Can you believe it? It’s the end of the year of 2022 already. And, it’s the end of the Love by Design podcast. I spent two years and paid thousands of dollars to record and produce 85 episodes that thousands of people listened to… and loved. You probably wonder, “WHY???” The answer is simple. My new podcast Find the Right Man is BETTER.  And I want you and new listeners to start the new year there. But even deeper…. I let go of attachment to where I’ve been. I’m committed to where I am going. I choose to live in the possibility that exists in the future. Because… You can’t find what ..read more

How can you create the high-quality dating experience of attracting high-quality men to you? Your thoughts create your results in love—your thoughts about the quality of men, the quality of the dating experience and what's possible for you in love. What you can create in love depends on whether it's based on your past, your perceived  limitations, fear, lack or doubt, or whether it’s coming from a place of possibility—a future that doesn't exist yet. That’s exactly what I explore in this new episode, #82, “High-Quality Dating.”  You’re about to discover: ✨ What creates a high-quali ..read more

Have you ever wondered why some women do the exact same things in dating but get completely different results? The simple answer is that they go through different dating phases. Each one creates different experiences, opportunities and results. I came up with these six dating phases based on my experience coaching thousands of women in the last 12 years.  When you are aware of them, when you don't resist them, don’t fight against them and don't try to skip them, then you can confidently navigate your way to your dream relationship. In this week’s episode #81, “The Six Dating Phases,” y ..read more

If yes, I want to offer you this perspective: It's not what you do in dating.  It's not what you say in your online dating profile, texts, or social media pages. It's not whether you reach out to a guy or he reaches out to you. None of these things matter as much as what I’m going to say.. It's what you think about when you do these things. Because your thoughts create your feelings. And how you feel determines what energy vibration you exude. Men unconsciously pick up on that energy. And it will either attract them or turn them off.  Your level of energy also determines WHO ..read more

Happy  Giving… You can think about it from a place of lack or from a place of abundance. The most powerful thing about giving is that you get to create within you. You already have direct, instant access to the unlimited source of energy and love inside of you. You can create energy and love with your thoughts. You can give it to others with your actions. And, you can have MORE of it with your results. During this time of giving thanks, I want to offer you this thought: You have something SO valuable to give. To every MAN you’re interacting with. You can give a smile to a man pass ..read more

Many single women I talk with tell me there are only two reasons why they can’t get into a relationship: not finding the right man, or meeting a man but . . . he doesn’t want to commit.  They think it happens to them when a man doesn’t have time for a relationship or changes his mind or disappears. ??‍♀️ They think that when men don’t commit, string them along, or ghost them is just what happens in dating. ??‍♀️ But being in a relationship is a choice.  What . . .? ? You choose it. Because the way you THINK about it is optional. You ARE in charge of ..read more

We just got back from a 10-day family vacation to the West Coast. I feel so inspired that I started writing a book. As current members of my flagship program, “Love by Design,” share their wins and results (like start dating their dual partner types within just a couple of weeks of joining), I realize that each of them has one thing in common: they all INVEST in themselves. Being smart, professional women, many of us invest in our educational and professional growth, in real estate and in the stock market. Chances are, you'll get the ROI on your investments in terms of better career opportunit ..read more

I love to say that a secret to any great relationship is that you always have something to look forward to together—I think it applies to life as well. So what is the secret to a great and long term relationship?  The secret—of course—anything very easy is easy to maintain. That’s exactly why I created this new episode,  #68 ?️  Being in an easy relationship. I'm going to give you the exact formula and give some examples of how it works in this podcast. Because I think being an easy relationship is possible for each person.  And if you're reading this right now, this is my ..read more

What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to risk everything—rejection, failing, getting hurt? What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to do anything for it? One woman told me, “I’m not willing to invest money in this thing because I’m not willing to risk my savings.”  I said, “That’s how I know you don’t believe. Because if you believed 100% that you’d win, you would risk your savings.” Most women are not willing to do that. But when you’re in a position to win and create the result you want—to be in a relationship with the right man—you show that you believe by the a ..read more

I will let you in on an enthralling and unusual topic inspired by what I would call “The Hero's Journey.” If you think about any great story, usually nothing happens until there is this moment . . .  there is this big “WHY?” Time flies by so fast. Undertaking the same things like dating a man who does not want to commit, and being so overwhelmed, frustrated, and confused should not be an option. You should not wait for something to happen and hope it will happen accordingly. Make a decision. As Tony Robbins said, "Your destiny is shaped." Not by anyone but yourself, who is ..read more