Hey all So as the title says, my wife and I are very different when it comes to sex. She’s completely vanilla, but I like to be more playful and am trying to spice things up. Sometimes it feels like having sex with a nun. We still do have sex about once every 7 - 10 days, so it’s not like we’re sexless. But we’re parents of two kids, ages 8 & 5 - so there is a degree of the kids wearing us out and we’re tired more often than not. We are older parents in our 50’s (kids are adopted) and she... Your wife is vanilla, you like it spicier ..read more

So I have a strange life…married for a long time to a good person. We have built a good life together and I’m not interested in “blowing it up”. i have always thought that if you will just listen, people will tell you the truth but often times we choose not to hear what they try to tell us. my wife has never been into sex all that much. Sex was a means of having children and not much more. Occasionally in the beginning she wouldn’t really initiate but did a couple of her moves that said... Strange life ..read more

Why do girls start to distance themselves over text after I’ve had sex with them once or twice. We’ll have amazing chemistry and attraction but after sex their messages will become dry and they will slowly start to stop talking to me. I want to know why this happens and how I can prevent it ..read more

Hi Everyone! I'm new here and I'm wondering if anyone can give this senior any tips about being naked at home. Yes, this is a serious question looking for serious answers. Thanks ..read more

change my mind! I was put thru 5 years of HELL, back in the 70s...and after that, I said NEVER EVER again! Some of you might think...never ssy never. But I assure you, fucking NEVER EVER again!!! I've heard it's a legit emotion...but so is regret and anger. It's been ~half a century now and these past few decades have been total bliss, no matter who I was in a relationship with. Don't live in hell for anyone or any reason ..read more

older man(85+) 5/8, 160's, str8, 7". Can still get it up and wants to together with other similar oldie and enjoy going head to head(frottage).Mpls.MN ..read more

Honesty is what I am looking for. I have mentioned here before that I am lucky enough to have a wife that is very good for me, and I, her. She is awesome in every way - but one. Sexually. She went through menopause, at first her sex drive was unaffected, but as a few years passed it collapsed. Today she basically has no sex drive. (She tried hormones, several, had too many complications) I have lied to her of course, telling her that my own drive has fell, that it isn't that important etc.... Fulfilling a need ..read more

I need help! Please! I have no idea what to do in my situation. This will be long. promise you get a cookie and back rub for reading the whole thang. I've had this friend for a few months, nothing went anywhere. He was a virgin, and I hooked him up with my friend cuz they were both single and looking. I wasn't jealous, it was all good! They only slept together twice and she went off to school, I guess maybe he got attached and was a bit hurt? First partner and all. A month or two... Confused, help ..read more

Have you had the opportuity to watch your partner have sex with others, male or female? Was it exciting to see how they enjoyed things with somebody else ..read more

I’m curious as to what single senior men in their 70s experience when they look for sexual partners. How quick are the gals in their 70s to say yes to sex? How many dates does it take to get intimate? How readily do they perform oral for you? I’m a married senior male and fortunate to have a fairly active sex life with my wife. I just wonder if guys have found single gals in their 70s have: 1) lost libido, Or 2) are reluctant to get intimate until months of “dating” Or 3) are more... sex life for single/widowed guys in 70s ..read more