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Want to know how your sex life can be hot, holy, and humorous? Hot, Holy & Humorous is a ministry of J. Parker, dedicated to helping wives and couples understand and embrace sex in marriage by God's design.
Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
2w ago
For 14 years, I've talked about loving sex as God designed it. But there are some things I hate about sex. Namely...
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
3w ago
Which sex/marriage books are right for you? Tips on discovering what resource is best for you + J. Parker's book for higher desire wives!
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
1M ago
Some people choose a single word to guide their new year. J shares the one word that could guide ALL of us regarding sex in 2025.
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
1M ago
Does God want to bless our marriage bed? Yes, but it's more complex than that. God has another, higher goal.
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
2M ago
The Five Whys is a problem-solving technique that might help you uncover the root cause of your marriage's sexual problems.
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
3M ago
I've received hundreds of messages from married couples asking for help with their sex life. Here's what I often suggest first.
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
3M ago
Has your marital intimacy drifted? It's easy to get off track, including with sex. Here's how to address mission drift!
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
7M ago
Sex scenes in movies (and TV) have given us a wrong impression of what sex is really like. Here's the truth...and how it's better!
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Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
7M ago
Most spouses have something they’d love to do with their beloved, if time, place, and happenstance permitted. It could be something as tame as “sex by the fireplace” or something as wild as “multiple orgasms on a mountaintop.” But whatever’s on your fantasy to-do list, have you talked to your mate about it?
Here are a few tips for putting together a Sexy Bucket List with your oh-so-sexy spouse.
1. Don’t Chase the High
A Sexy Bucket List isn’t about chasing the next high. We can get too caught up in believing that a successful sex life involves ever-increasing pleasure or adventurous activitie ..read more
Hot, Holy & Humorous Blog
7M ago
It’s Independence Day in the United States—the day we celebrate the signing of the Declaration of Independence on July 4, 1776. America was intent on gaining its freedom, but it didn’t earn it until 1782.
I started thinking about independence in marriage. Early in our marriage, my husband and I would debate about how dependent or how independent we should be.
Dependence
Some contend that we are one flesh, joined completely in all ways, and thus entirely dependent upon one another. Dependence advocates focus on how we complement one another, how we are like two halves of the same unit. As famo ..read more