Sex is a gift unique to your marriage!! Think about it… You can communicate with your neighbor. You can work on a budget with your accountant. You can argue with a coworker. You can go on an adventure with your best friend. You can set boundaries with your family. But the one thing that is sacred, that you share with no other person but your spouse, is sexual intimacy AKA your sex life!  For many married couples, sex was once this amazing opportunity to express love for one another. But oftentimes your sex life can become complicated, mundane, or even nonexistent. We’ve been there. We mad ..read more

What keeps us attracted to our spouse as we age? A quick internet search on this left our heads spinning. So here’s our summary based on working with hundreds of couples…  1. INTERDEPENDENCE:  Finding opportunities to lean on each other for different needs in life. Celebrating each others differences and then leaning on them The opposite:  Codependents that suck the life out of you and Independents that are more like roommates. 2. TRUST:  Love is NOT the most important thing, but rather having someone you can rely on when you need them most. Are they engaged in doing life ..read more

Did you know that the first skills you learn about marriage and friendship come from your parents’ marriage relationship? Did you know that the attachment, comfort, or discomfort you experience in your marriage stems directly back to what your parents taught you about love? Did you know that because all marriages are founded on friendship first, basic relationship attachment skills might feel like a struggle with your spouse even when romance doesn’t? Here’s why… Everything we see as children shapes our perception about something in the world and when it comes to marriage, the primary lesson y ..read more

WARNING! For mature audiences only Who doesn’t want to experience a deep, mind-blowing orgasm!? I do, and I bet you do too! The tricky part is figuring out new ways to get there and keep you there, yeah? Well, here at Marriage365, we want to be the Oprah of orgasmic ideas (You get an orgasm! You get an orgasm! YOU get an orgasm! Everyone gets an orgasm!)  Here are 5 sex positions to try together to try to achieve that deeper O! The Pretzel The female partner lays on her right side while the male partner straddles the woman’s right leg and wraps her left leg around his left side. This pos ..read more

Hello Clitoris!  Pronounced clit-er-iss. The clitoris can overwhelm many couples in the bedroom and it’s time to inform and educate you on all of the wonderful facts about this unique body part.  #1 – The clitoris is basically a female penis and while this may sound odd, it’s true! While it may have a different appearance than the penis, they both develop with a similar structure.  Did you know that the clitoris swells when aroused? Pretty fascinating, right?   #2 – It’s sensitive… very, very sensitive. In fact, you can feel pain if too much pressure is applied to it. The c ..read more

  The holiday season can sometimes be cliché with all the pictures of cute boots and pumpkin spice lattes. Even so, I want to encourage you to embrace fall and the holidays to come with your other half. Take some time to step away from the potential holiday stress to come and take pleasure in getting to know your spouse a little bit more with these fun seasonal questions. Make the most of a new season and find fresh ways to connect. Take your spouse out to enjoy their favorite seasonal holiday drink or treat and spark new conversation with these questions. 30 Fall & Winter holiday que ..read more

Heads up! There is another pandemic about to hit the world: the divorce pandemic. Many couples are questioning the future of their marriages after spending so much time together and feeling dissatisfied with the quality of their interactions. They simply ‘stayed and quit’ since there were not a lot of options available to them. Now, with the lockdown being lifted, we are going to see a surge in divorces. The church can do something to help stop this. Waiting out the storm Many couples have been counting down the end of the pandemic, seeking freedom to take off their masks and gather with frien ..read more

Are you in a sexual rut with your spouse? Do you feel disconnected, undesirable, or just too busy or tired to have (or enjoy) sex? Marriage is hard and life is busy. Understatement of the year, can I get an amen? Tons of factors can creep in and disrupt a married couple’s sex life, such as: Kids (bless their hearts. We love them, but they sure do take it out of us!) Physical changes (weight gain, health issues, fatigue, lack of sleep, etc.) Stress (work, kids, household, finances, marriage or other relationship issues, etc.) Infertility (this can add an intense layer of stress around sex) And ..read more

If you’ve ever seen a romantic comedy, you know that Hollywood portrays sex as this not-at-all messy, always-orgasmic, easy-breezy-lemon-squeezy experience where both people always orgasm together and somehow just throw their clothes back on and hurry out the door to a business meeting or an errand. But, once you’ve had sex… you know that it is messy, it’s not always easy, and sometimes you have no idea what to do after. Well, we wanted to give you some tips for post-sex do’s and don’ts. AFTER SEX DO take time to cuddle! Sex releases all kinds of endorphins and happy hormones and that skin-to ..read more

All kinds of stereotypes in this world tell us that men are the ones with the higher sex drive and that women are not interested in sex at all. Well, that’s simply not true. We see plenty of couples with mismatched sex drives and we are seeing a rise in women voicing that they are the ones with the higher sex drive in their marriage. Boldly put, plenty of women want sex more than their husbands do. Unfortunately, due to stereotypes and Hollywood, many couples experience conflict and confusion over this because it’s outside of the societal norm, but we’re here to tell you that it is normal, val ..read more