One of our favorite subjects… the X factor.   In our divorce recoveries we have both experienced different X factors.  We do agree that you have some sort of compass in order to start healing, and that X factor(s) are them.  What is yours?? Discussions of: Finding your funny Co-parenting dogs Can’t let her win Pulled the trigger twice Looking down the road What is pulling you out of the ditch Sharing your story Figure out who you are as a whole Serial dating Realize you will have steps backwards Either I change or the world changes around me Setting boundaries The best version ..read more

It’s another fun Divorce Devil Podcast.  Our subject today is the interesting wins and fails in dating during divorce recovery.  So many things to cover here.  We feel we only scratched the surface.  Discussions of you are never really ready to date, phone a friend, there is always some baggage, Rachel swiped her thumbs raw and you need to go through the sh*t relationships.  Basically, Rachel and I agree that probably the first few times you get out there - it’s a sh*tshow.  So, please go into them with realistic expectations.  It turns out better that way.&n ..read more

Well, we are finally at the last episode of the 10 part series of feeling better in your divorce recovery.  It is so important to celebrate you every now and then.  You deserve it!  Taking time for you is paramount.  Your value is intrinsic even though you take one step forward and two steps back sometimes.  We hope that the 10 part series was of some value to you and your journey in your divorce recovery.  We strive to provide more value to assist you in your divorce recovery destination in the months to come!   Discussions of: The trash takes itself o ..read more

We are almost done with the 10 part feeling better in your divorce recovery.  Today is day 9 and it’s all about owning your divorce story.  We feel you should not be ashamed of your divorced status and we provide tips not to.  Your divorce story becomes less important as time goes on.   We also discuss how the perception of our own divorce stories has changed over time and how it has become less of a defining factor in our lives while stressing the importance of setting boundaries and giving 100% in relationships. We encourage listeners to write their own divorce stor ..read more

Day 8 people - are you learning from your past?  We feel that it is so important to do just that.  You need to reflect on what your marriage has taught you (good or bad), don’t let the past define you and on your journal prompt…. What do you need to leave behind?  What version of your past do you tell people?  We agree that letting things go, eventually, is less of a burden, self-care is most important, be selfish and take care of you, control is a large issue in divorce recovery and you might need shoes in order to go to school.  Take heed and go get your happy and co ..read more

In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the financial changes that occur after divorce. They share personal experiences and insights on topics such as living a comfortable life, making financial decisions as a couple, and considering the future. They also discuss the challenges of surviving financially after divorce, the importance of financial awareness and responsibility, and the emotional aspect of financial changes. The episode concludes with advice on financial independence, finding stability, and preparing for the unexpected. They have to apologize for the sound quality up front. Not b ..read more

In this episode, we discuss the topics of anger and embracing change in the context of divorce recovery.  While exploring the positive aspects of anger and how it can be used as fuel for personal growth, we also discuss the concept of venting anger in a controlled environment, such as a smash room. Rachel and I emphasize the importance of processing anger in a healthy way and not projecting it onto others, especially children. We also discuss the challenges of navigating change and the need to embrace it in order to move forward. The episode concludes with a reminder to find humor and lau ..read more

In this episode, David and Rachel discuss the importance of establishing and expanding your support tribe during and after divorce. They talk about the different roles people play in your village and the need for both positive and negative influences. While emphasizing the importance of letting go of unhealthy friendships and evolving your village as you grow, they conclude the episode with a reminder to appreciate and express gratitude for your tribe. Takeaways and topics: Establishing a support tribe is crucial during and after divorce Your tribe can consist of friends, family, coworkers ..read more

Here we come again with day three of the challenge.  The subject of self-care is one that is near and dear to our hearts.  Unless you’ve been under a rock, LOL, you’ll know that it is a subject that is precious to us.   As we introduce the concept of the 'F*ck-It Bucket' as a way to let go of things that don't serve you - we also emphasize the need to prioritize oneself and engage in small acts of self-care, such as journaling, coloring, or listening to music. They also discuss the different types of buckets, including the personal bucket, fart bucket, sh!t bucket, along with th ..read more

David and Rachel are podcasting about day two of the ten day challenge to feel better in your divorce recovery.  Day two deals with your new beginnings.  In this episode of the Divorce Devil podcast, David and Rachel discuss the process of envisioning a positive future after divorce. They share their personal experiences of healing and processing, emphasizing the importance of embracing both the positive and negative aspects of the journey. The conversation also explores the transition from being a divorcee to being single, and the impact of divorce on one's identity. The episode con ..read more