Join Ezra as they speak with Dr. Bathurst, a therapist, sexologist, coach, and holistic healer on episode #40 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast.  Learn about Dr. Bathurst’s approach, what motivates them and other topics including: Ezra’s activation energy analogy, how Dr. Bathurst navigates the conflicting boundaries and expectations of the various roles, what it looks like if it goes sideways, is mentorship part of Ezra’s practice, Dr. Bathurst loves the BDSM crowd, educating therapists, bias from service providers, what are the eight forms of intimacy, what surprises people, wha ..read more

Join Ezra as he speaks with Professor and researcher Dr. Eli Sheff about topics including: polyamory family study, 70s research into non-monogamy, internet lead to an evolution in poly, kids of polyamorous families were born on third base with special advantages, this includes parents romantic freedom, expansion of childhood and lifespan leads to different partnering dynamics, old folks being sexual much more than in previous history, the impracticality of monogamy in the modern age, Darwin is getting no pussy, sex workers give good data, how children feel about their polyamorous families, “hi ..read more

Join Ezra for the 38th episode of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast as he talks with Curtis.  Learn about power exchange, Daddy Dom / little girl dynamics, polyamory, and having multiple concurrent partners.  We also hear from Curtis and his experience with jealousy and possessiveness in relationships.  Listen as we talk through what good boundaries look like and what is healthy and what might be less healthy.   https://www.instagram.com/thecurtisb/?hl=en   AskEzra.info   Patreon.com/askezra   ..read more

Join Ezra for episode 37 where he talks with Jesse James Sweed and how he came to be  teaching English in South Korea and Spain.  We learn about his experience as a language coach, his separation and divorce and his romantic ambitions.  We hear about his experience with a transition in libido and the paradigm shift that comes as we get older.  We hear about how to gamified dating, get rejected with purpose, practice self love, and balance work and life. https://www.youtube.com/c/SweedAcademy AskEzra.Info   ..read more

Join Ezra for Episode 36, a conversation with the 2022 LA Pup title holder Kieran Hound.  Learn what a leather title is, being an emotional support pup, what they get out of pet play, pet play as a way to regain playfulness, practicing being kind to ourselves, what relationships look like for pets, what relationships look like for Kieran Hound, respecting someone’s no, the international pup contest, how to contact them and get involved in the community, and more! Instagram @kieranhound/ Twitter @KieranHound AskEzra.info Patreon.com/AskEzra ..read more

Join Ezra as he speaks with Tim of the Sex Ed With Tim Podcast.  They chat about emotional self regulation, observing your emotions like a bird watcher and not push them away or hold them close.  They also talk about setting boundaries like saying no and establishing reasonable expectations of our partners.  Lastly, they talk about practicing self compassion, listening to our intuition, and distracting ourselves or using toxic positivity to hide from emotions. www.sexedwithtim.com AskEzra.info   ..read more

Join Ezra as he speaks with Kitten Michelle who finds herself playing the caretaker role in her romantic and family relationships.  Learn what can happen when boundary setting feels like a crime and caring for yourself feels like wasted time.  We also practice setting and re-setting boundaries as well as envisioning a different kind of relationship ..read more

In this episode we learn about power dynamics including top/bottom versus Dom/sub, and topping from the bottom as well as dynamics in three ways. We also learn about how we can use fantasy as a tool to explore possible power exchange dynamics, while minimizing the risk of hurt feelings . We also learned how one can tiptoe into the BDSM community to get what they need and see if it’s right for them. AskEzra.info https://heal.me/practitioner/ezra-pryor ..read more

Join Ezra as they speak with Karma the “Sex Slave”.  Karma goes into detail about what is valuable and challenging about the relationship she has built with her Master.  Learn how surrendering power consensually and with agency can be an empowering experience.  Also, hear about her book “Surviving Master Joshua” where she recounts her experience in exploring and ultimately diving head first into the lifestyle. https://www.amazon.com/Surviving-Master-Joshua-Memoir-Unfaithful-ebook/dp/B09SQBVL1Z AskEzra.info ..read more

In episode 8 of the Ask Ezra Intimacy Coaching Podcast we talked with Raj who is an asexual fart fetishist. We discuss with him how shame impacts attractiveness and how negative self-talk can prevent us from experiences. Other topics we discuss are: Asexuality, labels for communication, demi-sexual, sex of verse, a wider definition of sex to include BDSM, celebrating a sexuality, the power play of sex, sex as a service, acceptance as a resource for sexiness, how concealment or non-acceptance makes people suspicious, negative self talk, Beliefs and values, combating negative inner voices with c ..read more