Hello I need some help and advice. I have known a girl for about 3 months. We have met and we genuinely has a great time and i gelt a great connection with her. She does not live in the country and went back to her country. We have been texting on and off but recently i have been texting her and she has not replied to even one of my messages. I have texted her a lot of messages and she reads them but does not reply. I know I look like a fool but I have feelings for her and I am not sure... Read more ..read more

I discovered videos on my ex-boyfriend's laptop in which I was being filmed having sex with him without my consent. To my dismay, I also found videos of other girls who seemed unaware of being filmed as well. This revelation has deeply shaken me as I had been in love with him for years, even considering him my best friend. I feel a mix of confusion, shock, and violation, yet I still find myself caring for him despite his betrayal. I'm unsure about what steps to take or how to process my... Read more ..read more

I've been diagnosed with bpd and Anxiety since 2018 and only come into affect properly in 2019. My trauma stems form my previous marriage. My ex husband was mentally abusive and physically too. Its been a painful journey since. I struggled after then to sustain relationships. I OVERTHINK & accused my last partner of cheating when he never did. Small things I notice and is justifiable but in my head I paint a different picture. I torture myself & I hate having this. My partner has left me... Read more ..read more

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum and this is the first question I'm posting. I found this forum while googling "Abandonment issues and separation anxiety", as I've been doing for days now because I'm in some kind of odd situation and I don't know what to do, at all. I googled everything I could google about this, but I found nothing helpful and I'm really really hoping that writing here will be somehow helpful for me, because I don't know what else to do. That said, here's the issue: I...​ Read more ..read more

I'm 40 Male, and I met a 22F early July. (Please do NOT judge me. I did NOT go after her because she's young). I noticed her in the store months prior to July, but was too shy/scared of approaching her to ask her if she were single, etc. She would always check me out at the cash register, and I thought she was kind, nice, bubbly, friendly, etc. That's when I started wondering about her. So, finally on July 9th, I worked up the courage to ask her if she were single and if she would like to... Read more ..read more

hi so i met this boy like 3 months ago (we’ve been talking everyday since like May 4) and i rlly like him and he says he likes me too. whenever we talk it’s rlly nice but we don’t talk v much cause he’s usually on his game a lot (which i don’t rlly mind because i’m a bit of a gamer too so i understand being like invested and stuff) and he also prioritizes his friends a lot since they’ve been friends since like elementary so he spends a lot of time with them (i don’t mind this either—i find... Read more ..read more

For six years now, ive been talking with a man whom i love(d) very much. we connected on all levels, no red flags etc. Just two people being companions online to one another. he is one of those people that i not only could see myself sitting with growing old with, but he felt the exact same way. almost daily, we played games or watched movies, with my daughter. so it was a family thing. Over time we grew to want more, thinking we could meet, and he felt the same way i did. so after 4... Read more ..read more

Hi, I just split with my ex gf 4 weeks ago. It was a sudden hit to me. We met through a friend. We hit off well. We had continued a long distance relationship as we were 1000 miles apart. We managed to see each other every month, tons of calls and texts etc. I mean we really put a lot into it. I spent 3 weeks with her last Christmas. We decided that being closer was the next step. So I agreed that I needed to save for 4 months, pay off everything and then I could emigrate. I had no issue... Read more ..read more

I have a boyfriend and we live together. Have been for a year now, dated two years. However I have a guy friend that hat I have a history with (known eachother since before I met my boyfriend) and have come to realize I have feelings for him too. Boyfriend is nice and all, but literally hasn’t touched me in many months. Part of that is that he’s autistic and takes anxiety meds that kill his libido. I would talk to him about it but I don’t want to bury my feelings for my guy friend. I... Read more ..read more

Hi everyone I’ve never posted here before but I’m just hoping for some encouragement and/or feedback! So I’m a 23 yr old woman with an anxious/disorganized attachment style due to childhood emotional neglect/abuse + past relationship experiences. I have gotten to a mostly stable place with my parents post-moving out, but relationships are still a major struggle and I had a wakeup call recently that made me decide to finally heal my attachment wounds before they destroy a potential... Read more ..read more