Ending a marriage to a narcissist can be a huge relief, but it is likely to be a rollercoaster until the divorce is final. Even then, the narcissist is likely to try to maintain control over you. Money is one of their favorite weapons. You must be proactive about protecting yourself financially if you are considering a divorce from someone with narcissistic tendencies. Speak with an attorney experienced in high-conflict divorce for advice on how to financially strategize for divorce with a narcissist. Understand Your Financial Position Narcissists need to be in control and they often manage th ..read more

Divorce is not an easy thing to go through. Like many things in life, however, it is less stressful when you know what to expect. Understanding Georgia divorce laws can help you form reasonable expectations for what your life will be like after divorce. Once you have decided dissolving your marriage is the best option, reach out to a seasoned divorce attorney to help you reach your goals. Consider Your Grounds for Divorce A spouse must state an acceptable legal justification in their court petition seeking a divorce. The Official Code of Georgia §19-5-3 describes the legal grounds for divorce ..read more

You do not have to be a trained psychiatrist to spot someone with narcissistic tendencies. Although we should leave the diagnosis to the professionals, identifying narcissistic tendencies in your spouse can help you learn to protect yourself. When your spouse has narcissistic behavior patterns, there could be trouble down the road. It can be almost impossible to maintain a sense of identity while living with a narcissist. Taking steps to reduce the narcissist’s power over you and your children is critical. Narcissists Are Never Wrong Most people understand that they do not know everything abou ..read more

When you divorce a narcissist, you are probably eager to put the drama and craziness behind you. If you have children together, that unfortunately may not be possible. Narcissists rarely change, so you will need to adapt to their behaviors and insulate your children to the extent you can. Only a small percentage of the population meets the criteria for a diagnosis of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). But a much larger percentage have narcissistic personality traits that make developing and maintaining healthy relationships challenging. Rely on your personal support system, including you ..read more

It is tough to be married to a narcissist, but divorcing one is not easy either. Even when the narcissist wants the divorce, they are likely to make it as difficult for you as possible just to show they are in charge. Knowing what to expect when divorcing a narcissist can help you get through this trying time. Working with an aggressive attorney who will push back against the narcissist’s intimidation tactics when necessary is critical. Expect a High-Conflict Divorce—Prepare Accordingly Many people strive for an amicable divorce, especially when the couple has children. Be warned that friendly ..read more

Divorcing a narcissist can mean months or even years of turmoil. The process can be shattering if you are not prepared. Working with an aggressive divorce lawyer who will stand up to the narcissist’s tactics is critical, but there are other ways you can protect yourself. Below are some tips to get through a divorce with a narcissist. Educate Yourself Before Initiating Divorce Proceedings Thorough preparation makes everything easier, including divorce. Knowing what to expect can help you keep your cool when the narcissist acts out. Read books and online material about narcissism. Understanding ..read more

People contemplating divorce sometimes ask, “Does it matter who files for divorce first?”  There are some potential benefits to being the first to file, but the facts of the case determine whether the benefits are particularly valuable. If your spouse filed first, working with a skilled legal professional can ensure you are not at a disadvantage. Whether you are considering filing for divorce, or you have received service of your spouse’s petition, contact a local family lawyer immediately. An experienced attorney can support you through the process and help you meet your goals. Filing Fi ..read more

If you are looking for a family activity requiring minimal supplies and effort, origami should be next on your to-do list! Origami might seem too challenging or even not stimulating enough for children, but there are plenty of accessible and delightful shapes to keep your kids endlessly entertained. Plus, they won’t be able to stop themselves from filling your home with paper swans, dragons, and more! Whether you are going through a tough time such as a separation, divorce, struggles with child custody and visitation, or simply want to enrich your time with your family, finding simple ways to ..read more

One aspect of the divorce process that people do not talk about often enough is the fact that it can trigger an identity crisis. When you let go of your identity as a “spouse” and pivot to being single, that can shake up your self-confidence. My team and I have helped thousands of people who have gone through divorce navigate that low point, and we have learned a few confidence-boosting strategies along the way. If you are feeling low because of a divorce or other life change, these steps could help rebuild your confidence and turn your mindset around. Reframe Your “Failure” Yes, maybe you fai ..read more

Family law matters often trigger intense emotions. The dry, logical legal process is sometimes not well-suited to providing workable solutions in these cases. People seeking a divorce, having a child custody dispute, or contesting any other family law matter should consider family law trial alternatives, called alternative dispute resolution (ADR). There are different forms of ADR, but they all emphasize working cooperatively to find creative and practical solutions to family legal matters. Mediation Available Through the Fulton County Family Court Family court judges understand that a strictl ..read more