And it may not be what you think! Imagine this: in a world where the internet serves as a gateway to an endless array of fantasies and communities, what juicy tidbits come to mind when you think about women’s sexual fantasies? Maybe you think up images of steamy BDSM encounters, kinky role-playing, or perhaps even a bit of naughty voyeurism. But, according to a study by psychologist and sex researcher Justin Lehmiller, the real surprise lies elsewhere: a whopping 59 percent of women are getting hot fantasizing about… drumroll, please… sex with other women! Embracing the Fantasy 59% may be a co ..read more

Resolutions are often made with the best of intentions, but they don’t always work out as planned. This is the case for a few reasons. Resolutions are often based on things that we feel we should do, rather than things we really want to do. This can make them feel like a chore, which makes it harder to stick to them. They’re often unrealistic, which can set us up for failure. They’re often so rigid and specific that they don’t make room for real life. If our bandwidth changes, we fail. If our motivation shifts, we fail. Why set a theme for 2024? So- how about setting a theme vs. a resolution ..read more

No matter what happened in 2023, let’s look to the future and what could change in 2024. Many common resolutions, like eat less sugar, exercise more regularly, and improve sleep will only last the first weeks. Ring in the new year right by focusing on sexual pleasure and orgasmic fun. Ask for What you Want Be sexually assertive! Don’t feel ashamed or guilty about asking for things. Now is the time to focus on your own sexual self-care. Solo Pleasure Some feel that masturbation or self-pleasuring is over-indulgent. Really, self-pleasure allows you to explore your body. You can also better under ..read more

In the fall, you may notice a strange phenomenon. As the temperature starts dropping more people are coupling up, staying in, and spending time together. Well, this trend has a name: Cuffing Season. The history of Cuffing Season The term first appeared in Urban Dictionary more than 10 years ago. Here is the top definition: “During the Fall and Winter months people who would normally rather be single or promiscuous find themselves along with the rest of the world desiring to be ‘Cuffed’ or tied down by a serious relationship. The cold weather and prolonged indoor activity causes singl ..read more

It’s the most wonderful time of the year… Fall! I know, I know. You were thinking Christmas. While that may bring to mind things like presents, hot chocolate, family get-togethers, and many more wonderful memories, there is scientific evidence that autumn is one of the most wonderful times of the year. In fact, there’s proof that it’s the sexiest. How do we know? Well, humans and animals share a lot of characteristics. Many large animals prepare for a long winter of hibernating by getting busy before the cold weather hits. Human sex hormones, like testosterone, peak in the fall. And it’s not j ..read more

Picture this. It’s late. Your partner rolls over, slides an arm around you, and says those three little words: “Let’s have sex.” And, of course, you don’t want to because you’ve danced this dance before. The whole thing bookends with questions. “Let’s have sex” is the first one and “Did you come?” is the last. It’s not exactly the sexiest way to get in the mood. Note on Descriptors: For the purposes of this article, “we” or “us” as well as “you,” “your,” or “yours” etc. nods to the writer, individuals, and/or the reader as vulva-owning people while “your partner,” “them,” or “their” nods to a ..read more

There is a thin line between sexy and scary. Both drive us to act in unusual ways. Both stem from primal emotions embedded deeply within us to help us stay alive. Perhaps that explains the myriad of ways to make Halloween costumes more revealing or maybe we just like egging on the likes of Michael Myers and Jason Vorhees. Whichever way you slice it, the fall season brings with it lots of horrifying media that intertwine themes of death, torture, and the supernatural with burgeoning sexuality and taboo lust. As you prepare to cozy up with that pumpkin spice latte and queue up your Halloween fav ..read more

BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, Sadism & Masochism. Within this umbrella term/community, there are a multitude of roles within power dynamics that you can play with. A particularly fun role is that of the mischievous brat. In this guide, we’ll cover ways to unleash your inner brat and how to navigate this dynamic while maintaining respect, communication, and consent. What’s a Brat? A type of submissive (sub) role within BDSM that enjoys pushing buttons. Unlike a non-brat sub who seeks to serve and please, a brat enjoys being insolent or annoying. A bra ..read more

In a world that can sometimes feel overwhelming and fast-paced, a strong connection with your partner should be a source of joy and comfort. Establishing healthy communication and exploring new avenues of intimacy are essential for maintaining a thriving relationship. A great way to approach this is to focus on fun so that connecting with your partner never feels like a chore. One place to start focusing is foreplay – an essential part of any romantic encounter. It sets the mood, builds anticipation, and helps partners connect on a deeper level. But sometimes it can be tough to come up with ne ..read more

These days, the world seems more crazy and hectic than ever. There’s always another event, another show, another digital distraction…It’s hard to fit anything new into our busy lives – let alone a date! That’s where a new viral date-hack is trying to change the game! It allows you to do a month’s worth of work in a single evening, and TikTok users around the world have been eagerly incorporating it into their weekly schedules. Welcome to the world of Stack Dating.   What is Stack Dating? If you’re old enough to remember the ‘90s, Stack Dating is kind of like the time that one sitcom ..read more