On the morning of Sunday, April 14, 2024, our community was shaken by the tragic news of the untimely passing of four youngsters, aged around 20, in a motor vehicle accident in Johannesburg. As I awoke to this heartbreaking news, my thoughts were consumed by empathy for the four sets of grieving parents, and their... The post Sons of the Ummah appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

When I was nineteen (over two decades ago!), I entered an essay competition hosted by IPCI. I recently found the essay and thought I’d share it here with you since it is a topic that is still relevant today. The original essay was handwritten on 9 pages, and the web sources cited, although listed at... The post The portrayal of Muslim women in the media appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

Hey there, Super Moms! It’s been a while since I had my go at parenting toddlers, but I was recently reminded of this by my almost nine-year-old when he let me know he was feeling tangry. How could I not share it here? It’s the thing that got me through toddler meltdowns! Hangry or tangry?... The post Toddler Meltdowns: Tackling Tiny Tornados with a Smile appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

Salaam amazing mums! As teachers will soon be in reporting mode, and we’ll all find ourselves knee-deep in the season of school reports, I thought I’d write a post to help parents make sense of the jargon. That’s right, it’s time to put on our detective hats and decipher the cryptic language of academic feedback... The post A Mum’s Guide to Navigating School Reports appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

Teaching is an incredibly rewarding profession, but it can also be very challenging and stressful. Teachers often work long hours, deal with difficult students, and have to juggle multiple responsibilities at once. As a result, teacher burnout and turnover rates are high, which can have a negative impact on both teachers and students. To combat... The post Teacher wellbeing – A wellness culture in schools appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

On 28 January 2024, I was invited to speak at Journey to Jannah’s first online seminar on Marriage. I was asked to cover the topic of Rights and responsibilities of husband, wife and in-laws. For your convenience, I’ve recorded my contribution for you, and I have also included a full transcript. May Allah SWT accept... The post Rights and responsibilities of husband, wife and in-laws in Islam appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

I was honoured to receive an Advanced Reader Copy of Zahra and Yaseen, book 1 in the upcoming Salaam2Soulm8 series by Tasneem Gaffoor and Wilman Fikker Publishing House South Africa. Zahra and Yaseen, the debut novel in the Salaam2Soulm8 series, offers an engaging and fast-paced storyline set within a halaal environment, yet doesn’t compromise on... The post Book review: Zahra and Yaseen (Salaam2Soulm8 series) appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

Have you ever stopped to wonder how our grandparents (and perhaps some of our parents) kicked off their marriage by sharing just one family car, living communally, and were known to do a whole lot of hard work in their daily lives? They started off their marriages with insurmountable challenges and have lived to tell... The post Let’s Talk Marriage: Going Back to Basics for a Solid Start appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

In my last post, I talked about setting realistic goals for Muslim women. As the calendar turns its pages, ushering in a new year, it’s a natural time for reflection—a moment to pause, contemplate, and chart our course for the journey ahead. While the world often encourages resolutions centered on external achievements, a spiritual approach... The post The Importance of New-Year Reflections: A Spiritual Approach appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more

As salaamu ‘Alaikum. Hey there, friend! Can you believe it’s that time again? The New Year is upon us, bringing with it a sense of renewal and the opportunity for a fresh start. As I sip my tea and reflect on the past year, I can’t help but feel excited about what lies ahead. So,... The post New Year, New Beginnings – Setting Realistic Goals for Muslim Women appeared first on What WayD Says ..read more