Tess Gonzales - Part 2 Christian. Survivor. Advocate. Tess suffered  incest at the hands of her mother, who drugged her. She was eventually abused by her brother as well. Throughout her childhood, she felt unable to fit in. She was close to her grandmother,  and found that volunteering at a local rest home was key in helping her to navigate her way through it all.  You can find Tess:  https://www.facebook.com/tessa.gonzales.7773?mibextid=ZbWKwL HELP NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.           Hel ..read more

For survivors everywhere, we can sometimes we feel we don't fit in with others, in part because our experience was very different to theirs, and trying to explain it is challenging. This was also true of us as children, and is to be expected. If you are struggling with this and it's feeling big, maybe consider that: 'In the not fitting in you are teaching people something.' Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/  #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameba ..read more

Meet Tess Gonzales - Part 1 Christian. Survivor. Advocate. Tess not only suffered prolonged Incest by mother but was drugged throughout as well. Her brother, 41/2 years older than her, was also abused by her mother. Unfortunately he then chose to sexually abuse Tess ensuring home was never a safe place for her. Watching this story will not leave you unmoved. You can find Tess: https://www.facebook.com/tessa.gonzales.7773?mibextid=ZbWKwL HELP NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz.           Help Auckland  0800 623 17 ..read more

Its' not their fault The survivor in your life, may still feel its their fault, that somehow they caused the abuse to occur. Although to you , it may seem unusual they feel that, please understand: as children they were conditioned to believe they were wrong, and actually caused it. They didn't have ability to understand they were being lied to and deceived.  Help them to see that! Go to our website (see below) for more information on resources available, and if you are looking for coaching whether survivor or supporter. https://www.handingtheshameback.org/  #handingtheshameback #ha ..read more

Meet Scott Beard at NZ Police He is a Detective Inspector with the New Zealand Police, leading several teams including: the child protection team, the child exploitation team, the child sex offender management team and the adult sexual assault team in Auckland city. His insights and knowledge help support survivors and children everywhere within NZ, so this feature interview is a must see!. You can reach out to Detective Inspector Scott Beard at NZ Police by calling 09 302 6788. Please note: We acknowledge the source of the image from Ricky Wilson at Stuff. HELP NZ    Sexual Harm Hel ..read more

Meet Mike Chapman - Part 2 From the age of 3, he was abused by his father and then trafficked to others. Through research and dedication Mike was able to find a 12 step group which he found helpful, as well as using the arts which access right brain neural pathways. Dealing with shame and guilt were some big challenges for him as is common in most survivors, but he was able to master those. For inspiration, watch his courageous story here.  You can reach Mike on: - https://www.facebook.com/PolarLifeConsulting, email - PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.com  Linktree - https://linktr.ee/polarl ..read more

Meet Mike Chapman - Part 1 From the age of 3, he was abused by his father who had other victims as well. His mother had never wanted children, his father convinced her to, and up until Mike was 8 the abuse continued. Mike believes he was conceived for this father's purpose of abuse,  until he aged out, at which point his father left the family.  You can reach Mike on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/PolarLifeConsulting email - PolarLifeConsulting@gmail.com Linktree - https://linktr.ee/polarlifeconsulting (all podcast/media appearances) Website - https://www.polarlifeconsulting.com ..read more

Survivors Before any action is taken, lies the thought that precedes it.  Before any thought occurs, lies a feeling. Doesn't it make sense then to maximise that and feel as good as you can? Everything comes down to how you feel, and for survivors that can be a challenge in itself. How do you manage feeling good when you are feeling triggered??  How can you have your thoughts and feelings impact your actions so you are in alignment?  Have a listen here, I know this will give you pause. Go to our website (see below) for more information on our foundation  Donate please ..read more

Meet Cathy O'Brien - Part 2 Healed and vocal survivor of CIA MK Ultra mind control. Cathy's story all began with being born into a multi generational incest based family. Both parents were sexually abused as children. As an adult recovering from this trauma, and at times being overwhelmed by the pervasiveness of child sex trafficking, Cathy found that releasing onto paper tapped into the logical part of the brain, as did finding a 'soulution' - watch here to discover how this works.You can reach Cathy at: www.trance-formation.com and www.trance.movie https://tranceformationofamerica.locals.com ..read more

Meet Cathy O'Brien Healed and vocal survivor of CIA MK Ultra mind control.  Cathy's story all began with being born into a multi generational incest based family. Both parents were sexually abused as children. From the age of six years old, Cathy was used on a white house pentagon level among influential, and self appointed leaders.  You can reach Cathy at: www.trance-formation.com and www.trance.movie https://tranceformationofamerica.locals.com/ @RealCathyOBrien on X, CloutHub, TruthSocial HELP NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz ..read more