire? Resources Gary Thomas's Website Married Sex: A Christian Couple's Guide to Reimagining Your Love Life by Gary Thomas and Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC Simply Sacred with Gary Thomas | Substack Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous Newsflash, Hubbies! She Loves Foreplay. - Hot, Holy ..read more

Brad Aldrich, marriage therapist and ministry leader, joins us to discuss what he's learned about women's sexuality. What does connection mean for wives compared to husbands? How do connection, curiosity, and past trauma impact sexual intimacy in your marriage? Take a listen! Resources Aldrich Ministries Still Becoming One Podcast with Brad & Kate Aldrich The 7 Year Itch (Episode 27) - Still Becoming One Unfinished & Beautiful with Kate Aldrich - Hot, Holy & Humorous (oldie but goodie!) LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CRUISE WITH J. PARKER AND BRAD & KATE ALDRICH: Hot, Holy & Humoro ..read more

It's been a minute! Chris and J are finally back to explain their absence and the future of Knowing Her Sexually going forward. We plan to keep providing quality content intended to help husbands better understand their wives and pursue healthy, mutually satisfying sexual intimacy.  Resources Knowing Her Sexually Webinars KHS Ministry | Facebook KHSMinistry (@KhsMinistry) / Twitter Honeycomb & Spice (honeycombspice.com) Hot, Holy & Humorous (hotholyhumorous.com) Support Us Click HERE to support our podcast and other resources through Patreon ..read more

Christmastime can create wonderful memories, but also a lot of to-dos and stress that keep couples from being sexually intimate. J and guest host Julie Sibert discuss how to have less stress and more sex in your marriage this holiday season. Sponsor Looking for a safe place to shop for marital aids? Check out Married Dance, a Christian-friendly sex toy store. Experience a nudity-free, marriage-centered environment, along with discreet shipping and billing.  Resources Episode 31: Why Do Women Overextend Themselves? Episode 19: Having an Intimate Holiday Season Why She’s Too Busy to Have S ..read more

How can you give your wife a gift that speaks to her heart? A great gift can create feelings of being seen and valued that encourage the trust and vulnerability she needs for sexual intimacy. Visit Our Sponsor Did you know that Hot, Holy & Humorous has a site store? Private Christmas gift tags, sexy Christmas coupons & more! Resources The Ultimate Gift List for Married Couples, 2020 Edition – Hot, Holy & Humorous Hot, Holy, and Humorous: Sex in Marriage by God’s Design by J. Parker (“Cultivating Romance” chapter has specifics on writing a love letter) 'Twas the Intimate Nigh ..read more

What role can quickies play in your marriage's sexual intimacy? We discuss what's good about quickies, why some wives don't like them, and how husbands can make the experience more enjoyable for her. Resources 5 Reasons to Love a Quickie - Hot, Holy & Humorous Showering and Bathing Together: Why You Should Try It - Hot, Holy & Humorous 5 Tips for Shower Sex - Hot, Holy & Humorous What a Quickie Taught Us About Sexual Intimacy - The Forgiven Wife This Week's Takeaway Find a time to suggest a quickie to your wife. If she gives you the go-ahead, go for it! But if she’s reluctant, la ..read more

Instead of "show up naked," how about using clothing to increase arousal and pleasure? Chris and J discuss why and how clothing can be sexy for a wife. Resources Why I Still Wear Lingerie (though My Hubby Doesn't Care) - Hot, Holy & Humorous Why Won’t Your Wife Wear Lingerie? 7 Ways to Make the Most of Your Lingerie - The Forgiven Wife Should You Buy Her Lingerie for Christmas? What Should Your Husband Wear to Turn You On? - Hot, Holy & Humorous Husbands Only Need One of These to Turn Her On - Hot, Holy & Humorous "Touch the Bits" by Amanda Gore - YouTube Episode 60: Use the 5 Sen ..read more

How can you help your wife engage more in the sexual experience? Chris and J share how a husband can use the five senses to increase his wife's focus and enjoyment. Resources J"s #SexTipTuesday Facebook post: What do you do with your eyes during sex? 70+ Intimate Face to Face Sex Positions | Christian-friendly Sex Positions) Experience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife Bedroom Soundtrack Posts | Bonny's Oysterbed7 A Marital Intimacy Playlist - Hot, Holy & Humorous "Let me hear your voice..." - Song of Songs 2:14 Talking Flirty vs. Talking Dirty - Hot, Holy & Humorous 101 ..read more