Episode 20: Can You Pay My Bills?
The Extra Adesanyas
by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Cue music….can you pay my bills, can you pay my telephone bills? Do you pay my automo’ bills? If you haven’t been able to guess what today’s topic is about, let us help you decode. On this episode we’re talking about MONEY and more specifically money within relationships. Take a deep breath in and then out! We know this one can take the wind out of most people, but we have to talk about it. We start off the episode evaluating what we spent money on while we were single and then took a nose dive into how that changed once we got into relationships. We also ask pressing questions about how money ..read more
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Episode 19: Sisters Before Misters
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
CommuniTEA….It’s another Saturday drop and we’re coming in hot!!!! Like spilling piping hot TEA!!!! So, let’s talk about navigating friendships while in relationships. Now, to be clear, we don’t think these two things should ever be in competition with each other, but sometimes it seems like that’s the case and in this episode we explore these dynamics ..read more
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Episode 18: Sacrifice For Love
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Sounds like a Nollywood movie, but honestly communiTEA you know we had to go there. In the spirit of Easter and the sacrifice God made for us, we decided to talk about the sacrifices that we’ve made in our relationship. We joke and laugh about them now, but in the moment addressing these sacrifices were an arduous task. We also share what our limits when it comes to sacrifice are. While we are so thankful for the gift of Jesus, we agree that no one else needs to give their life as a sacrifice for those they love. Christ is enough! So, if you’re in a situation that scares you and makes you worr ..read more
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Episode 17: Do I Move In?
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
CommuniTEA…..Hope you’re all having a great weekend? Anyway, sometime this week, we had listened to a conversation about cohabitation and we thought it’s be a great conversation to bring to the podcast. On this episode, we share our thoughts on living with a significant other prior to marriage. Are there pros and cons you might ask? Well, we try our best to delve into that question as well as a host of others. We also share our living situation over the course of our relationship so you can get a sense on some offer perspective as a couple. Additionally, we get into how to navigate conversatio ..read more
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Episode 16: Talk When The Shoe Pinches
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Hello communiTEA!!!! We’re in a new month and we wanted to start off with an interesting topic. We’re pretty certain that everyone has had to deal with having difficult conversations with friends, family even coworkers. Let’s agree it’s not fun!!!! However, it has to be done. So, how do you navigate these conversations? We talk about some of our conversations and what made them difficult? We also share some tips to navigate difficult conversations. We’re not pros, but we hope some of these help. Please share with us how you handle some of these conversations so we can learn from each other ..read more
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Episode 15: What I Learned About Myself
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Hey hey communiTEA!!!! This episode is essentially self awareness central. We decided to sit back and reminisce on the the things we discovered about ourselves when we started dating. Some were good, some were bad, but generally it’s our honesty for us. Do you ever sit back to evaluate yourself, your actions and behaviors especially within relationships, friendships and even family? We reckon this is a healthy exercise from time to time and certainly recommend you give it a try ..read more
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Episode 14: Are You The One?
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Hey communiTEA!!!!!! Hope you’ve had a great week so far and you’re ready to dive into this week’s episode. We don’t know about you, but when the conversation about relationship and marriage come up, someone always asks how do you find the one or how do you know he/she is the one? Surely, you’ve heard some form of this this statement at some point. Right? Well, on today’s episode we delve a little bit into “how to find the one” or “how to know you’re ready to settle down.” From the conversation, we settle on a few thoughts: finding the one requires you to find yourself first and be careful of ..read more
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Episode 13: Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Heaven
The Extra Adesanyas
by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
I know the actual book is men are from Mars and women are from Venus, but heaven has more of a ring to it. On today’s episode we’re exploring core differences between men and women. Now, we’re not trying to stereotype anyone, but we’re sharing some of our cardinal differences. Let’s just say men and woman focus on different things and it’s EVIDENT in the ways we both operate. Do you think men are good at multitasking? Do women vent too much? Listen to hear us air our dirty linen on the interwebs. Can you relate to this conversation? Please let us know that we’re not crazy or high on narcotics ..read more
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Episode 12: East X West
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
Stereotypes!!!!! What roles do they play in your relationship? Given that we’re from different cultures, we’ve always had to navigate stereotypes brought on by ourselves and others. Let’s just say your subconscious stays packing a bit of implicit bias and it happens to make its way into conversations, arguments etc. In today’s episode, we discuss some of the things we were surprised to learn about each other when we started dating. We address obvious stereotypes and the ways we’ve seen them affirmed or refuted based on our natural tendencies. Do you know any stereotypes that have affected the ..read more
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Episode 11: First of All...Introductions
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by Kola Adesanya, The Extra Adesanyas
2y ago
We realized we had been giving y’all a lot of subject themed episodes and we decided to drop a story time this time! On this episode, we’re talking about meeting the parents while we were dating. Usually, depending on the type of family you come from, introducing a significant other can be nerve racking. For some, you never bring it up until you’re ready to get married while for others, you start the introductions from the get go. Meeting the parents came with varied reactions and we dish about the nerves, the excitement and everything else that came with the introductions. Let’s just say we h ..read more
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