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A subreddit forum for all members of the foster care community to come together and discuss Fostering at one table. Ask questions about the name change at adoption, share perspectives on being new Forster parents and so much more.
Reddit » Foster It
2d ago
hello! this is my first post on here and i was hoping to get any type of advice i can about this situation it’s probably going to be a long one though so buckle in. my sister and i were in foster care when i was between the ages of roughly 13-15, and my sister was 16-18. during that time my former foster mom suddenly kicked me out of the house and i was forced to go into a group home at around the age of 15. DCF told me my only options were to stay in the group home or go back home with my parents and do counseling, and they promised they would still be monitoring them and making sure they do ..read more
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4d ago
First not all.
Second, as a former older foster child and teen in foster care, this shows you that birth order, myths, and stereotypes about foster youth are all crap. People just don't want to take us in and actually put in the work needed to help us.
Third, many aren't willing to take in a foster child especially an older one. How many times have we heard about birth order? Smdh. Yet these same people will open up their homes to a grown adult who was in foster care who have degrees and titles next to their name and aren't scared.
Crazy. This is for information purposes to show the double s ..read more
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5d ago
Hello everyone! I am wanting some opinions from others in the foster community about a situation our family is in. Long story short, my family fostered for a few years. Almost all of our foster kids were able to return to family. We have always kept ourselves as an open resource for families after reunification. Whether as free baby sitters or to give advice or even find community resources . We send birthday gifts, Christmas gifts, etc. We love all of our foster kids and their families.
At one point during our time as foster parents we had a placement of a child that came from a very difficu ..read more
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5d ago
I recently made a big step by requesting my medical records from DYFC. Which covered everything from my medical history and psychiatric evaluations to the reasons behind why I ended up in foster care.
I found out that I was exposed to cocaine at birth, which probably led to severe behavioral issues as a child. Which led to my frequent moves between various group homes, and I read that I was even evaluated for homicidal and suicidal intentions, which made me sound like a serial killer...
And reflecting on everything and trying to be positive, I've made amazing decisions in my life. Rock climbi ..read more
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1w ago
I know that you can leave the father blank on birth certificates and that it's frequently assumed to be the husband, even if that's not the case. However, I was wondering if in situations like surrogate mothers, if the non-bio mother could be put on the birth certificate? I'm assuming they put down the name of the woman they just watched pop the kid out, but I wanted to check. Thanks
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1w ago
Dose Being in foster care count as extreme financial hardship?
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1w ago
I know the basics like clothes, shoes, and furniture, but are there any other need to know essentials? I am a teacher, and though he is not in my class I know him very well. I got my kinship foster license and I get him Tuesday. We did not really buy anything yet because he had a relative trying to take him, but that didn’t work out. Where are good places to shop for little boys? He’s a 10-12 and wears a 6 in men’s shoes. Help help help!!
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1w ago
I have a friend who was a foster parent. Her foster son was placed with her as a kinship. She was his nanny but the family he lived with was moving states and that's how she got this placement. Anyway this little boys case was closed last year. His family consists of his mom and moms boyfriend and a little brother mom had with said boyfriend. They moved states recently with his grandma and grandmas boyfriend. Anyway while they were there my friend received a call from the moms boyfriend a couple weeks ago and she said he seemed high or on something but he called her and told her he wanted to ..read more
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1w ago
I hope this is ok to post here. Excuse the length but this is MY story, and there’s no one else to tell it to. I want to be heard, please.
Call me ‘Dave’. I’m 37 years old, I play bass guitar, I box, and I enjoy a moderately successful career in finance. While I’m not wealthy, I’m quite comfortable and proud of my craft – especially given that I had aged out of a residential institution at 18 years old with an 8th grade education. I love the man I’ve become and what I’ve accomplished – but I am still waiting for someone to return my heart to me and to ease the vacuum in my chest cavity.
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1w ago
Need advice because my life is falling apart and I have absolutely no one to go to for solid advice. I’m married with 4 children (three teens and a 1 year old) and CPS just place my two siblings (older children) in my care under an emergency order. They said there’s a high chance they may be placed permanently and we are expected to take them. I want to take them! There is zero hesitation from me. My kids and husband however are having a hard time adjusting. With 6 kids in the house, my teens are stressed about having space and don’t understand why things have to change so much. My husband is ..read more