Discover how to advocate for yourself in women’s divorce with expert divorce tips for women. Learn the power of a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst to secure a fair divorce settlement ..read more

Discover why choosing a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® is crucial for divorcing women. Get expert advice for a fair divorce settlement and secure your financial future ..read more

Discover the 6 things your ex hopes you don’t know about divorce finances when you divorce a narcissist. Empower yourself with expert advice on alimony, taxes in divorce, and more to secure your financial future ..read more

Are you feeling trapped in a cycle of coercive control? Today, I’m highlighting an episode from my podcast, Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women. In Episode 137, I had the honor of chatting with Christine Cocchiola, a phenomenal advocate, educator, and researcher in the realm of coercive control and financial abuse in marriage. Whether you’re currently navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce or seeking to understand the nuances of coercive control, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt encouragement. Understanding Coercive Control Coercive control is a form of ..read more

Hi, lovely. Rhonda Noordyk here, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® and host of the podcast, Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women. If you’re navigating the choppy waters of a gray divorce, this episode—one of our best divorce podcast episodes yet—is a must-listen. In it, we cover your most pressing questions, including: ❓ What retirement assets am I entitled to? ❓ Should I keep the house? ❓ What about Social Security—can I claim any of my ex’s benefits? ❓ What will I do about health insurance? ❓ Is alimony a realistic option for me? Don’t worry—we’ve rounded up our top tips from the ..read more

Divorce is tough, especially when it comes to untangling finances. But hey, maybe you’re considering going it alone without any expert help. In the realm of women's divorce, managing finances without guidance can be daunting.  You might have heard of a Certified Divorce Financial Analysts®, but you’re wondering “What is a CDFA®, and why would I need one?” Before you go down the Google rabbit hole, let me give you a rundown on why you might think you don’t need a CDFA®—and why, deep down, you probably do. ? Thinking of hiring a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®? Here are 8 reasons why ..read more

Are you in the midst of divorcing a narcissist? First off, kudos to you for taking a stand and reclaiming control over your life. I know it's not easy—but trust me, you've got this! Now, let's get down to business. I’m Rhonda Noordyk, a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ®, and I recently had the pleasure of chatting with Dr. Melissa Kalt on my podcast, Disrupting Divorce: Conversations for Women. And boy, did we uncover some gems!  With over 2200 episode downloads (and counting!), this popular episode clearly struck a chord. Women everywhere are waking up to their worth and seeking gui ..read more

Hi there! Rhonda here, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ® and your trusted guide through the financial storm of divorce. Today, we're diving into a topic that affects women both in and out of divorce—closing the gender pay gap. Inspired by Rohshann Pilla's insightful article, These 3 Strategies Could Actually Help Close the Gender Pay Gap, let's explore those strategies and dive deeper into how they intersect with the world of women’s divorce. But we won't stop there—I'll also share three additional divorce-specific strategies to empower you on your journey to financial equality post-divo ..read more

Hey there, lovely. Rhonda here, your go-to Certified Divorce Financial Analyst ®, ready to dive into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: how to divorce a narcissist. It's a tough journey, and today I want to talk about something important—false hope—and how it can hold you back from the freedom and healing you deserve. The Illusion of "Good Times" Ever had those moments with your partner where everything seems just perfect? Like, you're out with friends, and they're all charm and smiles, making you feel like the luckiest person in the world. But the second you step through your fr ..read more

Divorce isn't just about the end of a chapter—it's a chance for a powerful new beginning. Hey there, I’m Rhonda Noordyk, the CEO of the Women’s Financial Wellness Center and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®, and I'm here to revolutionize the way you approach your finances post-divorce. With over two decades of experience in finance, I've seen it all—and I've watched women navigate divorce in two distinct ways: ? In one camp, there are those who let divorce strip them of power, settling for less because they don't realize they can demand more. They watch helplessly as their lifestyle dwi ..read more