I really feel that marriages have been so focused on the physical aspect (if that is an actual thing) especially in this time we are living in and it leaves a lot of people with misdirected expectations and disappointments. We tend to think of marriage on the woman perspective as dressing well for your husband, having the best physique, receiving flowers, going on holiday all the time, taking social media pictures and videos. Life is deeper than that and as much as those things I counted are a bonus however that is not the purpose of Marriage. What is Marriage? Ephesians 5:23-3325 Husbands ..read more

I have been really struggling keeping my family entertained during weekend nights or just nights in our home. We have been opting for the same movie night on Fridays and the children have been evidently bored. You know when you know that you have to change something, but you are not changing because you are so comfortable in doing the same easy thing. Yes, that has been my family and I for the past year except for vacation and stay cation days & nights. It is pretty normal to find that you are operating on autopilot however it is necessary to change or be more creative so that you do not ..read more

Are you expecting mommy, getting a new nanny or maybe do you need more help around the house as a stay at home mom? Whether you are working or you are staying at home we do need help. Ever heard the saying that it takes a community to raise a child, we need help more that we are able to admit it. It is however very critical on the kind of help we expose our children too. Proverbs 22: 6Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it. I would like to take you through some of the advantages and some disadvantages of having a live-out nanny with the hope ..read more

On our last blog post we talked about building a strong relationship with our children, do check out the post as we revive our relationships and are in a season of teaching our blessings, modelling and most importantly sowing seeds that we would like to see grow. If you do not like the direction you are headed, you can still turn it around. Related Post! BUILD A STRONG RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR CHILDREN IN 9 WAYS Today we are focusing on mommy and daddy, the foundational relationship that makes your family a family. This is the relationship when watered, thrives and feeds life to the entire ..read more

The same way you desire a good career and spend time ruminating about it even when you are at home with your family, the same way you should work on your relationship with your children. Why is this important? The answer lies within yourself too because you know how dear your children are to your heart and the guilt that overwhelms you when you perceive that you have not been a good parent in one area or several areas that concerns and affects your children. We pursue many things as parents including social media presence and I wonder if we are able to balance it with the presence in our chil ..read more

We keep promising ourselves that our lives will change for the better when a new year comes but we end up accepting our normal habits and routines. How long have we promised ourselves we will change in certain areas but we did not? How long have you promised yourself that you will grow spiritually, emotionally or mentally? Change does not come by a miracle( it may but it still needs your commitment) but it comes by making a decision and sticking to that decision daily by your actions. Welcome to 2023, where we will not let ourselves be mediocre, where we will not watch ourselves faint in our ..read more

A reliable Nanny Financial Freedom Vacations Restaurants, lodges, hotels with game areas for children Enough Time with the Children Enough Time With Their Spouse Spiritual fitness Physical fitness People to Give Them the space for Leisure Non Judgmental Space This past Sunday we drove around with my husband debating on a place where we could entertain our children and it was a bit challenging because as much as we knew some places that have games like swings, monkey bars, sandbox area, large area for running around and a swimming pool there may just be a few places that actually offer that ..read more

It is the early Monday morning, you thought it would find you prepared but whom are you kidding because you know very well you did not prepare much at all until the vanity of wishful thinking that the weekend is still continuing disappears. It becomes another day where you are rushing through preparing for work and preparing for school (yes even home schooled children need to be prepared). You leave home for work after rushing through exercising, bathing and preparing breakfast and you give yourself a pep talk and promise yourself that the following day will not be like this. I will do better ..read more

As we live our lives from day to day, we hardly take time to gain clarity for our own lives and to receive wisdom from above. I have recently taken the time to observe the lives of old people and how their generation line looks like, how the choices they make affect their children, children’s children and more generations to come. It is important that we look at our lives as a going and endless journey because it really never ends but continues to affect the children you bring, their children and more generations that come after that. Parenting is a journey that requires growth and one that r ..read more

You would think being a mother comes with all the instincts you will get it right away. There is a lot of learning to do, a lot of mistakes, a lot of trial and error but you stay committed to the journey because of the love you have for your children. Sometimes you will realize that you keep learning the same things over and over again. Some of the major things you keep learning many times before grasping eventually is mastering what could be possibly making the baby cry. ( new baby) You will find many times it is; A nappy change Hunger Tiredness Being sleepy Discomforts whether tight clothe ..read more