We were socialized to focus our care taking to be outside of us. For others to benefit from.  Which is lovely AND you need that same attention from you. I will always argue that taking care of OTHERS is easier than taking care of yourself, not because the task itself is hard, but because of our resistance to it. Let’s talk about how and why its so important for us to be courageously selfish and how that can help us in our pleasured life. Featured on the show: Tangled in open for enrollment: https://www.daniellesavory.com/tangled If you enjoyed this episode please share with a friend who ..read more

Valentine’s Day might be over, but the conversation about love and relationships continues on "It's My Pleasure." In this episode, we dive deep into the intricacies of relationship dynamics, shedding light on thought patterns and emotional dynamics that can subtly impact our connections over time. EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS  **Codependent Thinking and Emotional Outsourcing:** Unpack the long-term effects of codependent thinking and emotional outsourcing on relationships. Discover how the quest for initial safety and validation can evolve into unexpected pressures.  **Attachment Styles Unveil ..read more

How can we become more joyful with using the embodiment of pleasure? In this episode I share a clip from a recent discussion inside the Pleasure-Centered Coach Training I offer where we are discussing the importance of “pleasure” vs joy and how that one degree shift towards pleasure can make all the difference in the world. Episode Highlights: Why the distinction between pleasure (vs happiness, joy etc) is so important How pleasure often gets mixed up with sexuality The one degree shifts we can all be making Featured on the show: Please consider sharing this episode with your partner or a f ..read more

Your sex life changes after kids, this is simply a fact. But usually when we talk about it, it is with such a Debbie Downer tone. Just because your life looks different (including the sexy bits) after kids, doesn’t mean that is a bad thing. In fact, in can be incredible, I promise. Listen in to this special episode, where my colleague and host of The Ambitious and Balanced Working Moms podcast interviews me on all the ways things shift once we have kids and how we can insure our pleasure and intimacy are still a top priority. Episode Highlights: How things change after having kids Why priorit ..read more

Hey welcome back to another mini-episode, where I give you some quick actionable tips or food for thought on a topic. Today's discussion is a quick list of somethings that you can do right now to increase intimacy with your partner. The truth is, long term partnerships, really any partnership, take effort and attention. And if you don’t water that intimacy plant it will wither and die. But like you, I also have a lot going on. With our busy schedules feeling like we have to do “one more thing” can feel daunting. And it isn’t like you don’t want to help in the intimacy department, but where do ..read more

Dr. Shyama was such a pleasure to have on the podcast this week. As a practicing gynecologist and certified menopause specialist, she breaks down some of the changes we may see in perimenopause and menopause and how this impacts our sexual response. Dr. Shyama is so well versed on this topic, and as a mother and wife herself she understands how challenging it can be to juggle it all and still find time for pleasure. Because of the lack of education she even got in her medical training when it came to hormones, female pleasure and sexual response, it is her mission to help more people understan ..read more

Learning how to ask for what you want is essential to experiencing more pleasure and also creating more desire.  Whether it is asking to try a new position, more time to transition from ‘work’ to ‘home’ or asking for help so your mind is racing with all to-do it is a skill we all need as pleasured and turned on women Please enjoy this short and to the point episode with all the how-tos Episode Highlights: The place we ALWAYS must start change from Why it’s important to view this as a skill and where else we are killing it at asking The mindset shift needs before you ask 4 steps to asking ..read more

Listen, sex shouldn’t hurt. Period. But the truth is sex hurts for many women and is uncomfortable for so many more. In this episode I will share with you six ways to help make sex more pleasurable. Please note that this episode is NOT to replace medical care and if you are experiencing pain, I highly recommend you speak to your OBGYN and see a pelvic floor therapist.  What is shared in this episode has also helped many of my clients, myself included, dramatically reduce pain and I hope in the least, it will allow you to start relating to your pain in a different way. Also don’t forget to ..read more

What's holding you back from being that Turned On Woman? Hint it isn’t your hormones or your sexy lingerie or even having a partner who is fawning all over you. It’s a way of being in the world. The way that you think about being turned on and how often you truly allow yourself to BE that. We always have a choice, we are always simmering, just waiting to boil over - but are you boiling over towards ecstasy or towards burn-out. Listen in this week as Danielle gives you a compelling case for feeling good and being turned on MORE . . . the secret every turned on woman is tapped into. And also don ..read more

Of course you want to be with a partner who wants to see you pleasured, I mean don’t we all??!  But then you feel like them wanting to see you writhe in ecstasy is making it even harder for you. You worry that you aren’t going to be able to ‘get there’ and even though they say something like “I want to please you” “Or I want to see you come” instead of feeling turned on and sexy inside you feel, whelp, pressure. Don’t worry, this is so normally and we have ALL been there. Listen in on how to deal with The Pleasure Paradox on this week’s episode. And also don’t miss out on the amazing GIVE ..read more