Super sketchy ..read more

Ditch this guy and move on. Too many things are not adding up. He’s not saying it back. He’s not worth your time. He’s most likely playing the field still or traveling solo. Don’t keep reaching out. Pull way, way, way back and enjoy your life without him ..read more

I just asked him how is it back East? Is it cold? Location says he’s in Los Angeles. What do I do? No comment since last night after I said while he’s away it would mean a lot to me if he said I love you too. I feel like that’s not being needy, I have been in relationships where I haven’t vocalized things I need. Now I see his location is in a whole different place per Bumble. Los Angeles vs back east. I said “how is it back east? Is it cold?” I want to see how deep he goes in this lie ..read more

I had a weird feeling, so I looked on Bumble where we met. It shows his current location is Los Angeles. He’s supposed to be back east. Do I believe bumble ..read more

Last night he said he didn’t have time to talk about my day when I told him I wanted to tell him about my first day of work. I said ok I love you. He said nothing back. I said it would mean a lot to me while he is away for him to say I love you too. Nothing in response ..read more

i think he might be on holiday with someone else ..read more

I’ve been dating a guy since January and he and I said I love you last week. He had a friend die (of a brain tumor) and he said he didn’t think he was going to the memorial. Not an ex, just a friend. Well, I figured it would be like a quick trip. So I asked him if he was going when we were out of town last week. He said he wasn’t sure if he could get the PTO. A day or so later, he told me he was going–for 6 days. He asked if I was upset he didn’t invite me but it was all kinda last minute and I started a new move in my career today. I asked if he needed a ride to the airport and he said he was ..read more

I know it isn’t ideal to change your life around for a significant other, but does your bf need to play on this soccer team and hang out with the mutuals? Frankly, if they’re willing to stay friends with someone abusive (or believe the ex’s lies), why would he want to be around people like that anyway? Wouldn’t it solve the problems to find a different league and drop the trashy mutuals, as then there’s no connection anymore? He doesn’t work with them, they’re not family, your bf isn’t stuck needing to see these people and I wouldn’t want to be hanging around a situation where an unstable and ..read more

Hi Raven I do think he’d physically attack my boyfriend. His anger and aggression is known on the team and is frequently disciplined about it ..read more

Hi Ewa, it was the reaction of everyone else really and the fear of what my ex would do, as he was physically abusive. We both agreed to keep it between us (and immediate family) for the time being while the dust settles. My ex has spun the break up on me to a lot of mutual friends that new boyfriend sees at games ..read more