While there are many New Yorkers who decide to get divorced and can do so; not everyone has the liberty to do so. The reason for divorce not being an option for everyone can range from poor finances to even … The post What to Do When Divorce is Not an Option in New York appeared first on New York Divorce Mediation ..read more

Divorce can be an unexpected life event.  No one plans to get divorced and many times, one spouse may even be caught off guard by their spouse telling them that they want a divorce. Nor can one even imagine everything … The post What Are the Steps for Filing for Divorce in New York? appeared first on New York Divorce Mediation ..read more

As New York parents battle out their divorce; oftentimes their kids get caught in the middle. Divorce can definitely take a toll on your children but there are ways to minimize the impact that it has on them. There are … The post How Divorce Affects Children in New York appeared first on New York Divorce Mediation ..read more

If you've had enough of your spouse you're probably thinking it's time to get divorced and the first question that comes to your mind is “how long does it take to get a divorce in New York City?” If this … The post How Long Does it Take to Get a Divorce in New York City? appeared first on New York Divorce Mediation ..read more

Besides losing a loved one, divorce is one of the most difficult and emotional times one will go through. During a divorce, it is normal to experience a multitude of feelings. One day you may be feeling angry whereas the … The post How to Get Through Divorce with Emotional Grit appeared first on New York Divorce Mediation ..read more

Getting divorced is more than just a legal process of splitting up; it is also one of life’s most stressful events. Divorce mediation, a facilitative process that takes place outside of court, is a less stressful option for divorcing than traditional divorce and/or litigation. Let’s discuss how mediation can help with the psychological aspect of divorce in NYC.   What Are Some Psychological Implications of Going Through Divorce?   Going through a divorce is not only stressful but it can trigger all kinds of emotions.  Emotions may range from stress, anxiety, depression, and even ..read more

Divorce can be an unexpected life event.  No one plans to get divorced and many times, one spouse may even be caught off guard by their spouse telling them that they want a divorce. Nor can one even imagine everything that goes into getting a divorce.  One of the most common questions that come up when considering divorce is, “What are the steps for filing for divorce in New York?” Below are some questions to consider and tips on how to prepare when filing for divorce in the Empire State.   Do You Meet New York’s Residency Requirements?   The state of New York has certain r ..read more

Each state has its laws for divorce.  In New York, there are both “no-fault” and “fault-based” divorces.  It is important to understand both types and the ramifications they might have. Let’s discuss what you should know before you file for divorce in New York below.   What is a “No-Fault” Divorce in New York?   In a “no-fault” divorce, neither spouse is pointing blame at the other spouse for the end of the marriage. There must be a irretrievable breakdown in the marriage for at least six months.  This means that the marriage is not repairable and at least one of the p ..read more

Perhaps the reason for you filing for divorce is that you realized you were married to a narcissist.  Narcissistic people and personalities are some of the most difficult people to deal with.  And, unfortunately, just because you are getting divorced, the narcissist will not stop doing what they do. Let’s take it one step further…you both have children together.  Having children together means that you will still need to communicate with your spouse or at least make other arrangements for communication.  It is imperative to realize that a narcissist will still try to manipu ..read more

Dealing with infidelity in a marriage in New York is a very difficult thing to go through.  Infidelity can definitely put a strain on a marriage.  While some couples may go to therapy and be able to get past it, others are not so fortunate. In fact, according to a statistic on this website, “57% of marriages that experience infidelity end up in divorce.” Below, let’s explore some ways you can get through this difficult time. Allow Yourself to Feel the Pain   Ignoring and bottling up your emotions will only exemplify the problem.  If your spouse has cheated on you, it is im ..read more