As we often discuss, many couples find it challenging to openly communicate their feelings, desires, fears, and life goals to each other. In this episode, we aim to make this process easier by exploring 30 intimate questions designed to cover both emotional and physical intimacy in your marriage. Bringing up difficult questions with your spouse can be uncomfortable, as you may fear rejection or confusion about the source of your thoughts. However, by listening to this podcast together and discussing these intimate questions, we believe it can be transformative for your relationship. Join us fo ..read more

Disclaimer: This topic and episode are for couples in loving, respectful, and healthy relationships, but where the lower desire spouse isn't interested in sexual intimacy. We receive many messages from lower desire spouses who express sentiments like, "Our relationship is great, but my wife just doesn't like (or want) to have sex. She tells me no, or just to 'deal with it.'" We hear statements like this all the time. This is saddening because it isn't the high desire spouse's fault, yet they are told to just "deal with it" as if it is their fault or something is wrong with them for desiring se ..read more

99% of couples (both men and women) from our social media poll state that sex in a need (and important) in marriage. If 99% believe sex is a "need" and important,  why are so many couples failing horribly when it comes to connecting intimately? In this podcast episode, we share the 8 things (podcast episodes) that will revolutionize your sexual intimacy.. "if" you both put forth the effort. We discuss common issues couples face when it comes to sexual intimacy including making the time, talking about sex, Initiating, and other topics. Join us for this great episode that will offer solut ..read more

Have you ever felt the cold sting of sexual rejection from the one person who's supposed to desire you the most? It's a pain that many married individuals know all too well, yet it's a topic that often remains in silence. Couples don't and won't talk about it. And in many cases, if a spouse is getting rejected often, they will stop even trying because rejection is much more painful than not even trying. In this episode, we dive into this delicate subject, providing a safe space for exploration and healing. We share not only personal experiences, but the feelings of our listeners. The conversa ..read more

Words and phrases are VERY powerful and can often have life changing effects both good and bad depending on how we are using them. But can saying these 3 things to your spouse daily really transform your relationship? That answer is yes.. they can, and they will, and we talk about how and why! In this episode, Nick and Amy share 3 things that you should say to your spouse daily that will change everything. If there is an episode that can have the most impact on your relationship, this might be the one! If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ul ..read more

For many couples, they can envision what a "successful" marriage looks like for them, but they often don't know how to get there, or what tools or plans they need to follow to achieve it. imagine you were building a house. You have a picture of exactly what it looks like when completed, but imagine trying to build that house without any blueprint or plans! It would probably end up looking quite different than the picture, and lack a lot of things vital to the structure, integrity and foundation. Would it be able to weather the storms? Chances are without any plans or blueprints, you would be ..read more

99% of couples (both men and women) from our social media poll state that sex in a need (and important) in marriage. If 99% believe sex is a "need" and important,  why are so many couples failing horribly when it comes to connecting intimately? In this podcast episode, we share the 8 things (podcast episodes) that will revolutionize your sexual intimacy.. "if" you both put forth the effort. We discuss common issues couples face when it comes to sexual intimacy including making the time, talking about sex, Initiating, and other topics. Join us for this great episode that will offer solut ..read more

Ok so your first reaction from our title is probably something like "what is wrong with trying to help your spouse make some positive changes?" Well.. nothing if it is something they want to change, but often times spouses try to shape or form their husband or wife into what "they" want, or what "they" think the perfect spouse should be like. The truth is we are all unique individuals with different strengths, weaknesses and perspectives about life. There is nothing wrong with trying to help each other improve and become better people, but when it is done through threats, guilt, nagging or o ..read more

Now if you have heard our previous podcasts, you know we have talked about how sometimes it is ok to have transactions in marriage. After all, everything you do in life is a transaction. You trade your time for money at a job. You pay for groceries so you can feed your family. But what about when your marriage becomes so transactional, it has devastating affects, such as scorekeeping, lack of teamwork, rewards and punishments, or conditional love? Does any of that sound familiar? In this episode we share the 8 signs you are in a transactional marriage, and of course, the ways you can get out ..read more

All throughout life and up to a few years ago, we thought sex toys were for couples or individuals who were into crazy things in the bedroom. We had a very negative view on them.. that is until we tried them. And wow were we wrong! Now we are HUGE proponents of intimacy aids (or sex toys) if used the right way together. Sex aids and toys can be a great way to explore and learn about each others bodies, connect on a deeper level, and make sexual intimacy amazing for both spouses. Yes, women, you can enjoy sexual intimacy as much or more as your husband with a little bit of help! But having sa ..read more