There is no better feeling then going to bed in a nice fresh diaper is there? It’s my favorite time of day by far and I just love getting in bed and feeling safe and secure. As many of you know however; at night sometimes we have to take extra precautions when it comes to being diapered. I’ve gotten a few questions about what I wear/handle different times of the day in a diaper so today I thought I’d focus on night time.  First and foremost, the most important item for night time is a thick and absorbent diaper. While you can change yourself in the middle of the night if you are ..read more

The infamous wearing diapers in public has always garnered the ultimate feeling of being a baby and excitement for many people in the ABDL community. What better place is working out in diapers where most people are wearing minimal clothing anyways. Wearing diapers to a gym has always been a part of my life and even for someone wearing diapers 24/7 because of not only need but also the love of diapers does get some “excitement” and enjoyment from it. The feeling is a bit indescribable in all honesty and I am sure many adult babies and diaper lovers can relate to that same feeling. Wearing dia ..read more

As everyone can tell I have updated my website – it is still a bit of a work in progress but I wanted to give everyone an update on where I am at with it and what is to come.  I also wanted to first thank everyone who is supporting me and continues to support me. I try to be upfront and honest with the entire Adult Baby and Diaper Lover community as much as I can and give off positive vibes. The traffic to Adrian Surley became heavy and with the old site it was too much so it needed optimization – so I have upgraded the server (cost me a bit extra) and redesigned the site to be more effic ..read more

Today I wanted to stop in and talk about something that is close to my heart. I have many many people reach out with lots of questions about my story and how I came to be confident in who I am. As you all know, I’ve worn diapers for a long time. It has been something that has been a part of my life for as long as I can remember and in some ways I know that has helped shape me into who I am today. It hasn’t always been easy though. The world isn’t always a happy and accepting place as unfortunate as that its; however, the sooner you recognize that and accept it the easier it is to get past tha ..read more

The stigma of wearing adult diapers I think is twofold, on one aspect I think people who wear diapers over think how much people care about them wearing a diaper; but also there is a stigma that it’s taboo or only meant for really old or really young people. So if you happen to fall in between those really old and really young ages then there is a stigma that “why are they wearing a diaper”. But admittedly most people are too wrapped up in themselves to really care what you’re doing anyways I found. You may think that people notice you wearing a diaper because it’s poking out of your ..read more

Growing up wearing diapers was definitely challenging at times. You go through all the phases I’m growing up through elementary school, middle school and high school. Each one comes with its own set of challenges. Some things get easier and some things get harder with wearing diapers while growing up. Wearing diapers in elementary school was not as challenging. my teachers knew about my incontinence issue and having to wear diapers. There was a school nurse at the time and it was very scheduled in regards to diaper changes and getting checked. It was never by anyone but the school nurse despit ..read more

The small things in the adult baby lifestyle I believe go under appreciated at times. The adult baby lifestyle comes with many unique things about it that many people may either have a hard time putting into words or go under appreciated. This is one aspect of the adult baby and diaper lover lifestyle that I feel if the “average” person who wasn’t engaged in the lifestyle could appreciate if they opened their minds. Small things in wearing diapers and the multitude of effects it has on the body mentally, physically, and spiritually I think makes a huge difference. One of the small things in t ..read more

Well, I hope you all have stayed safe during this entire COVID 19 pandemic. As I try to build this site and continue to add features behind the scenes to make it a unique space in the adult baby world and diaper lover community — there have been several challenges that have obviously made progress a bit slower. COVID 19 has definitely affected my life and slowed me down a bit in the progress on this site that I had hoped to make quickly. I am back to working on it. But, I actually contracted COVID 19 several weeks back unfortunately — I was NOT hospitalized but I did go to an ER just to be ch ..read more

I am sure many of you have wondered where I have been lately. So, as we all know life happens and even those that are mainstream online have significant life events that pop up and cause us take some time away. I appreciate all the support every one has given me. I have received hundreds of emails over this time period of support and questions. Again, I appreciate all the support. Some of the times were very difficult.    Without going into too much detail, it was a multitude of things including my own personal health scare (maybe more on this later down the road, right now just want ..read more

I don’t know about you all but it is HOT where I live. I’m not talking about just a little warm I’m talking about scorching, miserably hot! Every year when summer rolls around I am remind why I do not live further south. As much as I love going to the beach from time to time, being diapered in the summer can often be tough. A diaper can add some heat (and sweatiness) but it is still always enjoyable! I often get questions about how I wear diapers during the summer comfortably and thankfully over the years I’ve learned a few tips and tricks to help!   Wear Breathable Clothing If you ..read more