Life is full of challenges and moments that test our limits. It's not just about getting through them, but growing from them and embracing the experiences they bring. But how do you find the balance between pushing yourself and being kind to yourself? On this episode of Building Resilience I’ll give you the keys to find the sweet spot between grit and grace. I'll share personal stories and explore how grit helps us stay committed to our goals, while grace allows us to maintain our emotional health and positive relationships. We'll discuss the importance of having both traits, how they complem ..read more

Every city has a unique infrastructure, built to withstand different climates and conditions. Our genetics, environment, and experiences change us too—guiding us to adapt to our individual challenges. On this episode of Building Resilience, we’ll get into this analogy even more: constructing your personal healing infrastructure. We'll explore the key elements necessary to fortify your resilience: sleep, nutrition, movement, and connection. I'll share practical tips on how to create intentional habits that support these fundamentals, while balancing consistency with flexibility. Links: Ep.13 ..read more

Uncertainty is an inevitable part of life. Whether it's the uncertainty of a new job, a relationship, or even the weather, our brains are wired to crave stability and predictability. But why is that? What happens in our brains and our bodies when we face uncertainty, and how can we navigate through it effectively? On this episode of Building Resilience, we're talking about the universal topic of facing uncertainty. We’ll discuss why our brains see unpredictability as a potential threat and how this triggers a stress response. From career changes and health scares to financial instability and ..read more

Learning new things can sometimes be a struggle. We have all this new information, but how can we make sure we can retain and use it? Fortunately, there are strategies that can help you boost your learning power and enhance your memory retention. On this episode of Building Resilience, we're going to dig into the world of learning and memory. I'll share the impact of stress on memory, practical tips to reduce stress, create a productive learning environment, and use effective learning techniques like repetition and the Pomodoro Technique. Whether you're a student or a parent of students, thes ..read more

Our words can be more influential than we realize. Simple statements can turn our day around---for better or worse. It's fascinating how the language we use can shape our feelings, actions—and ultimately, our lives. In this episode of Building Resilience, we're talking about the power of words and their transformative abilities. With my simple trick, the concept of "It is safe to…", I’ll show you how adding this phrase to your thoughts can open up new possibilities, calm your nervous system, and boost your confidence. We'll also discuss practical techniques to incorporate this mindset shift i ..read more

Life has a funny way of making us rush around, doesn't it? Many of us find ourselves constantly moving, always trying to get to the next thing. But what if we just slowed it down a bit? What if we took a moment to breathe and really savor the moment we're in? On this episode of Building Resilience, we’re talking about the power and importance of slowing down. I'll be sharing insights from my own experiences and the lessons I've learned from my coaching certification program, I’ll explain why rushing can be detrimental to our health, relationships, and quality of life, and I’ll give some practi ..read more

We all know that pain is real, even pain that can't be narrowed down to a specific cause. But that begs the question---do your thoughts and feelings about pain actually make your pain worse? In this episode, I'm going to share a useful tool that explores these thoughts, the Pain Catastrophizing Scale. It's a tool designed to measure your tendency to catastrophize pain. By separating the elements of how catastrophizing tends to manifest (rumination, magnification, and helplessness) it can help health care professionals guide treatment strategies and track progress, and can even increase your aw ..read more

Life has a funny way of pulling us into a spiral of negative thinking sometimes. We start with a small concern, and before we know it, we're deep in a cycle of catastrophic thoughts. Our brain has a negativity bias, but luckily we can train it to see the positives too. On this episode of Building Resilience, I delve into the concept of catastrophizing---a common cognitive distortion that traps us in a loop of negative thinking. We'll explore what catastrophizing is, why our minds tend to fall into this pattern, and the impact it can have on our mental and physical health. From understanding th ..read more

Life has a way of pushing us to our limits, often showing us how resilient we truly are. It's not just about bouncing back; it's about growing and embracing life's experiences. On this episode of Building Resilience, I’m joined by my coach and mentor, Lianne Kim. Lianne is a business coach, founder of Mamas & Co., and host of the popular podcast, The Business of Thinking Big. Today, we dive deep into the topic of rejection, exploring its impact on our lives and how we can reframe and reclaim our power from it. Lianne shares her personal journey, from her early struggles in sales to becomi ..read more

Ever found yourself struggling to remember the details of important events, even ones you've looked forward to for weeks? It can be frustrating, especially when those moments mean so much to us. On this episode of Building Resilience, I dive into practical tips and techniques that can boost your memory for special occasions. Whether it's a graduation, a family gathering, or any other significant event, these strategies will help you hold onto those precious memories. Connections: A new membership I am offering---This is a safe place where you can explore your nervous system, build up your ..read more