Sex is good. Sex is fun. Sex is sexy. But sex is also a complex part of life and goes through changes over time. As we age, our attitudes towards sex and sexual experiences often evolve. The topic of sex over 50 for us gals encompasses a variety of perspectives, experiences, and considerations. So, while sex is good, fun, and sexy, there may also be challenges and drawbacks associated with post-menopausal sex. Like any subject, it has its pros and cons, influenced by various factors such as health, emotional well-being, and societal attitudes. Negatives Physical Changes Hormonal fluctuations a ..read more

I was a divorced woman with 2 young granddaughters temporarily under my wing. I was a small business person, a personal property certified appraiser who also managed an antique mall in a large historical home. Basically, I was just trying to survive. Then, my knight in shining armor appeared. Actually, he was a casual friend I had conversed with over several years on several occasions. Then he asked me for a date, and the rest is history. So I, as a second-timer, skeptical and afraid, began a relationship that was the best and most valuable of my life. I’m sharing some signs of love I saw that ..read more

There’s nothing better than meeting a man the old-fashioned way… in person. But you’ve searched high and low and still find yourself awash in a sea of liars, losers, and lotharios. This is because meeting quality men in real life is, well, HARD. A “good man” could be defined as one who has qualities like honesty, integrity, kindness, and ambition, among other things – all attributes that are difficult to gauge on a dating app. In person, you can suss out his body language, the inflections of his voice, and his responsiveness to you, among other things that can get lost in texting. In short, yo ..read more

In recent years, there has been a rise in the popularity of minimalistic dating apps, which prioritize quality over quantity and aim to facilitate more meaningful connections between users. These apps are designed to be simple and intuitive, with a limited number of daily matches and an emphasis on meaningful conversation rather than superficial swiping. Minimalistic dating apps have become popular for a variety of reasons. For one, traditional dating apps can be overwhelming, with an endless sea of potential matches to sift through. This can lead to decision fatigue and a feeling of being bur ..read more

We’ve all been there. There’s no other feeling as sublime. Your heart beats faster when you’re around him – or even just thinking about him. Life seems so exciting, so full of joy, so perfect. The world is a beautiful place! And you’re certain this feeling will go on forever. He’s your “one,” and you’re convinced you are madly in love. You aren’t. You’re infatuated. The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines love as “a warm attachment, enthusiasm, or devotion to another person,” while infatuation is defined as “a feeling of foolish or obsessively strong love for, admiration for, or interest in som ..read more

Just when you think everything is going gangbusters in your new relationship… Just when you start to let down your guard… Just when you are at your very most vulnerable… He starts to grow distant. His feelings run hot and cold. He behaves strangely. He seems less interested in you and no longer makes an effort. In short, he’s pulling away. Was it something I said? Probably not. There are no definitive answers as to why men pull away. All men are different, as are all relationships. But chances are, the pullback has less to do with you as a person and more to do with his issues. What’s the Prob ..read more

If you’re over fifty, chances are you’ve had some bad experiences with dating and have been on a lot of first dates. Trust me; I’ve been on more than you could count. First dates can be nerve-wracking and awkward—especially if it’s been decades since you’ve last had one. Once you get the hang of it, though, going on a first date can be a major confidence booster. And, dare I say, fun! Remember the thrill of first dates in your twenties—well, the thrill is still out there. So, while dating over 50 can be slightly different than it was back then, with the right game plan, you can avoid some comm ..read more

You just found out that the wonderful man you’re dating isn’t divorced…he’s separated. Should you continue to see him? That depends on how much you like risk. “Separation” is a period when a man is one part married, and another part divorced. Needless to say, stability has left the building. His living arrangements, finances, and feelings might be all over the place. And this could be mentally exhausting and physically draining for you. The following are some factors to consider before dating a separated man. Is He Really Separated? Say you’re a single online dater like me. One would assume t ..read more

Are Matchmakers the New Match.com? MAYBE. Could it be that human contact is making a comeback? Is everything that was old new again? Dare we dream we can finally get off these godforsaken apps? The answer is…maybe. Many daters, sick of the madness induced by endless swiping, are turning to good, old-fashioned matchmakers for professional guidance in finding a long-time partner. With online dating, you’re essentially on your own, trying to find a good fit in a wilderness of scams, cads, and creeps. But with a professional matchmaker, an in-depth profile, some curated photos, and carefully selec ..read more

9 Signs of a Womanizer Player. Casanova. Rake. Lothario. Don Juan. Ladies’ Man. These are all terms we’ve either heard or read when describing a womanizer, and they all mean the same thing: a guy who loves the ladies and enjoys plenty of casual affairs. Here are nine signs of a womanizer that you should be aware of.  Womanizer 101 In a nutshell, a womanizer is a man who likes to hop in the sack with plenty of ladies. He loves relationships that are non-commital and often has several of these casual, sexual relationships going at the same time. But here’s the deal: they let on that they w ..read more