Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
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Welcome to Advanced Relationship Skills. My name is Malaika, and this is where you'll learn the specific strategies to find and attract a life partner for long-term relationship success. I'm a Professional Matchmaker, working with ambitious professionals all over Europe.
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
3M ago
Sometimes, it could be because of bad experiences as an adult: A breakup. A toxic relationship. Or it’s because of loneliness, and long painful years of living alone. Stonewalling blocks any and all emotional security. Stonewalling, according to relationships expert Dr. John Gottman, is one the toxic habits on the path to divorce ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
3M ago
Happy marriages need LOTS of communication. Understand your needs. Learn HOW to talk about them. You can do this without dating ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
3M ago
The “Relationship Bill of Rights” sounds like something out of a legal drama on HBO. This story, however, begins with my friend Alexandra, who wanted a traditional happily-ever-after. Alexandra had been dating Stephan, a globe-trotting entrepreneur who lived between Europe and the United States. On paper, it seemed like a perfect match. A few months ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
6M ago
“My husband tells me all the time: “You expecting me to give you time, attention, and care for you is not crazy ask. That is my responsibility as your husband. It’s not insane nor out of line ask.” ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
6M ago
“Everyone spends more than they plan to on their wedding,” he says. “The average wedding is $35,000,” without frills ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
11M ago
Rita wanted to remarry, find a partner, and hopefully start a family. “It’s not too late for me, right?” she had asked. But she felt bogged down by her past, the weight of community expectations around caste + culture, and being a complete newbie to the process. “I have literally no clue where to start and what to do,” she said ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
11M ago
These phrases (“a guy who’s well-settled”, “a woman who’s passionate”) dominate the discourse of the dating world. As a Professional Matchmaker, I hear these phrases so many times, I’ve almost come to expect it. It’s “normal” in the marriage market, but here’s the problem: When you’re the same as everyone else, you might as well not exist ..read more
Advanced Relationship Skills Blog
11M ago
Your soulmate is someone you choose from a short, tightly-curated list of high-quality options who match your preferences, criteria, and dealbreakers. Your job is to fill that list with serious options, using consistent, proven SYSTEM ..read more