The first step to having satisfying sex is to understand what you enjoy. It is difficult for a partner to facilitate pleasure without any direction. Many people are uncertain of what they like or want for a variety of reasons. Cultural stigma and sexual shame can exacerbate this knowledge gap. So how do you figure out what you like in the bedroom? In this article, we’ll highlight how to better understand your own pleasure and offer reflection questions to guide your exploration.   Practical Tips for Learning What You Like in Bed Read and watch erotica “Erotica” is any sexually explic ..read more

Healthy relationships are built, not automatic. Creating and maintaining a healthy relationship takes intentional effort. Yet, many people lack the knowledge and skills to build this kind of relationship because it is not usually explicitly taught. This lack of knowledge can lead to common pitfalls, miscommunication, and unmet needs, jeopardizing the relationship's health. This article will cover critical practices for creating and maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship.   1. Prioritize communication Communication is the foundation of any healthy relationship. It is nearly ..read more

Written by Seth Taylor, ALMFT Sex therapy is a valuable resource for individuals and couples looking to improve their sexual well-being, address concerns, and enhance their overall quality of life. However, questions often arise about its effectiveness and how to determine if sex therapy is making a positive impact. In this blog post, we'll explore the key aspects of sex therapy, including its effectiveness, common techniques, the therapy process, and when you should consider seeking a sex therapist. By the end, you'll have a better understanding of how to recognize that sex therapy is working ..read more

In the digital age, social media is a ubiquitous part of life. People of every age use social media daily for entertainment, marketing, communication, and more. While social media has many great features that make it easier to stay in touch with loved ones, access community resources, and share opinions, it can also be a precarious place. As the digital world evolves, so do the challenges presented to parents, especially when it comes to safety and cyberbullying. Since social media is virtually unavoidable, banning your teen from using it is impractical and hard to enforce. However, there are ..read more

Non-monogamy is an umbrella term for relationships in which partners consent to engaging in romantic and/or sexual relationships with multiple people unlike cheating which is non-consensual. There are many subtypes of relationships that fall under this umbrella including open relationships, relationship anarchy, and throuples. People practice non-monogamy for reasons that are as unique as each individual. A few examples are sexual fulfillment, a desire for new experiences, or beliefs and value systems. How common is consensual non-monogamy? Why is it so misunderstood? Non-monogamy is more comm ..read more

When you are a child, making friends is relatively straightforward. You offer to share your toy, or sit down at someone’s lunch table, and you have your foot in the door. Being in school facilitates friendships for most people. Spending most of your time around the same people during some of the most formative years of your life makes it easier to make friends. When you are not surrounded by a circle of social opportunity, it becomes much more complicated to make friends. Sure, you might keep in touch with friends from your years in school. However, it is just as likely that you grow apart, yo ..read more

Written by Seth Taylor, ALMFT Maintaining a healthy and satisfying relationship is an ongoing process that can involve seeking guidance from professionals. Two common therapeutic modalities that people turn to for relationship issues are sex therapy and traditional couple's therapy. In this blog post, we'll delve into the key distinctions between these two approaches, address common questions people have about them, and explore whether sex therapy can help with specific sexual issues such as erectile dysfunction (ED) or sexual pain. We'll also shed light on what couples can expect when they be ..read more

Written by Seth Taylor, ALMFT Our pets have an extraordinary ability to brighten our lives, offering unconditional love and support. But did you know that the mental health benefits of having a pet extend far beyond companionship? Cats and dogs, two of the most popular choices for animal companionship, can have a profound impact on symptoms of depression and anxiety. In this blog, we will explore the numerous ways in which pets contribute to our well-being and help manage mental health symptoms, and we'll also consider the differences between cats and dogs in this regard. What are the known me ..read more

Deciding whether or not you want to raise a child is one of the most important decisions one ever has to make. For some, their answer is an obvious yes or no, but others struggle to reach a clear conclusion. It makes sense to feel lost trying to navigate this topic! Having children completely changes your life in ways you cannot fully anticipate or plan for until it actually happens. Feeling conflicted is an indication that you understand the gravity and stakes of the decision, and that is ultimately a good thing.  Acknowledging and exploring these mixed emotions can facilitate a more inf ..read more

Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love and affection which is great for people in love but when you are in a newly established relationship or situationship, it is tricky to know how to navigate this day. You may want to acknowledge it or do something special but want to avoid overwhelming your partner. Do you buy a Valentine’s Day gift for a new partner? Plan a romantic evening out? Or ignore Valentine’s Day altogether? The answer will vary from relationship to relationship, and there is no “right” answer. This article will discuss general tips for how to celebrate Valentine’s Day in a new ..read more