Book your FREE Discover Session today at www.shellie.andersoncoaching.com Have you ever wondered what approach a husband takes when he is feeling in the mood for sex?  Often, there is no strategic approach at all.  And even more often, the approaches they do try often fall short. Listen in on today's episode where we look closer at a not-so-obvious trap about rhetoric that seems to be at the root of the many faulty approaches and quick fix attempts.  Discover 3 tips for having a better discussion about sex that benefits BOTH the husband and the wife.   ..read more

Have you ever considered that there could be some awesome intimacy insights that could be gained during this unique time of the solar eclipse?  If you haven't, maybe this could be your invitation to do just that. Listen in as we discuss some of the obvious occurrences that happen in nature during an eclipse and how it can relate to intimacy.  During this time of transformation, when the sun is obscured by the moon, can act as a signal for our own internal transformation... as we allow the superficial ways of approaching intimacy to gain the corona (higher way of thinking) approach ..read more

Do you want to try something fun with intimacy this week?  Then this is the episode for you.  And while many women end up on the short end of the stick when it comes to how much pleasure they are experiencing with intimacy, there is so much potential that has yet to be discovered. Listen in on today's episode where we explore the ratio of potential pleasure that is possible for couples and how to advocate for it.  With the fun and adventure of searching for Easter eggs as a guide, you can create your own sexy hunt with a brand new challenge hidden inside the eggs.  Spring ..read more

Did you know that there are a lot of married women who don't put the words sex and fun in the same sentence?  If you are a married woman reading this, it might seem like common knowledge.  But a married man reading this might be feeling like a freight train just hit him.  He may even wonder, how can sex NOT be fun? In today's episode, we take a closer look at this concept and the meta-message that takes root when a spouse thinks that sex is not fun.   While it may seem like an impossible task to overcome, when one spouse thinks sex is fun and the other doesn't, there is a ..read more

Have you ever felt like, just when things were going well and headed towards a romantic night of intimacy, things got sabotaged?  I'm guessing it's happened to most of us, even if we didn't mean for it to happen... and the sexiness gets derailed. And sometimes, we can even get off track for days, or even weeks, at a time when this takes place.  But what would happen if the next time, we were able to get back on track much faster?  That would be amazing.   Listen in on today's episode where we discuss a faster system to ignite female arousal, the way that advocating and act ..read more

Have you  ever had some deep introspective thoughts about sex and intimacy while you were eating a salad?  If not, you are not alone.  I hadn't either, until recently. As I looked down at all of the ingredients in my salad, the cucumbers really caught my attention.  Why?  I realized that I normally don't like cucumbers on their own.  I find them boring.  I don't crave them and I'm never upset when I don't have them around. But when they are mixed in with the other ingredients, I absolutely love them!  Listen in on today's episode where we challenge our ..read more

Have you ever heard the word entropy before?  Have you ever applied the concept to the intimacy in your marriage?  While most of us probably have a general idea of what entropy is, we may never have thought of it when it comes to sex with our spouse. On today's episode, we dive into this topic just a little bit deeper to see how entropy will take its toll on our relationship if we don't make a decision to do something about it on purpose.   If you have ever thought, "I haven't really done anything different, but things seem to be getting a little worse," then you are probably ..read more

Have you ever wanted to seek help to improve intimacy, only to be held back by some fears?  This is very common, and is sadly that thing that keeps us stuck and keeps us from feeling closer to our spouse faster. Listen in on today's episode where we dive into the top 5 fears that prevent improvement in the challenging topic of intimacy.  These are the fears that my clients wish they would have addressed sooner... before things got so bad that they were just feeling desperate and even considering divorce ..read more

Have you ever wondered what contributes to having the best sex ever?  While we might think it comes when we fulfill a checklist of sorts, it might come as a surprise that it can happen under even the most challenging and unexpected circumstances. Listen in as we take a closer look at some of the surprising elements that led to such an experience.  It was not planned in advance and it did not involve any elaborate or large romantic gestures.  But it did come through the process of two adults actually facing some hard challenges in their life.  Don't miss out on what you cou ..read more

Do you know what the most researched topic is when it comes to Valentine's Day?  It might not be what you think it is.  With all that is going on in the world today, people seem to be wanting to get back to their roots, and are wondering what love really is. Listen in as we remind ourselves with love really is, the things that might sabotage it during Valentine's Day, and what we can do to feel the love even more.  Don't limit love, but instead, put more into your week on purpose with the following 5 tips ..read more