Anyone have experience meeting a couple on vacation, Aruba to be specific? LS virgins but looking for our first experience and a kid free vacation in a couple weeks seems like the best time to go for it, but unsure how to.. #newbie submitted by /u/psuotf21 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

My gf have been doing this for about 6 months and we are thinking that we may never move on to the full swap category. Anyone else on this boat? submitted by /u/Theoneandonlygman7 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

My wife and I are traveling to Minneapolis for a work conference. We would love to have some fun while we are out there. Does any one here have recommendations on apps or sites that work better for meeting people in a travel setting like this? submitted by /u/BoobLoverThrowAway [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Have you met another couple or third in the wild randomly and instantly found a connection that ended in a hookup? My husband and I have had an experience where we met a woman during a weekend staycation in a non LS environment that turned into a one night stand situation. I wonder how common this happens and if anyone has had experiences like this where you've met someone as a couple randomly. submitted by /u/ImOnlyHereVirtually [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

We’ve been at this crazy adventure called swinging/lifestyle for almost 10 years now. We’ve noticed that we have a hard time enjoying ourselves (especially the wife) in our state with a few exceptions of friends coming in to visit from out of state. We just can’t really turn our hats to party naked mode … We do live in a very conservative county in a very conservative state with semi public jobs with kids at home so that is likely part of it. However when we travel out of state, especially out of the country, I see a whole different level of sexual mischievousness, confidence and desire from ..read more

We are traveling to Montreal for 5 nights in November. Looking for advice on clubs to visit. We are more of a hotwife couple than swingers. We have visited clubs in Europe and are hoping for an experience closer to clubs in Paris France than in Paris Texas ? submitted by /u/my_Cuban_Hotwife [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

So I need opinions, honest please because it's a bit random! So there is this hot guy who works at the local store, I want to know if I left a note on his car propositioning him for some fun with my husband, would that be too far. Im interested if it's something that he would be into , and not exactly suitable to ask in front of customers lol..if that happened to you would you think .. oh that's amazing (even if you werent into it) or would that just be weird! I don't mind if he's not into that, but if he was that would be a dream haha ! Creepy or no? Opinions please! submitted by /u/Parking ..read more

My gf and I have been talking about wanting to go to a club like this for awhile now and we’ll be in town for Folsom St. Fair so figured it might be a good weekend to attend. I’m curious what the vibe is like though. Especially in terms of body positivity, for lack of a better term. I’m 36, she’s 29, and neither of us is in the best shape lol. Although neither of us is like grossly obese or unkempt or anything like that. I’m 6’2” 250ish and carry it reasonably well but I’m still definitely more of the teddy bear when it comes to body types lol. I guess I’m wondering if this is one of those pl ..read more

Me and my Mrs are going to Leeds to a swingers club for the first time. Been talking about it for a while. I have a foot fetish which my Mrs is cool with but do I be open about that when going or will I put people off. Any advice for newbies is appreciated. DMS open, TIA. submitted by /u/samgrayson645 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I'm only 3 weeks old here on Reddit so I hope I created this poll correctly: This poll is to see how many of us swingers can actually cum using a condom when playing with your LS friends / play partners. Sorry, Reddit only allows 6 options and I thought this might be good enough. View Poll submitted by /u/2SoybeansinaPod [visit reddit] [comments ..read more