Have you ever heard the saying “age comes with lots of wisdom?” Trust me, that is some serious truth. Not every young lady was privileged to know about this information I’m about to share with you now girl. Count yourself lucky if you are reading this. A Facebook friend named ‘Omoby’ made a status update on Facebook. She asked for us to share “what types of advice to give to younger ladies.” I made a comment sharing these recommendations for every young lady out there. I believe these are some serious and important core values needed. 1). Build your own financial stability. 2). Get an educatio ..read more

From my experience, I can tell you that educational apps for kids are very beneficial. Although some of the apps are not strictly for math only but can be used in class and at home for extra learning purposes. The good thing about them is that they are fun and interactive. A lot of parents like myself, may not have enough time to actually sit down to teach their kids more maths regularly due to work schedule. Some parents do not know math at all. That’s ok, there is a solution. Below are 6 Math apps that will definitely help improve math understanding and skills; 1. Adapted Minds This is a mat ..read more

Why do people care if you tag or don’t tag your spouse?. Unbelievable! I think this should be a personal choice. There was a TREND going on social media about “women who don’t tag their husbands, are insecure.” I mean, I am aware there are other things in the world to worry about. But here we are talking about tags on social media, lol. That’s what makes the world interesting, right?. NOW LET’S DISCUSS THE ASSUMPTIONS PEOPLE HAVE ABOUT TAGGING OR NOT TAGGING OF SPOUSES ON SOCIAL MEDIA. People believe ‘not tagging’ your spouses means you are insecure because… 1. You think your spouse will cheat ..read more

Having abstained from sex while dating, (for almost eight years), I think I dare to share with you what worked for me, for us. I’m also sharing because some people who know our story have asked how we did it. HOW TO ABSTAIN FROM PREMARITAL SEX It should be obvious to all of us that we live in a sex-mad culture, we live in a culture that is indulging itself in every conceivable and inconceivable sexual activity. Not only is sexual sin tolerated and seen as a norm, and not just being tolerated and advocated, it is promoted, marketed through every media means possible. Thus, it’s unimaginable to ..read more

What is a FEMINIST? A FEMINIST is a person that supports feminism. What is FEMINISM? Gender equality! That’s it. Simple! Most parents are so focused on raising their daughters to be outspoken and to know how to fight stereotypes, learn self-love and confidence. Then we end up forgetting about the boys. Boys need to be taught feminism just like we teach our girls. We need more boys who are FEMINIST. If we don’t teach them, society will teach them patriarchy. And that is difficult to unlearn. I had a conversation with my son a while ago. He was concerned about how the media constantly talks abou ..read more

WOMEN NEED MARRIAGE FOR NOTHING Written By Esiri Ukueku Uduaghan. WARNING: I’m approaching this topic from a PRAGMATIC and CEREBRAL point of view, SO PLEASE if you do not possess the ability to reason within those boundaries (i.e Religious and Moral Police) please swerve to the left. Thank you. Here we go Growing up in a patriarchal society as a young girl, you are socially engineered to look forward to your wedding day. I guess it’s something in the breast milk female babies are fed. Your Wedding day is the ultimate day of your life and you are expected to look forward to it with dreamy eyes ..read more

Here’s to all my strong, unbroken, independent, fearless and incredible women out there. For those who are not sure about this whole challenge , it was initially created to support Turkish women as they are being increasingly brutalized and murdered with little to no charges being brought against their attackers but it got watered down when it went international. They post black and white pictures the same way we posted the blackout Tuesday for blacklivesmatter. I had to edit my hashtags to create more exposure to raise the awareness. If you’ve posted a black and white photo without a message ..read more

I stumbled upon this amazing story that a mom shared on her Facebook page. It was very relatable and inspiring. I reached out to her to share her story. I hope you enjoy this and learn from it too. Happy reading. I value my sanity. No, I have more than enough to spare to some of you parents who feel like pulling out your hair. I want to tell you a little something I discovered during the lockdown. The first few weeks of the lockdown was quite overwhelming for me. I had to deal with so many things all at once. Managing my kids was one thing that wasn’t easy at all. Can you believe all their bo ..read more

#May28 #MenstrualHygieneDay 1) Do you know that millions of girls in Africa have to miss school and other social activities because they are menstruating and can’t afford sanitary pads? Not having access to basic feminine hygiene products to manage menstruation limits girls and women and affects their self-esteem. Imagine our females having to miss school, exams, sports activities, work and social gatherings because they can’t afford sanitary pads. Heartbreaking! Imagine the fear and anxiety many girls experience each time they are menstruating because they know the wad of toilet paper, newspa ..read more

Procrastination is a silent dream killer. I call it a time sucker. It is enjoyable with bad consequences like “failure” and “delay” most times. It is a “time waster”, PERIOD! Unfortunately, a lot of people aren’t where they are supposed to be in their career or education simply because of procrastination. It is a very convenient way to escape important tasks. Why do we procrastinate? Two things. Laziness and fear are the two main causes. These factors affect kids too. How do we help our kids to overcome procrastination? Over the years, I have used these 5 powerful tips that works extremely wel ..read more