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14h ago
My husband and I are busy people. We have to make plans for intimacy — I realize spontaneity is romantic but sometimes you have to actually talk about when you are going to make time for it to happen. Communicate with each other and make it a priority as a team. Practice different ways to bring it up and think about when would be a good time (mostly when neither of you are stressed, hungry or tired). Do it sooner rather than later. Consider it practice for all the challenges that come with marriage. You’ll have many instances where you will need to talk about difficult things and the art of co ..read more
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22h ago
married for 1 year but how long have you been together? why are your schedules different? have you talked to him? I feel sometimes people stop trying once they get married, they feel like they have achieved something and that is it. I remember a woman I know who told me that when she complained to her husband about some things he wasn’t doing, he replied : I married you what else do you want. You need to talk to your husband, realign your schedules and see if the situation improves ..read more
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Barely have intimacy
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22h ago
Hi there, my husband and I haven’t even been married a year and we barely do anything. We have complete opposite schedules but I’m starting to feel distant and physical intimacy isn’t number one but what’s going on? I am starting to feel really sad ..read more
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Reply To: How to know if this is genuine attraction or love bombing?
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5d ago
The problem is, you can’t know if someone is a narcissist after only a date or two unless their behavior is so extreme that it’s obvious without even needing to get to know them. Paying attention when you see red flags is good, and so is listening to your gut if something feels uncomfortable, weird, or off. And I agree with all the tips mama gave too. But being hypervigilant, scanning constantly for red flags, measuring behavior by counting dates, this actually doesn’t help you because doing those things means you’re acting out of fear which will get in the way of building a connection with a ..read more
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Reply To: How to know if this is genuine attraction or love bombing?
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5d ago
So after our first date he asked to see me again and I guess I asked him to wait another week to see me again and he was fine with that but then the weather was nice and I was free so I suggested meeting him during the week and he agreed. He asks when I am free instead of just telling me that he can see me for example Wednesday. When I said he planned 2 dates in advance I meant he told me he can also be free on Saturday if I wanted to see him but I haven’t confirmed yet ..read more
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Reply To: How to know if this is genuine attraction or love bombing?
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5d ago
p.s. pay close attention to how he responds to your setting the pace and frequency. I wouldn’t necessarily have a discussion about it right now, just let him know you have X amount of time and can spend X% of it with him, not all of it. He should respect your needs — if he responds negatively in any way, THAT is a red flag IMO. Good luck ..read more
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5d ago
My husband was like this and I realized early on that I was the one that needed to set the pace if I wanted it to develop. So I only saw him once a week for a while, only communicated with him on text once a day, and gradually I got a better idea of who he was. I paid attention to the relationships he had around him — friends and family were important and he was someone they would turn to for advice. As time went on, I learned this is just his personality — he tends to pour his whole self into things. Sometimes it’s me, sometimes it’s his hobbies… it ebbs and flows. In your case I’d say it’s a ..read more
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How to know if this is genuine attraction or love bombing?
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5d ago
Hi, I’ve met this guy about a week go and somehow we have managed to meet twice in one week. My ex was a narcissist and I am now very suspicious not to date another one in the future so just wanted to check with you if the guy I am meeting now might be a narcissist. He texts me daily but isn’t too demanding if I don’t answer straight away he is chilled but I can clearly see he wants to stay in touch and it is mainly him who drives the conversations. No gifts and big gestures, no promise for the future.He likes showing affection and generally being physically close. The bit that was worried me ..read more
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Reply To: Is he playing games with me?
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2w ago
Yikes! Seriously… I see you Angie ..read more
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Reply To: Is he playing games with me?
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2w ago
Tallspicy, thank you for laying all of that out. You and I have the wisdom and the process defined and our standards set high – we are the minority. The majority of women do NOT, hence the existence of this forum and all the posts from women who have compromised their security because they don’t have standards and don’t understand the very real risks of online dating and aren’t protecting themselves properly, despite the warnings on the dating sites. And don’t even get me started on, don’t give money to someone you’ve never met ..read more
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