Re: The toll of chronic invalidation and abuse
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31m ago
QuoteI am no contact now. I know I am trauma bonded and there is just no fixing it, and no need for me to continue being in touch. I feel like the more I am in touch, the more history is doomed to repeat itself. working on being happy more now. [/quo ..read more
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Re: Sounds awful, but will he ever just die?
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3h ago
I could have written that one myself. I'll do what must be done to get care in place when needed then I'm dipping out. Peace, friend ..read more
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Re: Sounds awful, but will he ever just die?
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3h ago
I could have written that one myself. I'll do what must be done to get care in place when needed then I'm dipping out. Peace, friend ..read more
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Re: Is every discussion of the relationship an ATTACK
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4h ago
So I am realizing he is mentally ill and it IS NOT ME.  "Hey somebody should have told me about CONFIRMING dinner" should not be seen in the same light as you cheated or stole a bunch of money — but in his mind it is.  I get raged at a lot over really ..read more
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Re: Thought I Was Planning A Funeral
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6h ago
How twisted they seem more emotionally uplifted by terrible news and then become indifferent when he recovers. It's very hurtful to you.  I have had experiences with certain family only seeming to care when the news is gossip worthy or literally start ..read more
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Re: Is every discussion of the relationship an ATTACK
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6h ago
Thank you ..read more
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Re: Bereaved uNPD friend
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7h ago
Kaz1956 - bravo to you for having an honest, difficult conversation with someone you care very much for in hopes to preserve the relationship! That is what love, support and concern looks like and is so rarely seen. This is someone who it seems is par ..read more
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Re: Is every discussion of the relationship an ATTACK
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17h ago
It's a Dr Grande video about BPD and violence. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=J3ioePZ_xQc&pp=ygUWRHIgZ3JhbmRlIGJwZCB2aW9sZW5jZQ%3D%3D ..read more
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Re: My PD Husband is NOT a good man - 'He's so perfect!'
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18h ago
We all put so much on that final act you guys - and I did it but not without a million little practices.  1. We need to recognize that is is obvious and palpable disrespect.  And that YOU DESERVE a partner that cares about YOU to walk slower and care ..read more
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Re: I just realized I am being abused
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18h ago
I just want to thank you all so much.  I could not have done it without you all!!!!  You get beaten down you have no one that will see or choose to validate. So you start to believe that maybe you are the problem / can't do anything right/ don't see th ..read more
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