Sexual dynamics within relationships have long been a subject of fascination and sometimes misunderstanding. In exploring the needs of both men and women, it becomes apparent that there are distinct differences in how each gender approaches and prioritizes intimacy. This is just the reality and if you understand the differences, then you will be able to better meet the needs of your spouse. Let’s delve into the intricacies of these needs and how they contribute to a fulfilling and harmonious relationship. You may also enjoy this podcast episode 150. Are Men And Women Really That Different When ..read more

Holding a grudge against your spouse means harboring feelings of resentment, anger, or bitterness towards them due to a past offense or perceived wrongdoing. When you hold a grudge, you maintain negative feelings towards your spouse, often replaying the hurtful event in your mind and allowing it to affect your interactions and relationship dynamics. Grudges (or resentment) can create a barrier to intimacy and connection within the marriage, leading to a breakdown in communication, trust, and emotional closeness. Common signs that you may be holding a grudge against your spouse include: Persis ..read more

In the realm of intimate relationships, understanding the intricacies of sexual desire is crucial for fostering a fulfilling and harmonious connection between spouses. While societal narratives often portray men as the primary initiators of sexual intimacy, it’s essential to recognize that women also experience a spectrum of desires and needs within the context of marriage. To shed light on this often-misunderstood topic, let’s get into the multifaceted nature of a woman’s sexual desire and explore the elements that contribute to its flourishing within the marital bond. Emotional Connection Th ..read more

In the journey of marriage, three simple words wield immense power that can be transforming – “Thank You,” “I Love You,” and “I Am Sorry.” These words form the cornerstone of a thriving marital relationship, transcending the mundane to a marriage full of love, gratitude, and forgiveness. Let’s dive into why these words are not just utterances but sacred offerings in the sanctum of marriage. Thank You Gratitude is the silent hero of every successful marriage. Saying “thank you” isn’t merely acknowledging a gesture; it’s recognizing the effort, thoughtfulness, and love behind it. In a marriage ..read more

Marriage is often portrayed as a challenging journey fraught with ups and downs, requiring constant effort and compromise.. and it can be difficult for sure during certain times. However, it doesn’t have to be a constant struggle. By prioritizing certain key practices, couples can cultivate a relationship that feels effortless and fulfilling. Here are six essential things couples can do to make their marriage feel much easier and joyful. Open and Honest Communication: Communication is the cornerstone of any successful marriage. By fostering open and honest communication, couples can build trus ..read more

You don’t see it. You’re not aware of it.  But you own (or are perhaps owned by) a guilt machine. This guilt machine runs all day, every day, with the sole purpose of destroying your ability to focus on what matters most. “But what is this invisible machine running our lives?” you say. It’s not our phone, our computer, or our tablet, though it uses these devices to impose its will. No, the guilt machine runs on the oxygen of emotion. It’s that subtle but uncomfortable feeling that someone needs us — that there is a friend, a family member, or a coworker desperately waiting on the oth ..read more

We are so excited for our NEW non graphic sex position card deck volume 2 that we just released! We KNOW first hand that switching things up in the bedroom is not only fun…but so important for your marriage! Let me repeat that… It is so important!!!! If you know our personal story, I bought my husband a bedroom game after 15 years of being married. It wasn’t that I wasn’t happy with our sex life, it was that I wanted to try new things and our communication wasn’t very good about sexual intimacy. I didn’t know how to tell him that I wanted our bedroom fun to be a little more adventuro ..read more

Emotional rejection in marriage can be just as painful and complex as sexual rejection. In fact, emotional intimacy encompasses a myriad of facets that can make or break the bond between couple. It’s not just about saying “I love you” or sharing physical touch; it’s about feeling understood, valued, and deeply connected on a soulful level. In a recent podcast discussion on emotional intimacy in marriage, we talked about the nuances of this vital aspect of relationships. We also conducted a survey to gauge the strength of emotional intimacy among our audience, and the results were both eye-open ..read more

In the world of relationships, one aspect often overlooked is the profound significance of your husband’s sexual desire for you. This may not be the most comfortable topic to discuss, but it is essential for maintaining a healthy and satisfying marriage. In this blog article, we’ll dive into why you should be grateful for your husband’s sexual desire, explore the various reasons behind it, and provide insights into navigating this aspect of your relationship. Understanding the Power of Desire Emotional Connection: Your husband’s sexual desire is not just about physical satisfaction. It’s a pow ..read more

There’s a fundamental truth in marriage that often gets overlooked: the importance of self-love. How we perceive and treat ourselves has a profound impact on the dynamics of our marriages, shaping everything from communication and trust to sexual intimacy. Couples don’t understand this or talk about it enough. In this article, we’ll explore the connection between self-love and relationships, and offer practical solutions for cultivating a healthier sense of self-worth. The Foundation of Healthy Relationships At the core of every successful marriage lies a strong sense of self-love. When we lov ..read more