Are you addicted to the chase? A lot of your connections start off strong but then fade away. You're tired of situationships or things ending after a few months. You want a fulfilling and long-lasting relationship, but you don't know how to break this pattern. Listen to this episode to learn how to kick your love addiction. Deadline to apply to FFY is on 2/18: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/finally-found-you ..read more

You feel embarrassed to cry in front of people. You don't want to seem weak, too needy, or too sensitive, so you hide your emotions to appear strong. But, no matter how hard you try to toughen up, you cry a lot especially when your crush hurts your feelings. This episode will change your perspective on crying so that you can find your person. Deadline to apply to FFY is on 2/18: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/finally-found-you ..read more

You feel embarrassed that you're the friend that always has a new boo every few months. Your friends are getting engaged or getting married, and you're still trying to figure out your love life. It's hard to not feel ashamed! This episode helps you overcome that shame so that you can feel confident putting yourself out there again... and again. https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/newsletter ..read more

You want to find your person, but when it comes to love and dating you're always waiting. Instead of putting yourself out there, you wait to be chosen. You think your life will start once they finally come around and pick you. Except, you've been waiting for years and you still feel hopeless and disappointed about finding love. If you're waiting for your fairytale ending, then this episode is for you. This episode will teach you how to create your happily ever after. Stop waiting, start creating! Apply to Finally Found You: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/finally-found-you ..read more

It's hard to trust yourself. You overthink every little thing before making a decision. You can't tell the difference between your intuition and fear. Sometimes, you avoid or opt out of making decisions altogether because it's so overwhelming. This episode teaches you how to trust yourself so that you can create the love you've always longed for. Apply to Finally Found You: https://www.gabriellevaldes.com/finally-found-you ..read more

"I want my relationship to challenge me." Yes, but, there's a difference between a relationship that challenges you to grow into the best version of yourself versus a relationship that constantly chips away at your self-worth. If you want to create a fulfilling relationship, you have to know what you're aiming for. This episode gives you clarity on what a thriving relationship looks and feels like. Part one focuses on the qualities of survival relationships and part two focuses on the characteristics of a thriving relationship.  Is your relationship right for you? Find out now by taking t ..read more

And I'm back! If we haven't met yet, I'm Gabby Valdes. I'm a dating coach that helps singles looking for love find someone to share their life with. Tune in every week for a new episode. You'll learn how to find your person and ways to overcome rejection - and everything in between. It's going to be a great season! Can't wait? Start learning how to find your person on my new blog now ..read more

We first learn how to love from our caregivers. This was when I first learned that love was distant, unavailable and inconsistent. This carried over well into my adult life. I crafted a story that I was unloveable and unworthy because of it. This story had serious consequences. I was repulsed by healthy love and instead chased emotionally unavailable people. This episode helps you learn how to accept healthy love so that you can break the unavailable cycle for you (and your future kids) once in for all. https://www.instagram.com/gabriellevaldes ..read more

"I want my relationship to challenge me." Yes, but, there's a difference between a relationship that challenges you to grow into the best version of yourself versus a relationship that constantly chips away at your self-worth. If you want to create a fulfilling relationship, you have to know what you're aiming for. This episode gives you clarity on what a thriving relationship looks and feels like. Part one focuses on the qualities of survival relationships and part two focuses on the characteristics of a thriving relationship.  Is your relationship right for you? Find out now by taking t ..read more

If friendships and dating are hard for you, you might believe that you're not cut out for them. I've been there. I've wanted to give up on relationships because I thought I was bad at them. This podcast episode debunks the myth that friendships and relationships should come easy. You'll gain a new perspective on relationships after listening to this episode. Nothing's wrong with you. Trust me.  ..read more