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I (51M) arrived in Manhattan late last night. On Bumble I already got 200+ likes, matched with 11 women using free version (all attractive, educated, verified profiles, etc), half have written me so far (most matches this morning). Also got super-swipes and Compliments. So in general, a decent start maybe? Meanwhile on Tinder I only got five or six new likes! And all but two are a bit far away. And one is likely an escort. What is going on? On Bumble I always get 100-some likes when I travel, if not hundreds, and have had well over a thousand in Paris where I live, plus lots of great dates. I ..read more

About to tell someone that she just isn't the one for me and I feel terrible about it because of the hurt it's going to cause her. Absolutely wonderful woman (attractive, kind, smart, caring, good sense of humor) and while I enjoy her company and the few dates we've been on, I just don't think we are compatible for a long term relationship. I know it's going to hurt her as she has made it known that she really likes me and I hate that it has to happen. I know it's better now than a few months from now but I'm feeling awful... submitted by /u/txtriathlete67 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Me (58f) dating a nice man (61)- elegant, intelligent, very physically active. Second date we were kissing/making out on the couch and he had a very impressive erection in his shorts. I was definitely turned on and looking forward to the next date when I thought it would be more appropriate to have sex. But maybe I missed my opportunity lol. 3rd date we end the evening with a lot of kissing and very long (over an hour) foreplay and he has great hands and mouth -but he has no erection at all. We were finally naked in bed together and I told him I wanted to take him in my mouth. He said he had ..read more

I (57m) met my current date (36f) at a business conference. We both work in the same large company but in different divisions.She approached me and expressed interest. We were both infatuated during our first date; great chemistry, similar worldview, and she's stunning. Our second date ended with 5+ hours in bed. She asked me yesterday if I had concerns about our age difference. I answered, "Do you? You're the one assuming more of the risk here." She told me 'I'm into her,' I'm handsome, smart, and can clearly handle the physical side of a potential relationship, and those are the boxes she w ..read more

So I am in a really weird situation. There is this young person I met. She’s 28 or so. Anyways , we got along really well and were all chatting and joking a lot and for whatever reason she started wanting to go out. I sort of told her it might not be a good idea and it’s just too odd. But she insisted and I went along with it for a while. I did it for a few weeks and then I just was not feeling right about it so I sort of told her I think the age difference is too big and there is really no future here. She was cool with it. At least I thought so. So now a month or so later, I find out she is ..read more

What if instead of being divorced or widowed after twenty or thirty years you had just been anxious and been unable to date successfully, or much at all? How do you think that would change things for you? submitted by /u/BornOnThe5thOfJuly [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

EDITED to remove any mention physical attractiveness since it seemed to be triggering to some. I really need help processing what TF happened. I’m a 44F who was recently dating a 53M for just over a month. For context, I’m a successful professional and I tend to be attracted to nerdy men who are typically professionals and successful as well. So anyway, we are dating and things seem amazing. We could talk about anything and everything and our physical chemistry was insane. The sex was off the charts for both of us. The whole time he is asking me “Where did you come from?” and “Where have you ..read more

I am in a loving relationship, and I adore this man. We are so compatible. We are thinking long term. He is the best lover I've ever had. Toe curling orgasms every time. Everything is perfect. Except that sex to be satisfying for him has to be a 3 hour marathon where he comes about 8 times. I just can't manage that three times a week! I'm exhausted and sore and have to get some me time and go to work! I'd love one marathon a weekend, and a couple shorter sessions during the week. I think he doesn't really feel like he came until after 3 hours. He doesnt always ejaculate until the third hour ..read more