Is being obedient obsolete? In today’s rapidly changing world, where individuality and independence are highly valued, the concept of obedience may seem outdated or even undesirable. However, obedience is a complex and nuanced trait that has both positive and negative implications, depending on the context in which it is applied. On one hand, obedience can be seen as a valuable trait in certain situations. In many aspects of life, such as in the workplace or in educational settings, obedience to rules, regulations, and authority figures is necessary for maintaining order and achieving common ..read more

Narcissists are known for their self-centeredness and inability to see things from anyone else’s point of view. Their inflated sense of self-importance and lack of empathy can make it challenging for them to consider the perspectives and feelings of others. As I see more of their tribe around me these days, I decided to delve into this aspect of narcissism and explore how it impacts their interactions with the world around them. One of the defining traits of narcissism is a grandiose sense of self. Narcissists believe they are superior to others and often dismiss or belittle the opinions and ..read more

In today’s fast-paced world, where the demands of work, family, and personal life can often feel overwhelming, many modern women are embracing a new mantra: methodical is the new peace of mind. This mindset emphasizes the importance of being organized, structured, and intentional in how we approach our daily lives, with the goal of achieving greater peace of mind and overall well-being. One of the key benefits of adopting a methodical approach is the sense of control and empowerment it can bring. By carefully planning and organizing our tasks and responsibilities, we can feel more in control ..read more

Being logical is typically seen as a positive trait, associated with rational thinking and sound reasoning. We keep telling children to think logically. However, there are times when being overly logical can lead to hilariously absurd situations. Let’s explore some humorous examples of how logic can sometimes backfire and turn everyday situations into comedy gold. I have heard these from friends, and they seemed worth the while to note somewhere. Imagine a scenario where someone is trying to follow a GPS navigation system to reach their destination. They diligently follow the instructions, on ..read more

The idea that being kind-hearted as opposed to being knowledgeable is a common misconception. Kindness and knowledge are not mutually exclusive; rather, they can complement and enhance each other in profound ways. Kind-heartedness is often associated with qualities such as compassion, empathy, and generosity. It is the ability to act with warmth and understanding towards others, even in difficult or challenging situations. Kind-hearted individuals are often seen as caring and considerate, with a genuine desire to help and support those around them. On the other hand, knowledge is the accumula ..read more

The joy of giving is a feeling like no other. It is a profound sense of satisfaction and happiness that comes from helping others and making a positive impact on their lives. Whether it’s a small act of kindness or a significant donation, giving has the power to uplift spirits, strengthen communities, and create lasting change. Through my NGO as I set up TLM labs or get digital classrooms or train teachers with wholesome support in their work – the satisfaction is immeasurable. One of the greatest joys of giving is the knowledge that you are making a difference in someone else’s life. Whether ..read more

Being incredibly idealistic can be infectious, sparking a wave of positivity and inspiration that spreads far and wide. Idealism, characterized by a belief in the possibility of a better world and a commitment to achieving it, has the power to motivate and mobilize others to join in the pursuit of noble goals and aspirations. One of the key reasons why I left active education line to start my NGO last year. Idealism, I strongly believe is infectious because of its ability to ignite hope and optimism. When someone expresses a bold vision for a better future and demonstrates a genuine belief in ..read more

In a world where social media often glorifies extravagance and impulsivity, it’s important to remember that being grounded and level-headed as a teenager should always be considered glamorous. I always draw lessons from my own childhood. Though we did not have these influences but then there were the ‘expectations’ and the ‘desires’ in place – quite too often and the wish to ‘keep up with the joneses’ so to say. Yet the confidence of being myself and the self-assuredness from my family – my parents that what I was doing was amazing and so unique – always had my back and my emotional well-bein ..read more

In today’s digital age, being famous on social media is often considered fashionable and desirable, a trend which leaves me intrigued. The rise of platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube has created a new breed of celebrities known as “social media influencers” who have amassed large followings and wield significant influence. But why is being famous on social media so appealing in the present time? I thought that exploring some of the reasons behind this phenomenon may indeed be an interesting read too. Visibility and Recognition: Social media provides a platform for individuals to sho ..read more

Photo by Pixabay on Pexels.com Teaching children the art of being emotionally empathetic is crucial for their social and emotional development. As an educator and a teacher trainer, I have always stressed on this to be the most important & vital aspect to be inculcated, if not ‘learnt’ by all involved with kids in a school environment. Empathy, the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, is a skill that can have a profound impact on how children relate to others and navigate the world around them. Here are some strategies I identify which can help educators and adults who ..read more