Today, we are diving into a topic that we have never discussed before on the show: caretaking and its effect on marriage. Caretaking can involve caring for someone who is physically or mentally ill, be it a parent, relative, or spouse. Recently, we've been thrust into the caretaking role with our ailing parents, and we're navigating this new stage of life while sharing our experiences, how we deal with it individually and as a couple, and offering tips that have helped us manage this challenging phase. You will receive: Coping strategies for managing the stress of caretaking. Encouragement ..read more

In today's episode, we have a candid conversation about the ups and downs of marriage, focusing on growth, trust, and emotional capacity. We take an unfiltered look into our marriage, discussing our struggles and how we navigate them. Inspired by prominent voices in the black marriage community, we emphasize the importance of sharing both the highs and the lows to provide a realistic view of marital life. Podcast Mentions Support this Podcast: Click Here John Gottman:  The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work Kevin and Melissa Fredricks: Marriage be Hard Beleaf in Fatherhood: How Mar ..read more

In this episode, I address what I. believe is the result of long term porn use in relationships.  While some argue it can enhance sexual experiences, others say it breeds discontent, and an inability to connect intimately with one's partner.  I will be drawing insights from my personal experiences and those of members in my recovery group who claim shattered marriages, career losses and even deeper dives into other forms of addiction. Podcast Mentions Support this Podcast: Click HereSampson SocietyCovenant EyesUnwanted by Jay Stringer Therapy for Black Men: Find a Therapist Therapy f ..read more

In this episode, I address what I. believe is the result of long term porn use in relationships.  While some argue it can enhance sexual experiences, others say it breeds discontent, and an inability to connect intimately with one's partner.  I will be drawing insights from my personal experiences and those of members in my recovery group who claim shattered marriages, career losses and even deeper dives into other forms of addiction. Podcast Mentions Support this Podcast: Click HereSampson SocietyCovenant EyesUnwanted by Jay Stringer Therapy for Black Men: Find a Therapist Therapy f ..read more

Did you know that 69% of marital conflicts will not be resolved why because these conflicts stem from fundamental differences between the the two individuals in the relationship. These problem are less about the bills, family, or sex but more about how the individual sees and responds to these issues. Lets talk about it, in this episode we will discuss where natural differences come from,  how to accept your spouse as a whole person good and bad, our experience and how learning this helped our marriage.  Podcast Mentions Support this Podcast: Click Here Therapy for Black Men: Find a ..read more

This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self. In this episode, we talk about the sometimes controversial topic of gender differences and similarities in the context of marriage. We discuss how men and women, especially in the Black community, are more alike than we often think. We address the stereotypes spread by the media and common social beliefs, highlighting the need for critical thinking and self-education to strengthen and support marriages. Podcast Mentions BetterHelp: Get started tod ..read more

Today, we're breaking the mold by exploring the idea of going into business with your spouse. Meet Troy & Shantel Brooks, childhood friends turned spouses and business partners, sharing their journey from NYC to Atlanta with purpose, impact, and faith. In their book "Spartners," Troy & Shantel provide practical insights on how working with your spouse can enrich your marriage. Join us as we uncover reflective practices to reveal the value in your partner as a business ally and discover the gifts within your spouse for a purposeful life. In this episode, we will be learning about the Sp ..read more

There are moments in our lives that stick with us for a lifetime. Some of these moments, however, carry wounds so deep that we bury them, pretending they never existed—Until…… someone accidentally touches it. Then what?..... When left unaddressed, these invisible traumas can cast a long shadow over our lives and, more specifically, our marriages. In this episode, we're privileged to have an expert guide us through this sensitive topic. Joining us is Kaara Kiddoe, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and the Co-Founder of Authentic Marriages, a Christian marriage ministry she runs alongside her hu ..read more

In this episode, Junior and Dr. Jared Kiddoe teach men how to deal with the pressing issue of healing Black men's traumas in America. Listen to Learn: *Working definition for mental health & trauma *Why is addressing trauma so hard for black men? (including how men typically respond) *How men can process their trauma Lets us acknowledge your experience and empower you with the tools to support your mental health. Podcast Mentions Support this Podcast: ⁠Click Here⁠ Therapy for Black Men: ⁠Find a Therapist⁠ Therapy for Black Girls: ⁠Find a Therapist⁠ BetterHelp: ⁠https://www.betterhelp.com ..read more

Show  Notes This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/BLACKMARRIAGE and get on your way to being your best self. In this episode, we talk about why honesty matters in relationships and what honesty looks like in marriagek. We discuss the journey to being completely honest, even though it's hard. We look at why we sometimes don't tell the truth, whether it's to protect our partner's feelings or because we're scared of how they'll react. We share practical tips for having tough conversations honestly and kindly, without expecting anything in r ..read more