A question we all want the answer to: If we can’t rush the healing, how do we handle the pain? Learning to not push away my pain—the physical and emotional, has been one of my greatest-hardest-most luminous learnings. It’s walking toward Acceptance––capital “A” Acceptance, the Soul Quality,  And it really has upleveled my LIFE. Here’s a highlight from our HOW TO HEAL FOR REAL WORKSHOP. V.S., our metaphysical practitioner and I built out a teaching about resistance and dis-ease. This was my most highly attended and embraced class to date. I’ll walk you through a powerful metaphor for how t ..read more

Hi Friends, I talk about this is consciousness circles AND business masterminds: Are there metrics for enlightenment?  Yes, yes there are! It’s like being spiritually cool…which comes with a heap less ego. You might not be saintly or levitating, but…like… You don't need to defend yourself after every argument. (Or do you? ☺️)  You don't have to go to everything you’re invited to. (Right?) You’re in touch with your nervous system. (It’s that internal network that controls your response to EVERYTHING.) Come on over to WITH LOVE, DANIELLE (Episode 109) and I’ll affirm how truly rad yo ..read more

My Friends, Inner battlefields (which are so painful.). Global battlefields (too many to count.) Bravado that’s cruisin’ for a Dark Night of The Soul. Adrenal fatigue and fried nervous systems.  Look where hardlines and forcing ourselves to endure have gotten us. Keep in mind: Antidotes are the OPPOSITE of the poison. So… I’m building a strong case for softening.  These 10 Ways That Being Softer Makes You More Powerful are not just about flexibility. You’re going to see how apologies (the sincere kind) and self protection (without being brittle) and radical responsibility (KEY qualit ..read more

I’m never contrarian for the sake of it. I’m good to go with the conventional flow. But not today, friends, not today! We have higher realms of consciousness to traverse. And those higher states are not in our guts. or lower chakras, or low vibe stories from our past. Old adage: "Trust your gut.” New way: Nah.  Pay attention to your gut, but don’t let it make your plans. There’s both spiritual and scientific sense to this.  In WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 107 I’m talking about decisions, intuition, direction, and how to figure out your next best move....and it’s NOT about “following your ..read more

Friends… After 4 weeks of the Healing With Anxiety series, maybe we need a palate cleanser, yes? Like so: If you could do a “do over” what would it be? Talk about starting over after divorce. What’s in your bag? What’s in your fridge? Why do you think our peers aren't’ talking about… certain world issues? And how to shift? Lite, deep, lite, lite, and way deep. I’m so glad we’re in this together. It’s Wednesday! So WITH LOVE, DANIELLE is ready for you and Episode 106 “Do overs + What’s in my bag? It’s Q+Awesome!” Lifestyle, heartbreak and always…healing. See you in there! With Love, Danielle ME ..read more

Oh hi, high achiever! I know you can do ALL OF IT. You ALWAYS pull it OFF.  But… at what cost? Crappy sleep, anxiety meds, cortisol levels whacked, extra pounds, skimmed savings, minimal alone time… too much alone time? Let’s heart to heart this out. Because this is a collective story and we need to rewrite the script. WITH LOVE, DANIELLE Eps 105 is for the polished, solid, achieving, doing, driven, types who are also actually the worrying, perpetually dissatisfied, unable to relax, fretting about what others think of you… types. This is part 4 in my 4-part podcast series on Healing With ..read more

Hello Friends on the path… I’ve known about the struggles of some of my favorite philosophers…Krishnamurti suffered from terrible migraines. Ram Dass had a massive stroke. Yogananda had crippling pain from apparently taking on the karma of his devotees.  Anyone in a physical body suffers. Facts. But the accounts I found most helpful were those of teachers who struggled with anxiety and panic. Teachers of mind mastery who had to face these kinds of inner hurdles struck me deeply. Two of whom helped me relax into deep self compassion: Adyashanti and Mingyur Rinpoche, and I’ve found a way to ..read more

Charlie Brown's famous words "My anxieties have anxieties!" is a reality for people with anxiety “disorders.” Anticipating, forecasting and predicting …worry, unease and nervousness. All of which create symptoms that create a fear that the symptoms will last forever. This is part 2 in my 4 part series on Healing With Anxiety and I embed an anxiety quiz for you in this episode (#103). We’ll see which lifestyle areas have some anxiety chatter for you.  The What and WHY of anxiety… and how do you know how long it will last? What does it look like to have a healthy relationship with our thin ..read more

Our 4 part series on How To Heal with Anxiety starts here, with Love. With some help from conventional sources, the metaphysical practitioner on our team, V.S., and my own experiences with anxiety and healing, I’m setting the stage for us to look at basic anxiety “disorders” and to move toward healing measures. You will see yourself, and/or your loved ones and the world at large in this list of anxieties types. NAMING struggles is an important part of healing, and… I’m encouraging us to NOT OVER-IDENTIFY WITH LABELS. Especially when we’re talking about anxiety disorders. I prefer to say, “imba ..read more

What part of you is saying your affirmations? Your fearful part, or your faithful self? Who's doing the affirming? I’ve been going off about the down-side of self help affirmations for yuh-earrs. But complaining is a kind of affirmation, inn’t? So… I’m shifting into solutions. But in order to get to that higher consciousness, we’ve got to unpack the unconscious stuff. There’s a sequencing for creating healthier affirmations. I unpack each of these tenets/directives: WE CREATE MORE OF WHAT WE THINK WE ARE  RUNNING FROM THE PAIN CREATES MORE PAIN  IDENTIFY AS LOVE TO OPEN POSSIBILITIE ..read more