Out of the FOG
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Out of the FOG is a place for helping family members & loved ones of people who suffer from personality disorders. debate on what God does with emotionally abusive people in the afterlife, tell everyone about your religious fear, discuss your story, and get help & strength from others.
Out of the FOG
6h ago
I am loving this question myself. Is it PD or dementia. Is it decline and incompetence or pd game playing?
A few thoughts that come to mind:
In most cases It does not matter, either way I have to use tools or set boundaries to limit or manage the imp ..read more
Out of the FOG
6h ago
Hey everyone,
I’m new here and would like to introduce myself. I have recently ended my 2 year relationship with part partner who is said to perhaps have BPD and a bunch of other complexities!
Essentially the relationship got abusive and ended in me h ..read more
Out of the FOG
7h ago
Very vexing! There they are in their little bubble and you on the outside - looking in.
Is there any way you can let them be? Accept the injustice of it all? Accept that you have no control over their behavior and no control over your own feelings of a ..read more
Out of the FOG
9h ago
Pepin,
I once read a book that encouraged me to write down stuff about myself I didn’t like. Then to ask a close friend their honest opinion of me. It was incredibly scary. But my friend confirmed the very best things and added to that list. I was so h ..read more
Out of the FOG
9h ago
My child deserves the best I can give. So do I. I need to lose weight. Get more active. Eat more nutritiously ..read more
Out of the FOG
9h ago
My grandparents were extremely abusive. I always thought I got away unscathed due to how my parents fought for us to be safe.
But I finally have to dig into my own trauma. I experience cognitive dissonance. I miss my mom. But in some ways with “fleas ..read more
Out of the FOG
9h ago
Hi desperatedad,
I'm glad you found us. None of us can diagnose here, but I agree the sudden onset right before 18 and the cycling behavior is something to consider before you jump into a PD diagnosis.
If you can give us a little more background on ho ..read more
Out of the FOG
11h ago
Just a quick update, me and DD are now on our holiday. We are both having our struggles, but we are doing fine. To travel with a normal person is amazing, DD is a young teenager but so much more mature than xw ever been.
Love DC, went to see the white ..read more
Out of the FOG
11h ago
This is an amazingly insightful book. It's not about blame nor is it about it being ok. It's neutral and healing.
Three basic needs of infants: nurturing, protection and guidance. When these are unmet infants experience brain and nervous system adapta ..read more