Effects of betrayal on the brain: Altering mind and bodyWhat is betrayal theory?Betrayal trauma theory, proposed by psychologist Jennifer Freyd, explores how trauma can be particularly impactful when it's perpetrated by people or institutions upon whom an individual depends or trusts deeply. The theory emphasizes that the event itself doesn't solely determine the severity of ..read more

"Feelings about feelings"John Gottman created the term "meta emotions" and "meta-emotional mismatch" to describe when people in relationships have different emotional understandings and displays. He called them "feelings about feelings." This notion highlights the significance of understanding our emotions and recognizing and respecting our partner's emotional experiences. In essence, it refers to the differences in how ..read more

Dr. Burford is a Christian minister practicing science-based couples therapy through Couples Therapy Inc. He works with all couples with a specialization on couples wanting a biblical perspective. This post originally appeared on his blog. __________________________ This article is long because it is important to offer in the same place comparison of the typical stages of marriage or ..read more

Tim and Carolyn*, both 36, were an attractive, financially successful couple when they met through mutual friends. Carolyn was attracted to Tim's generous and carefree style. He frequently bought her lavish gifts and treated a crowd of friends to drinks and dinner. Carolyn was more modest in her spending. Before the marriage, Tim pressured Carolyn into ..read more

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Dr. Burford is a Christian minister practicing science-based couples therapy through Couples Therapy Inc. He works with all couples with a specialization on couples wanting a biblical perspective. This post originally appeared on his blog. Research by The Gottman Institute (TGI)—the leading scientific authority on marriage and relationships—shows a 67% decrease in relationship satisfaction once ..read more

In intimate relationships, the first few words of a conversation or conflict can set the tone for what follows. In these initial few sentences, partners can either build a bridge or erect a wall. A Gottman softened start-up is vital to creating and maintaining good relationships. How we start conversations dramatically affects how effectively the interaction ..read more

Attachment Theory: A brief overviewRevised 9/20/23 Attachment-based couples therapy is a therapeutic approach to helping couples. It draws on the principles of attachment theory to help couples improve their emotional connection and strengthen their relationship. Psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth developed it.Attachment theory emphasizesAttachment theory emphasizes the significance of early caregiver-child bonds in shaping an individual's capacity ..read more

Infidelity is the act of being unfaithful in a committed relationship.The long term psychological effects of infidelity compare to those of many other traumas.In this post we will look at how affairs affect the family, the impact of infidelity on betrayed spouses, and the mental health impact on children of infidelity.While it might seem like ..read more

Types of Intimacy in MarriageBeing close in a marriage or any romantic relationship goes beyond just the physical or sexual. It's about connecting emotionally, intellectually, and through shared experiences to strengthen the bond between partners. Intimacy often means being vulnerable. It's about opening up emotionally and being honest with your partner about your thoughts, feelings, and ..read more