In the last blog post, we discussed that protecting the parent-child relationship starts with you as the parents and your relationship with each other. That is the foundation, but what can you do to secure that relationship when it comes to your children? In the end, it is about investment There are steps North Carolina parents can take every day to fortify the relationship with their children post-divorce. They all center around the power of investment, including: Invest in time: The time during and following a divorce can be hectic. You are getting used to a new, unmarried life. Despite the ..read more

Parents naturally worry about their children and the future of the family. If they get a divorce, those worries can multiply, and they find themselves worried that their individual parent-child relationships will be at risk. So, what can North Carolina parents do to secure that relationship? Parents: It starts with you and your relationship It comes as no surprise that you serve as a role model for your children. Therefore, how you approach the relationship with your ex-spouse will help both of you foster and protect that loving, special relationship with your kids. The most important steps to ..read more

Your name is an important part of who you are. It is not only an identifier but a critical aspect of your identity. That is why many people getting a divorce choose to change their name back to their previous surname. While reclaiming your name may be an important step for you, you must also be aware that there are many other matters to address in the process of your divorce. With so much on your mind, it can help to know some information about this step, so you can prepare yourself and take all of the necessary steps in stride. Get the basics on name changes North Carolina law provides that b ..read more

Going through a divorce is often a time when you need as much support from your loved ones as you can get. Yet, the end of your marriage can create a lack of such support – especially regarding the support you got from your spouse. Here are a few things that North Carolina residents should consider to ensure they find the support they need. Understand: You may be stuck between give-and-take Frequently, a divorce can leave you in a tough position when it comes to receiving and providing emotional support. You may find yourself caught between: Losing the emotional support of a spouse: You may ha ..read more

During your marriage, you may be used to a certain standard of living and certain comforts that a dual-income household can afford. However, after a divorce, the financial landscape of your future can change drastically. Even if your own income is comfortable, you must still consider external factors that can affect your financial health in a single-income household after dividing your marital property. According to various news sources, the rising cost of living is one factor that individuals in North Carolina and across the nation must take into account. How can inflation have an impact? Rep ..read more

A divorce is not merely a legal process of ending a marriage. It is a decision that has a widespread effect on nearly every aspect of your life. There are many changes to anticipate. At the moment, you may have more concerns regarding your family’s future and your financial health. However, the effect on your social life can also be significant. What should you know as you navigate the end of your marriage? One relationship ending can impact others Humans are social creatures. Fulfilling relationships of all kinds help us to thrive. When you divorce, the relationship with your spouse might not ..read more

When you inform your children about the decision to divorce, you should expect them to ask many questions. It will be critical to prepare yourself to answer these questions with compassion and care. One way to do so is to take time to understand your child’s perspective and thought processes. First, know the psychology A very normal stage of psychological development that children go through is often referred to as egocentric thinking or self-centered thinking. This does not mean children are being selfish. Simply put, younger children in this stage often find it difficult to consider a situat ..read more

Dividing your assets is often one of the most pressing matters in your divorce. It brings along with it a long list of questions, regarding ownership and value. Finding the answer to what each asset is worth will be critical – though the process can be complicated. In many cases, you will have to obtain an appraisal for certain assets. Why get assets appraised? Determining what your marital assets are worth is a critical step in divorce. Seeking an appraisal of assets is key in this process, as it can help: Get an informed valuation: You may have some idea of what certain assets are worth. How ..read more

Perhaps you are very active on your social media account. Or maybe you only post once in a while. No matter how active you are on your accounts, you must take steps to protect yourself online. As we discussed in a past blog post, social media plays a significant role – and poses a serious risk – in today’s divorces. So, here are three things you should consider in the process of ending your marriage. 1. Do not make your emotions public Psych Central indicates that you should not post on social media when you are emotional. That guidance applies to everyone, but it is an especially important ru ..read more

There is a long list of factors you must consider when you establish a parenting plan and parenting time. Location, family schedules and, most importantly, your child’s best interests will all play an important role in your custody arrangement. As we discussed in a previous blog post, the other factors that have a claim on your time, such as your work, can also affect your parenting time. Managing your time and balancing all of your tasks can be a challenge. So, what can you do to make the most of the time you have with your kids? Of course, the parenting plan affects time This is an important ..read more